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« Reply #60 on: July 12, 2004, 02:44:00 PM »
I sent my child to Thayer, and Parent Help helped me find it. I am so thankful because it turned my kids life around. Thanks TLC and Parent Help.
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« Reply #61 on: July 12, 2004, 02:49:00 PM »
I dont know why anyone would say that Thayer is abusive. I know first hand that they are not. Of course the person that writes all of these things never adds their name.
 TLC has given put alot of kids back on the right trac for success.
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« Reply #62 on: July 12, 2004, 05:37:00 PM »
It's the same kind of stuff that is posted on other programs.  If you believe what you read here, then ALL programs are abusive, unless of course, they haven't been around long enough, or not big enough to bother with.

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« Reply #63 on: July 12, 2004, 06:41:00 PM »
You know, the three previous postings all have careless spelling or grammar errors in them.

Not to be a spelling fanatic, I just find it interesting.

I have to wonder if they're by the same person and if that person has a financial stake in Thayer.

Other than that, obviously someone who can't type a one paragraph internet posting without spelling or grammar errors isn't the best person to give advice on quality schooling.

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« Reply #64 on: July 12, 2004, 07:28:00 PM »
I posted prior to your post Timoclea.  I have no experience of Thayer.  I was commenting on the posts against any program admission.

Since spelling and grammar are what you are noticing, go back and scan the posts from those that share your point of view for spelling and grammatical errors.

That'll keep you busy!
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« Reply #65 on: July 13, 2004, 07:37:00 AM »
A friend of mine recently sent her step daughter to TLC BootCamp - I am wondering if the child will come back or try to run away. The father took the child to the airport telling her he was sending her away to a Teen Adventure Camp and at the gate told her it was military school and she would be there a while. She went nuts and the Police escorted her to the plane. We live in the San Francisco Bay Area. Does anyone know if this is normal for the police to do? After I heard this story I am seriously re-evaluating my friendship with the step mom of this child.

If your friend's name is Tina I'd really like to talk to you in private.  Please contact me at [email protected].
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« Reply #66 on: July 13, 2004, 07:42:00 AM »
Bull!  Parent Help and Thayer Learning Center are John and Willa Bundy.  That much can not be disputed.  What can not be nailed down is the Bundy's qualifications for running either.
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« Reply #67 on: July 13, 2004, 09:07:00 AM »
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On 2004-07-12 16:28:00, Anonymous wrote:

"I posted prior to your post Timoclea.  I have no experience of Thayer.  I was commenting on the posts against any program admission.



Since spelling and grammar are what you are noticing, go back and scan the posts from those that share your point of view for spelling and grammatical errors.



That'll keep you busy!



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1) The norm for education for teens is living at home and going to the local schools.  The burden of proof is on Program advocates.

2) If you'll notice my own other posts, you'll see that I readily acknowledge specific situations in which residential care is appropriate.  My concern is with stopping inappropriate admissions, improving quality of care for appropriate ones and ensuring the closest proximity to family possible.

3)  Since most of the critics of programs are program survivors who got their education inside the programs, and had the money set aside for their higher education consumed by the programs, their poor spelling and grammar only bolster their claims that the education offered by the programs they attended was substandard.

4)  I believe I have, repeatedly, spoken well of the statistical track record of the original Outward Bound.  It's not a cure-all, it's not appropriate for everyone, but within its sphere of competence it appears to do a good job.

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« Reply #68 on: July 15, 2004, 01:43:00 AM »
Interesting KEV, that you thought I had time or energy to be involved in chatsite. I can understand you are embarassed for sending your son to Thayer without investigation, how convenient for you as well. Your intentions were good but the place is wrong for him. And yes, he might get his diploma when he is 25 due to their stringent regimen and your deep pockets. Please let him get real legitimate help before it is too late. My love and concern is as always for him. He is a good kid who deserves good decision making from the parents I know love him and who need to acknowledge healing work for all family members. TLC is not the place for healing or learning.
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« Reply #69 on: July 16, 2004, 01:59:00 AM »
Yes, Tina is the name. Send me an e-mail at [email protected].
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« Reply #70 on: July 16, 2004, 03:36:00 AM »
Yes, the name is Tina.  Please send email to [email protected]

I forgot the word "party" when I posted last.
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« Reply #71 on: July 16, 2004, 04:05:00 AM »
There are many abusive teen programs and parents should be very careful. When there are hundreds of horror stories one must realize that there must be some truth to them.  There have been so many deaths and injuries.  These programs may be more interested in your money than your child. Try telling them you don't have the money and see how fast they tell you that they are sorry.  They are looking for people with deep pockets.
There are so many less drastic steps that can be taken. Try being a parent -set limits, restrictions. Oh - it does take time - one must think about this BEFORE having children, or step-children for that matter....

To err is human; to forgive is simply not our policy.

 

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« Reply #72 on: July 16, 2004, 02:05:00 PM »
Why all this secrecy? Just say it!
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« Reply #73 on: July 17, 2004, 12:33:00 PM »
The Bundy's are dead. Did you experience include crossing over and visiting spirits?
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« Reply #74 on: July 17, 2004, 03:11:00 PM »
The Bundy's are dead?  When did John and Willa Bundy die?
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