Lady,
Seems to me like you are THE PROBLEM, and you need to get your life straight first.
You can find a job, and you can help your son.
You do not need to think that you can only find a man to take care of you "only if you are good in bed." UNLESS, you'd like to be a prostitute. If that is what you want---then you need to treat it LIKE A REAL JOB.
Get real, OK?
Do not send your son to some treatment center where he is going to be abused. Seems like this boy has enough problems as it is.
Why can't he just go and live with these relatives while you try to get you life in order?
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