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« Reply #105 on: December 30, 2004, 07:51:00 AM »
A process is the fancy term for an activity or section. One process we did was called a stretch. The stretch was to do something that was not necessarily in one's character. For example my stretch was a mime. I have always been a verbal person. A mime communicates in other forms. In doing this stretch I learned that actions speak louder than words. Cliche I know but oh so true. This particular process lasted from the afternoon into the next night. If a child refuses to participate they run the risk of choosing out. This means that based on their actions or lack of they were no longer choosing to participate in the seminar and therefore excused. Naturally the feedback from their group would be certain. Meaning people would have something to say about it. When a seminar is not completed it can hold you back from attaining the next level. Processes were as many as five+ or as few as one a day.
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« Reply #106 on: December 30, 2004, 08:20:00 AM »
Okay, thank you for your answer. I have some more questions if you don't mind.

What processes does the first day of the Discovery seminar include? You've mentioned the "stretch" process and another process in which children walked in a line making silly faces. Were these part of Discovery, or of another seminar?
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« Reply #107 on: December 30, 2004, 08:24:00 AM »
Newbies reading this thread should be aware that the one who "cares" kidnaps children for a living.

He has a financial incentive to convince you that troubled teens respond to no other form of treatment other than being kidnapped from their homes, sometimes by force, and being sent to an abusive "school".

No legitimate treatment center or school will restrict your communication with your children.

No legitimate treatment center or school will require you or your child to fulfill its requirements before being allowed to visit your child or talk to him/her on the phone.

Warning signs of abusive treatment centers/schools can be found here:
http://www.isaccorp.org/warningsigns.html
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« Reply #108 on: December 30, 2004, 09:04:00 AM »
Discovery. MMM let's see if I remember. I remember the walking across the room. At one point there was a process in which we were to walk up to people and choose from a 1 (shaking hands), 2 (?), 3 (a hug). I can't remember what 2 was. Maybe 1 was nothing and 2 was shaking hands. Anyhow what we learned was how easily we changed our number based on the other person. After that we learned Stop Look Choose Vote. Basically a breakdown for making decisions instead of just jumping into them without thinking. Every seminar required that we write a lot. It was like keeping a journal. We played the black and red game. I'll have to get back on you on that one. It's been about 6 years since I last went to Discovery.
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« Reply #109 on: December 30, 2004, 10:45:00 AM »
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Casa by the Sea was not shut down for abuse. It was shut down for political reasons that we may never know completely.


Why do you believe that? What were the political reasons that you do know about?

For example, I believe it was shut down for abuse because I've heard from so many people over the past, what now, 5 or 6 years or so who describe the same types of abuses occuring at various facilities owned and operated by the same people. I believe them because their stories are corroborated by so damned many different people while those who swear there is no abuse in WWASP facilities can only claim that everyone who says so are liars or lunatics.

So what information can you share w/ us to support your belief that there were political reasons for shutting down Casa?

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« Reply #110 on: December 30, 2004, 11:03:00 AM »
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 There is no physical contact unless a kid loses control.


Simple question, (Rick, right?). How do you know this?

I'm not asking if it's true or not or whether or not you believe it. I think we've established that you believe it's true and that I do not.

I can (and have) given you plenty of reasons why I believe as I do. Can you please explain to me how you came to believe as you do? How do you know that no physical contact occures unless the kid loses control? And can you explain what you mean by "loses control"?

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« Reply #111 on: December 30, 2004, 11:17:00 AM »
The one who kidnaps is named Rick? Does his last name happen to be Strawn?

There's a child kidnapper by the name of Rick Strawn who's been charged/convincted of child molestation and assault.
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« Reply #112 on: December 30, 2004, 11:26:00 AM »
//There is no physical contact unless a kid loses control. //

This is simply Not True.
If you believe this, then you believe a lie. It is a Lie.
Kid's are thrown to the ground and tortured for breaking any of the numerious and petty rules.

If this is Rick - then you escorted my son.
You treated him decently. No complaint there. But you withheld information from me. You told me what a great place it was; how great it would be. You didn't tell me they were going to starve him. And you knew. You told him when stopping for his last free meal to eat up. It was going to be a long time before he was able to have a full meal.
Why didn't you allow me this little bit of knowledge?
Could it be you felt I might change my mind if I knew he was going to be kept hungry? Could it be you were more concerned about your bank account?
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« Reply #113 on: December 30, 2004, 11:34:00 AM »
I dont know about YOU Anon,but in my book when a staff member takes advantage physically, emotionally, sexually of a student in their care. When the student is unable to defend themselves from the blantant injustices. I would call that ABUSE. If you ask any normal individual they too would say ABUSE.

