It's my belief that most parents don't understand BM. I think it would be useful to have some dialog on this topic. And to explore and consider if the methods used are actually BM or aversion therapy and punishment.
Consider this from a college psych textbook.
PUNISHMENT- in many ways opposite of reinforcement*. Lowers the probability of an undesirable response [behavior] by adding an unpleasant (pain-producing or otherwise aversive) stimulus or by removing a pleasant one [consequences] when the undesirable response is made.
*Reinforcement (negative) increases the probability of a desired response by removing an unpleasant stimulus when the correct response is made. An example: grounding.
Grounding a kid until his/her room is clean is a negative reinforcer, and considered the desirable approach. Grounding a kid for a week or weekend for not cleaning their room is punishment- an undesirable approach.
APPLICATION- spanking, scolding, disapproving looks, withholding affection and/or attention, removing privileges, imprisonment.
DISADVANTAGES- Skinner argued that punishment does not extinguish undesirable behavior; but rather, only suppresses it when the punishing agent is present. Too often indicates which behavior is unacceptable but fails to help develop more appropriate behavior. The ?punished? often becomes fearful and feels angry and hostile toward the ?punisher? leading to a desire to avoid or escape the punisher and/or retaliate. [from personal experience and observation I would say that is can also lead to self destructive tendencies- child internalizes the punishment and then self punishes- cutting, anorexia, etc.] Being subjected to punishment frequently leads to aggressive and/or violent behavior.
CONCLUSION- Parents and teachers should explore other means of handling misbehavior. If administered, it should not be excessively harsh.
I contend that sending a child to a residential facility is punishment, a harsh punishment.
I agree with Skinner, that punishment does not extinguish undesirable behavior, and puts parent/teacher in the role of behavior police. We only have to look at juvenile prisons to confirm this fact. However, when punishment is consistent and unreasonable, I believe the child will internalize this conditioning and come to punish him/herself. Some would view this as ?success? initially, and would not associate subsequent self-destructive behaviors with the conditioning by punishment.
RTCs and TBSs overuse/abuse punishment and can cause harm. When administering BM, controversial even when admistered 'appropriately'; prileges are consider to be- tv, video games, extra-curricular activities, hanging out with friends, going out, using the car, etc. Programs consider, contact with parents and family, privacy in written and spoken communications, unmonitored access to phones, contact with the outside world, adequate nutrition, access to toiletries, visits home, among other things, to be privileges. They are, or should be, Rights.
From the text: the most basic generalization concerning positive and negative reinforcement is that we will ?perform acts of behavior? in order to gain pleasure and ?escape pain?. A ?primary? reinforcer is one that fulfills a ?basic physical need for survival? and does not depend on learning. Examples: food, water, sleep, sex, termination of pain. [I would add, close connections with other people]
Pay attention here- Fortunately, learning does not depend solely on primary reinforcers. If that were the case, we would need to be hungry, thirsty, or sex starved [isolated and lonely] before we would respond at all. Bingo! Connecting the dots?
I think RTCs and TBSs are actually a form of ?Aversion? therapy- used to rid clients of harmful or socially undesirable behavior by pairing it with an extremely painful, sickening, or otherwise aversive stimulus. Ex: electric shock, emetics, etc. until a strong negative association is formed and the person comes to avoid that behavior.
Throughout the section on BM it is frequently repeated that it works best in an institutionalized situation.
Then we have brilliant thinkers like Dorothy Corkille Briggs, author of ?Your Child?s Self-Esteem?, who encourages parents to consider a different approach altogether. To forgo punishment and rewards One which respects the child and if implemented correctly, eliminates the need for ?punishment?.
On isolation- Avoid isolating an angry child, unless he prefers to be alone. Being sent to his room (or isolation chamber) smacks of rejection, which only compounds negative feelings. The goal is to REDUCE emotional burdens, not increase them.
Parents have 3 options:
1) Keep power- Authoritarian
2) Abdicate power- Permissive
3) Share power- Democratic
Many cannot share power because they need to make up for their own lack of self-worth. Controlling others gives them a sense of importance.
Methods of control- Physical violence (fear), Scolding/belittling (rejection, shame, humiliation), Withdrawal of love/attention (behavior manipulator, as children need love), denial of food, Withholding of privileges, Isolation, and Rewards (bribery and praise).
Authoritarianism is great training for children who will live under dictatorships, but far from adequate for children who will be expected to think independently- literally instructs not to trust their own capacity to reason and judge.
Behavior is caused. Whenever misbehavior is continuous, you must deal with its source to eliminate it. Chronic misbehavior is a child?s way of telling us that something is awry in his life. Take a serious inventory and eliminate the deficits you find. How you ?discipline? affects how your child lives his life.