Need Help: How to give the perfect blow job?

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[Anonymous]

I have tried both. An un-shaven Pussy gross!
Don't like tolet paper balls ::blushing:: Really Gross! A man? At least it is salty and gos with my tequila. I have no teeth now so will he like it more or less? :nworthy:

[Anonymous]

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Learn how to give a man a blowjob BJ properly

Giving The Ultimate BlowJob!
by WiseWoman

One of the most sexy ways a man can be pleasured is when a woman adores his cock. I think a cock represents about 80% of his ego , so if you want to make your man smile from his soul; you need to completely and thoroughly ADORE his cock. One of the BEST ways to do this is to suck it for him. And I don't mean just lightly lick it, I mean take it in your hand, devour it, lick it hard, suck it hard and feel it down your throat.

First of all, men know if you like doing this or not, just by how you go about it. If you don't like it, he will know because the enthusiasm is not there. Be PASSIONATE about giving head. Go for the gusto and it will turn him on so incredibly that he will say "I had the BEST blowjob today," and he will remember it for many hours of masturbation later.

A woman in charge of the blowjob and who wants to seriously give her man pleasure is in control of him in this moment. Make sure he knows YOU are sucking him; he is NOT fucking your face! One thing I always tell the man is not to put his hand on my head. I don't need any help pushing my head down. God I just HATE that!!!

Here are some tips (hee hee, pun intended) for truly making love to your partners penis:

1) Grab his cock hard and suck it hard. Let him tell you if it's too hard. Don't be afraid you will hurt him. Have you ever seen a man jack off??? You think he's going to seriously hurt himself. LOL. He yanks that thing and pulls it so hard, you think he is going to pull it off!!!

2) Make noises like "mmmmm" or moan when you take it into your mouth. He will feel like he is a yummy lollipop as you slurp his love muscle. He is thinking to himself, "Oh she just loves my cock," and this excites him unbelievably. Remember,
you are sucking his EGO.

3) Get it WET. Most men LOVE sloppy slurpy juicy blowjobs. The saliva heats up with friction and is a real turn on for the man.

4) Stroke his balls, but do this carefully. I love men who shave down there because the softness of their skin is such a turn on to me. Also, licking is more fun and sucking balls that are shaved is HOT!!

5) Create a good suction and pop his cock in and out of your mouth. On circumcised men (more common in America than anywhere in the world) the lip of the helmet is sensitive and some men just go wild when you flip this lip as if you could tip it off his shaft. This is a technique that many don't know about, but it drives men nuts. The part that is most sensitive is the part underneath where the shaft meets the head and causes a valley up the head to the pee hole. Flick this spot in an upward motion with your rigid tongue and cup the rest of the head with your mouth and lips, sucking at the same time. Then plunge his cock down your throat while tonguing his shaft.
wildly, creating suction as if it is stuck to the roof of your mouth. Any time you can suck then tongue then suck, you can get incredible results and moans from your man. (They are usually looking up at the heavens by this time )

6) Let him watch as you master his cock (ego). If you are lying on the bed between his legs, or if he is standing looking down, he is intently watching you. Use one hand to stroke his tummy, balls, up and down his legs, thighs, nipples, and hold his cock with the other hand so you can guide it carefully away from your back teeth. Guys, who pull your hand away, sometimes regret it because they don't realize you are keeping his precious head from those sharp grinders in the back of your mouth. If they've pulled your hand away though, it might be an indication that you were squeezing too hard, or that he wants you to take his cock deeper into your mouth, especially if he is small (4" or less) and your hand takes up most of the length of the shaft. Going all the way down is incredibly pleasurable for the man to see his cock disappear (as if down your throat).

7) One time I was with some bi men and was watching how they sucked each other and one technique I had never tried is to start at the tip and spiral down to the bottom of the shaft. Twist your head and mouth as you go down. Apparently this feels great for the man. Go all the way down. If he is too long for you to do this, go as far as you are comfortable with going. The gag reflex kicks in when you go too far but you can
circumvent that reflex with practice in opening up your lower throat. I love to be able to get ten inches down my throat. Who doesn't??? (We know where it eventually ends up don't we?? Hee hee hee).

:cool: Suck his balls. Men don't usually get a lot of attention to their balls because most women think they'll hurt them. But if you gently stroke them and suck them by taking one into your mouth at a time, tonguing it then moving to the other one, you will see how much enjoyment is derived from this attention. Then use your tongue horizontally up the vein of the cock and feel him gasp when you again, suck the head into your mouth.

9)Don't forget to use your tongue a lot. The flicking and wagging of your tongue using good pressure is very pleasurable. Try twirling it around the head one way, than the other way. Again, this will bring gasps and moans.