I know some individuals thinks it's manipulation,but then they are on the receiving end ($$$$$$) for the lie to continue.
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« Reply #114 on: December 30, 2004, 12:42:00 PM »
No it's not Rick, I* know who he is and don't work for him. As for not eating, I don't know what shool your son went to, but at most of the schools i deal with, they do not starve them. I was told by a girl i took from one program to another that they get a choice at each meal and that is a %50 portion, or %100. The thing i don't agree with is that what ever thier choice they need to eat all of it or get in trouble. As i said i don't agree with everything that is done.But they don't starve them. I was also told that the %100 portion was very large.
 I'm sorry if i can't say my name and who i work for, but there are too many hateful people here and me and my company don't need any hate mail or phone calls. Tha one that cares
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« Reply #115 on: December 30, 2004, 12:46:00 PM »
I think i've said this before, but i am not in this for the $$. I as a transporter do not make that much. An average of $10 an hour for 16-20 hours is what each job comes to. Also 6 jobs in a month is and average month for me. So i just get by some months. So rich i am not and not getting rich either, but helping many kids.
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« Reply #116 on: December 30, 2004, 01:10:00 PM »
The one who cares wrote:
Why don;t you guys go after the prep boarding schools, that don;t do anything to help a kid, but do give them the freedom to do drugs and act out

Traditional boarding schools do not kidnap and hold kids against their will; they do not deny or restrict contact with parents, siblings, and other family members; they do not house kids 24/7/365, kids go home for visits; they do not subject kids to experimental 'therapy' and behvior mod techniques; they do not lie and deceive parents. I fail to understand your rationale, if there is any. Why in the world would anyone go after boarding schools? Would you have us demand that they function like the BM gulags? Could that possibly be what you are suggesting?

***the bottom line is all the complaing you hear is from the most messed up and stubborn kids, who refuse to do anything when they get to these schools and get phsical at times and need to be restrained.

You are full of it buddy. On what do you base that comment? All desenters are messed up and stubborn? I'm sure you can't fathom the possibility that they are intellegent and able to recognize abuse and double standards when they see them. These BM facilities are not 'schools'. They are mind control gulags.

***I have seen grown men weep like babies.
But they know what they are doing is right and that they have tried everything they could and do not want thier kids dead or in jail.

That is certainly one interpretation for their tears. Another is that they might feel a tremedous amount of guilt for being a clueless or self-absorbed parent who is unable to model how to be a responsible adult for their minor offspring.

***Do you people think AA, or NA, or CA are brainwashing millions of people to stop drugs?

Nope. They are brainwashing them to believe that they have no control over their 'addiction'. That they can never have control over their lives and must daily chant that mantra. In that respect, they keep one focused on their 'addiction' rather than the underlying cause. They give up their 'drugs' and become caffiene/tobacco junkies. Just like the programs, it's a form of BM that appears to work on the surface, for some.
Real help is available. It won't be found in a program or any AA program.

***Thank you again Perigaud for showing me what i do is saving kids and that is all that matters to me. The one that cares

Exactly how are you 'saving' kids? Bailing out their lame-ass parents who don't have the most basic respect of carting their kid to a facility. That is the very least they could do. You are simply an accomplice, not a savior.
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« Reply #117 on: December 30, 2004, 01:17:00 PM »
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"No it's not Rick, I* know who he is and don't work for him. As for not eating, I don't know what shool your son went to, but at most of the schools i deal with, they do not starve them. I was told by a girl i took from one program to another that they get a choice at each meal and that is a %50 portion, or %100. The thing i don't agree with is that what ever thier choice they need to eat all of it or get in trouble. As i said i don't agree with everything that is done.But they don't starve them. I was also told that the %100 portion was very large.

 I'm sorry if i can't say my name and who i work for, but there are too many hateful people here and me and my company don't need any hate mail or phone calls. Tha one that cares"


And you don't know that the "50%" portion was actually half the size of the very large portion, or too small.

It would be quite easy to subject the incarcerated person to a mindgame choice of either having to choose to go hungry, or having to choose to gorge themselves sick.

You notice "75%" was not an option?

Okay, you don't agree with some of the crap that happens, I hear you.

