Absolutely Correct. I know this "girl's name" has been used AS IF SHE IS POSTING, but I recall that "her sister" may have posted in her defense also. So, whatever her story is, only SHE has the right to tell it. And she has the absolute right to keep it to herself too. No one should do that just to have more "dirt" on Cheryl. No, that is not right. There just is nt reason for that. Enough harm has been done to kids. The kids have been hurt enough. If they wish to talk, it should be a healing process for them, if that is posssible.