10) I recently discovered how much fun playing with an uncircumcised cock is. All that skin is fun to suck on and lightly chew on. Most men who are uncut are extremely sensitive when you expose his penis by pushing the skin all the way down and holding it down to suck him (but be careful here as some can find this painful). You have to ask the man which he prefers. Exposed or unexposed. And leaving the skin up makes it a little difficult to create and maintain a good suction, but it is much easier doing the up and down motion with gliding smoothness. Sometimes I try to leave the skin up and stick my tongue between the outer skin and see how far down I can slide my tongue in before the skin folds back with my motion. Pressure is important too. Squeezing with your lips as you move up and down is VERY important. Consistent pressure evenly squeezing with a hand and lips is usually what makes him cum.

11) Another little trick that makes my men gasp with pleasure is when I use my teeth ever so gently on the cap of the penis. Be sure there is a lot of saliva for gliding your teeth on. I start out by having my teeth clenched together at the tip of the penis. Then as I glide down the cap I slowly open my jaws. My lips are closed around the shaft as my head moves downward. Then I flick my tongue as my teeth give way and cause a suction with it. This sensation seems to bring a new experience to each recipient and usually elicits some comment like. "My God, where did you learn that??"

12) And last but not least, swallowing cum. I have asked men which they prefer. A woman swallowing his cum or him jacking off in the last seconds before he cums, onto her breasts, ass or whatever. Many men grew up watching porn and in all porn, pulling out of the mouth and other orifices is the norm, so the viewer can see the glorious "cum shot." As a result, many men associate an awesome orgasm with pulling out and cumming on her breasts, face, tummy or ass as he strokes. It is a turn on to see the fruits of your labor for sure, or feel the warm love juice on your breasts. And it's especially nice when the man then goes and gets a warm washcloth, and cleans you up after that. That is a return compliment. But most will say they want you to swallow. Of the top 5 questions MOST asked by guys online, "Do you swallow?" is one of the most asked questions. This is because if you remember in the beginning, my first point was; a man's ego lives in his penis. If
you swallow his ambrosia, his EGO is given the ULTIMATE compliment.

After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.

You are now equipped with some knowledge of how to pleasure your partner in ways he might not be familiar. Listen to the noises he makes and be acutely aware of what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience plus passion plus proper pressure plus variety of moves plus swallowing his cum is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job.

[Anonymous]

Great article. I really adored giving my boyfriend head and even fantasized about it when I was alone. But it's always good to learn a few new fun tricks.

But how about pussy licking? Aren't there any men out there who wish to bone up on their pussy licking skills?

I have to say that it helps when you know your pussy is his favorite entree...

[Anonymous]

On 2005-12-09 09:01:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Great article. I really adored giving my boyfriend head and even fantasized about it when I was alone. But it's always good to learn a few new fun tricks.



But how about pussy licking? Aren't there any men out there who wish to bone up on their pussy licking skills?



I have to say that it helps when you know your pussy is his favorite entree... "

Nice comments.

I agree, mutual admiration and choice of entree is, IMHO, the peak of human existence.

I recall many great lovemaking sessions, but one
time after a long 69 session and mutual climax we
both lost our strength and just collapsed into
each others bodies, and laughed, and laughed ...
oh my, that was heaven.

[Anonymous]

Cunnilingus

What is cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm.  The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many find unrivaled.
Quick Tip

When performing oral sex on your woman, take the time to explore all her erogenous zones. Many women love to be caressed on the nape of the neck, the arms and inner thighs. Take your time and really get her worked up before you head down below.

If you're looking for a more detailed approach, we recommend Guide To Oral Sex. This video will help you communicate your desires and teach you some valuable techniques.  The perfect video to watch with your lover.

Techniques to better cunnilingus

The clitoris is central to female sexual arousal, as it contains most of the sexually charged tissues in the body. The logical first step for many lovers, therefore, is to directly stimulate the clitoris right off the bat. The catch is many women will not be very responsive to this jump-for-the-clitoris approach. Take things slow at first, kissing and licking her stomach and thighs, then the area around her clitoris. Build her arousal level slowly, gradually increasing pressure and speed with your mouth. Once you know she?s aroused (i.e. if she?s told you or motioned so) you can then move to the clitoris.

Many women enjoy a massage of the mons. The mons in the mound of skin which is found on top the pubic bone above the vaginal opening. Take one or both of your hands and carefully move the mons and surrounding area much the same way you would massage someone's shoulders. Be careful not to press too hard or make too wide a circular movement. As you manually stimulate the mons, you can move your mouth to the vulva. When soothing her vulva with your tongue, you may wish to concentrate solely on the clitoris after some stimulation of the labia or you may wish to lick the surrounding areas. Some women need constant clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm so ask your partner what she would have you do. Clitoral stimulation can be exciting but don't be too eager.

