Ok, first of all, this forum isn't a referral agency for WWASPS, so kindly stick the source up your ass.
Second, well, just read the forum and ISAC about all of this.
These programs are a great way to get rid of a hated child, or a good way to soak up money from stupid, and/or scared parents.
Has she been actually evaluated by professionals for these supposed problems? Is ALL that mother listening to, is what someone who wants her money and her kid saying?
Do you think that mother would listen to anything any of us would have to say? If so, please try to contact her with some information.
At the VERY least, make her read *all* of
http://www.askquestions.org/articles/teensMake damn sure communication is not cut off, and the mother is willing to stand up for her kid and pull her out at any sign of trouble or if they isolate her from her kid.
But, now that I've re-read what you say, I either have to tell you its kind of hopeless unless you could get relatives to get through to her mother, and I wish you well, or you might be someone from a program fishing for people to sue.
My contact information is in my profile. There really isn't a damn thing that could be done if her mom is just that mean or manipulated into thinking this girl has to be there. All I could tell you is that when that girl gets out she's going to need a lot of therapy. :sad:
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