Some say to send your child to a family member or friends so that your child can have the checks and balances. Let me tell you my family is the worst example a child could have, they are all into drugs. My mother was a school teacher that allowed every daughter of hers to be molested, and none of the other family members work, but live off the system. So when I heard of the program I thought I was getting the best for my child, unfortunately not, and now my child too is living with posttraumatic stress disorder and has to learn to control his behavior more thatn i! How sad that people make or pass judgement when thaty haven't walked through another person'as shoes. I did the best I could given the circumstances and was completely vulnerable to wwasp! I was the prey and they were the folgers, but somehow there will be vengance from somewhere and that is good enough for me!!!!!!