The way that you use your tongue is important. Provide different textures by altering the natural flex of your tongue. When your tongue hangs limp and flat, it provides a soft caress. When your tongue is flexed and rigid it provides more direct and firm stimulation. Try some of each and determine which your partner prefers. Some women will want rapid motions of continuous licking while others prefer long, slow caresses.

Lubricants are usually thought of in terms of penetration only, but they can add excitement during cunnilingus as well. You can try a nice water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide Strawberry. Lubricants come in a wide variety of flavors and help protect the sensitive tissues of the vagina during stimulation.

When a woman becomes sexually aroused her vagina balloons and her uterus rises. Women often enjoy the feeling of penetration during oral sex. This penetration can be well lubricated fingers or a dildo.  While there is a wide selection of dildos on the market, some men may feel uncomfortable using a dildo that resembles a penis.  A great solution to this problem is the E-glass line of dildos.  The elegant design of these glass products allows them to double as inconspicuous art that can be kept on the shelf as opposed to hidden in a drawer.  Gently follow the natural curvature of the vagina for smooth entry. If you find that it's a little difficult to coordinate everything you should try the Accommodator. You've got to see this one to believe it. It's a chin-mounted dildo. What will they think of next?

Performing better cunnilingus

Two things should accompany you any time that you engage in oral sex: being comfortable with yourself and your partner, and your ability to communicate.

Feeling comfortable

If you feel uncomfortable about performing or receiving oral sex, don't do it. It is better to stop, relax and communicate about your feeling with your partner before you begin. Oral sex involves very intimate areas, in the most intimate ways. It explores tastes, smells and feelings unlike any other form of lovemaking. Feeling comfortable about your body and your partner may take time, and you should take all the time you need. The results will be better for both of you.

Good Communication

You will never know what your partner wants or finds satisfying unless you talk to them. If it is your first time with a particular partner, communication may seem uncomfortable. Don't worry. Do you really think that your new partner will be annoyed or upset if you ask her what she wants? A vast majority of women will be quite pleased. Do not be discouraged if you partner offers you advice; be overjoyed because you are learning what they find pleasurable which will make you a better lover as a result. A sense of humor is another great way to ease any tension which may exist between new lovers. A light-hearted approach to your sexual encounter will make it more enjoyable for both of you.

Positioning for better cunnilingus

Before launching into a detailed discussion of techniques, let's consider the range of possible positions for cunnilingus. Each position will be uniquely satisfying, so it is best for you and your partner to experiment and determine which one(s) you prefer. Most couples begin with the woman sitting in a chair or on the bed. This gives full access to the genitals and support to the back so that the woman is relaxed and her hands are free to stimulate herself. The partner performing oral sex can lie or sit facing the woman, free to use his or her hands for stimulation with the fingers.

Another popular position is for the woman to squat on all fours over her lover's face as she or he is lying down. Some people prefer this position because it allows a woman to move her pelvis to accentuate the stimulation. This position also allows a couple to mutually stimulate one another (the so-called ?69?) when it is performed each partner at opposite ends. If you are a more meticulous giver of oral sex, you may not like this position because it is difficult to place your tongue right where you want it. Couples who wish to engage in playful dominance-submissive role playing might like to try standing while the other partner performs oral sex on his or her knees.

In recent years, toys have been produced to mimic the sensations of cunnilingus.  Introduced by Lady Carlston, The Tongue, is probably the most popular of these toys.  The Tongue can be the perfect addition for couples who want to add to the sensations of regular cunnilingus, or for women who want to continue when their partner is not around.


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After he cums in your mouth, slowly pull away and leave the penis alone now. It is painfully sensitive and can't bare any more attention for a few minutes. A nice warm washcloth placed on his shaft and scrotum feel lovely to him as well, while he is resting and recuperating.

Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.

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[Anonymous]

Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.

It is so nice to read about a lady who understands
a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the
ultimate.

I am sure you get many times back the pleasure
you give your men.

BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:
http://semenex.com/

The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen  "...as delicious as it is nutritious"        - FHM Magazine  (March 2001)

... and in only 24 hours.

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On 2005-12-11 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:

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Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.

It is so nice to read about a lady who understands

a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the

ultimate.



I am sure you get many times back the pleasure

you give your men.



BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:

http://semenex.com/



The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen  "...as delicious as it is nutritious"        - FHM Magazine  (March 2001)



... and in only 24 hours.

"

i think if you go back and read this thread from the beginning, you'll find the "lady" is a man.  just letting you know.

