Paul wrote:
Danny, you were at Elan...
A person complains of a headache due to an actual medical condition, they get put in a ring to get their head beat in, and they die.
A person has a severe back problem. A doctor notifies Elan that this person requires surgery. Instead of surgery, this person is focred to do all sorts of "back-breaking" work. her back is permanently disfigured.
A disfigured back
A dead boy
Isolated incidents, or are they connected. They are connected by the mental illness of those who ran the facility.
Danny, you know that the majority of the stories told on this site are by no motherfucking means, isolated incidents. It does not require logic, debate, or semantics. You know it to your fucking bones. Face it!
Paul St. John
Paul before we go to far into this particular conversation you must know my position on these incidents. First off the gentleman who died in the ring I have yet to corroborate this story with anyone that speaks with credibility. If you can find people who can fine but I will remain neutral on this one for now. This lady with the disfigured back, once again I can not find anyone to corroborate the story.
Paul I'm sorry to say this and will probably take a beating but as far as Elan is concerned there has been so much embellishment to so many stories that I don't have much faith.
That being said, Yes there was abuse at Elan.
Just a normal day of operation would have been abusive, do to the screaming and hollering that went on. Haircuts eg: verbal criticism for something you did wrong shouted at you by four or five people ( even for minor infractions), group therapy eg: encounter groups either being involved screaming at another or just witnessing this.
Paul everyone you have spoken to that went to Elan, knowingly and willingly participated in the abuse in one way or another. Your right at Elan it was not a isolated experience insofar as day to day operations and every house was the same to one degree or another. All of us were involved in this craziness yet there was a part of all of us that wanted it to stop but we were helpless to do it.
Sounds very sad doesn't it, it does.
The employees were fucked from the beginning because they really weren't employees, we were still residents but with a stipend. Joe still treated us no different. None of us Marty, Peter, Jeffery, Marc ect.....He controled you.
So Paul yes and no on the isolated Incident theory concerning Elan,
"yes" Elan was a "Isolated Incident" to the extent that Joe controlled everything and
"no" as to the many houses Elan had and they were all abusive.