What you need to realize is that most of us who are program critics are *NOT* talking in terms of the false dichotomy of choices the program advocates imply.

We aren't talking about zero treatment and zero residential care or the programs as they are now.

We're talking about implementing and enforcing effective safeguards.

Where Ginger and I differ is I want new laws and she wants them to enforce the old ones.

I think the difference comes from two places.  One is that Ginger has been at this a whole lot longer than I have and has a whole lot of relevant personal experience.  The other difference is that, as an experienced activist on another subject, my experiences with laws are on how you make sure they have teeth and actually get the enforcement done.

There are a whole lot of things that are illegal under laws that aren't enforced.  When a law on the books isn't enforced, usually it's because nobody had the political will to do it.  As an activist, once you generate the political will, how you turn it into results is you get legislation passed supplying the missing pieces of the enforcement puzzle.  To get something enforced when the authorities are reluctant it's not enough to just pass a law saying thus and so is illegal.  You have to specify penalties for violations.  You have to assign enforcement responsibility to particular agencies.  You have to pass funding for those agencies for them to do the enforcement.  You have to pass reporting and paperwork requirements for those agencies so that they know there is a paper trail about whether or not they are doing their job of enforcement and make it crystal clear that their professional advancement hinges on doing a good job (some of that--the professional advancement consequences--is a political activism function, not a legislative one).  And then activists have to actually use that paper trail, and the campaign finance paper trails, to hold the feet of the enforcement officials and politicians to the fire in the public eye.

When enforcing regulatory oversight is a source of budget funds, and career advancement, and neglecting enforcement is a source of serious political heat, that's when bureaucrats and law enforcement actually go out and enforce the laws making something illegal.

I'd be fine with enforcing the existing laws, too, except that I think that they need tweaking to be more practically enforceable.

And Ginger is absolutely right that Fornits is doing a fabulous job of generating grassroots political will, especially for the size and resources involved.  She's doing a bang-up job.

We aren't trying to shut down all teen residential treatment or make it any more prohibitively expensive than it already is.

We're just trying to actually get a lot of the things that *you don't agree with either* fixed---permanently and reliably.

Nobody likes being regulated, but I don't expect to drive my car, especially in a major city, without getting an annual emissions inspection and carrying car insurance and maintaining a driver's license.

The programs shouldn't expect to have all these minors living under their care without a whole lot of meaningful government oversight and enforcement to make sure the kids that are there need to be there and are being well cared for.

I'm still just flabbergasted that they seem to think it's not only fine but necessary and right for them to operate with people's *kids* in their care with less meaningful oversight than I muddle along with every day when I drive down the street to the grocery store.

I don't want teen residential treatment shut down---I want it cleaned up.

I want it cleaned up a lot, but basically I just want it cleaned up.

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« Reply #118 on: December 30, 2004, 01:40:00 PM »
Listen, take it from a student, yes the desisto program did help some kids, but at what cost? There were plenty of more sane and humane ways to help kids than the psychological abuse and neglect; the very real crimes comitted upon kids by staff and policy, etc...

The means do not justify the ends.

I will speak out about what went on tthere and will continue to do so. I myself bared witness to many kids who were supposedly putt in this "safe nurturing environment" who were not properly helped or kept safe from themselves. I mean you cant have that much glass around for these kids to chop themselves up with...

It just plain wasnt a safe place and thats why they couldntt get licensed, not because they "were persecuted by the state"
To hear frank McNear and Brian Sweeney talk they sound like they had every right to regulate themselves without state supervision. This is the ego coming out to play. The state sees a need to regulate these sort of schools because protecting these kids is important and institutions like desisto need regulation, otherwise they would continue operating on its shoestring-no safety budget. They skimped on staff to student ratio, innadequate crisis training, and threw all the money into Desisto's pocket and legal defense fund. This is why government regulation is essential: desisto couldnt sacrifice its massive profit margins for adequate training and staff numbers. Especially at the ungodly 30,000+ a year tuition.

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« Reply #119 on: December 30, 2004, 01:50:00 PM »
Ok, you're not Rick Strawn. Thanks for clearing that up.

Now then, how about answering my question?

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On 2004-12-30 04:37:00, one who cares wrote:



 There is no physical contact unless a kid loses control.




Simple question, (Rick, right? [wrong]). How do you know this?


On what do you base your stayed belief that no physical contact occures unless a kid loses control and how are you defining the term "loses control"?

Please?

Pretty please?
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