[try another castle]

On 2005-12-11 14:18:00, Anonymous wrote:

"

Actually, I'm able to keep it in my mouth with a lot of guys. Just don't suck. I like to lay there between his legs gently holding it in my mouth, and then after a while, very gently start sucking on it again. I can usually work him up to get hard and come a few more times. I really like that. It turns me on, and is a big ego boost as well.

It is so nice to read about a lady who understands

a man's pleasure and cares to treat him to the

ultimate.



I am sure you get many times back the pleasure

you give your men.



BTW - is the taste ok, or have you ever tried:

http://semenex.com/



The Patented Shake Mix for Men proven to make Semen  "...as delicious as it is nutritious"        - FHM Magazine  (March 2001)



... and in only 24 hours.

"

Yeah, I'm a guy. Did I already talk about that BJ technique in this thread? Oops, sorry. My memory is bad. (It might be under an anonymous post, before I signed up and got a username.)

And I'm not too picky when it comes to the taste of cum. I don't know what this product is, but I'm not interested, unless they make cum-flavored cum, and that would be rather redundant.

It tastes kind of weird if the guy had brussels sprouts or asparagus the previous day. And sometimes I've gotten a weird metallic taste if the guy is doing poppers.

The best tasting cum I ever had was from a diabetic. The condition makes the cum taste a little sweet. MMmmm. s'like candy!

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[Froderik]

On 2005-12-08 19:49:00, Anonymous wrote:

"I have tried both. An un-shaven Pussy gross!

Don't like tolet paper balls ::blushing:: Really Gross! A man? At least it is salty and gos with my tequila. I have no teeth now so will he like it more or less? :nworthy: "

:rofl: :eek:

[Anonymous]

what's poppers?

[Anonymous]

On 2005-12-13 06:53:00, Anonymous wrote:

"what's poppers?"

http://dancesafe.org/documents/druginfo/poppers.php

WHAT ARE POPPERS?

* "Poppers" is the popular name for various alkyl nitrites, including isobutyl nitrite, butyl nitrite, and amyl nitrite.
   
* Doctors used to prescribe amyl nitrite for heart patients in capsules that were broken or "popped" to release vapors.
   
* Amyl nitrite is made and sold illegally, but most poppers are isobutyl nitrite or butyl nitrite sold in small brown bottles as "video head cleaner," "room deodorizer," or "leather cleaner."
   
* The exact contents of these products are not known, and they are not safety tested.

WHAT ARE THE EFFECTS?

* Poppers are used by sniffing the vapors from an open bottle. The effects are felt within a few seconds and last for 1-2 minutes.
   
* Poppers cause muscles around blood vessels to relax, making your heart speed up to pump more blood. Oxygen-rich blood reaching the brain produces a "rush" sensation.
   
* Because poppers cause muscles in the anus and vagina to relax, they are often used during sex.

BE CAREFUL.

* If swallowed call 911 or Poison Contol.
   
* Contact with the skin causes irritation and rashes. Extensive use can damage the nose and lungs.
   
* Some people experience headaches, sensations of spinning or falling, and loss of erection.
   
* Poppers are highly flammable. Keep away from cigarettes, candles, and lighters.
   
* Studies show that poppers reduce the functioning of the immune system for several days after use.
   
* Because poppers cause blood vessels to open, it is easier to get an infection, including sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV.
   
* Poppers pose extra risks for people who have suppressed immune systems, heart problems, low or high blood pressure, a history of cerebral hemorrhaging, anemia, or are pregnant.
   
* Combining poppers with stimulants like speed and cocaine increases risks. Combining poppers and Viagra is dangerous because both cause blood pressure to drop.
   
* Poppers can affect your judgment. If you are planning on being intimate, put on a condom before you use them.
   
* To prevent spilling and evaporation, pour a small amount in a separate bottle filled with cotton and store tightly sealed in a refrigerator or freezer.
   
* Possession of amyl nitrite without a doctor?s prescription is illegal. Federal law bans the manufacture and distribution of butyl nitrite and related substances, although these provisions have not been enforced.

* Supported by a grant from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Inc. and Electric Dreams Foundation

[try another castle]

It also seems to be very popular within the gay community, because it relaxes your ass for fucking or fisting and it gets you harder. (sometimes.) But my friend said all it did was give him a headache the one time he tried it. He called it "headache in a bottle."

It also smells totally nasty. Sometimes I can smell it when the guy uses it, and sometimes I can't.

[Anonymous]

On 2005-12-13 10:07:00, sorry... try another castle wrote:

... relaxes your ass for fucking or fisting ...

Doesn't the feces in someones colon gross you out?

Or, to say it another way, how do you get by that?