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« Reply #45 on: June 03, 2010, 03:23:10 PM »
:cheers: Danny don't give up,, ::unhappy::  ::unhappy::  ::poke::  you got-em on the ropes now
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« Reply #46 on: June 03, 2010, 03:23:52 PM »
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Re: Danny at Daytop
« Reply #47 on: June 03, 2010, 03:57:25 PM »
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Inculcate starts it right off, starts asking me questions about Daytop that I take personal (since I had never been here) so I get defensive
Why on earth would you get defensive about being asked about a place you never attended?
Fwiw, according to Danny and as first posted (#15) on December 6, 2009 in the are there any success stories? thread, he did attend Daytop:

    ...One addict helping another is a miracle if you do not know this then you weren't a Alcoholic/Addict of my type and that is ok. I have been clean and sober for 21yrs. That I share for my own reasons but I believe to a certain degree it qualifies me to get a seat at the table also I am qualified because I spent from 6/71 till 1/77 incarcerated in one form or another. In drug treatment programs Daytop 71, Marathon house 73 and Elan 75 in between in and out of Y.C.C. in Cranston R.I. So I understand full well what everyone here is talking about and I am willing to be a student. But I won't just sit around and talk about the problem with no end in site, we also have to talk about the solution. To end here in 1971 I was twelve years old. Thanks Love and Peace Danny[/list]

    Here was Inculcated's response (#16) that Danny took so personal:

      Hi Danny Bennison,
      I was startled to see how many of these programs you were in. I’m happy you’ve found a happiness and stability away from your addiction (21 years-nice) and very sincerely sorry that you had to endure so much to get there.

      What are the reasons that you were in three of these very similar, but separate programs? In addtion to Elan, I am very curious to know what your recollections of Daytop and Marathon House were like. Which facilities were you in?
      [/list]

      Danny's response (#17):

        Inculated, This name does not help me to want to open up and explain anything. If you want to give me your full name I will get more intimate with my personal history. It would also help if you could share your own experiences that relates to what I shared earlier if you can't identify with me in life history I would very much appreciate you not asking me questions so direct. Not trying to be snotty just setting the table that's all. My full name is Daniel Lee Bennison email (d.b.lee@comcast.net). Why because I can. Thanks Love and Peace Danny[/list]

        ...And, it kinda goes downhill f-a-s-t from there. This thread might be insightful reading for someone, lol.
        Only idiots believe there is nobody smarter than them. :jawdrop:
         :deal:
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        « Reply #48 on: June 03, 2010, 04:15:32 PM »
        Try again little one....you'll get the hang of the quote feature one of these days.  I can't even wade thru this one, you've fucked it up so badly.  


        I'm tellin' ya guys....it really is starting to feel like we're picking on a Down's kid or something.  If he weren't such an asshole, I might feel a little guilty.  :seg2:







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         Just who are you, oh ex staff....asshole.

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        You made a point of talking A LOT about how you were Asst. Director.  That goes a bit beyond a teen counselor caught up in the hype, don't ya think?  And the entire attitude that you displayed...who was it, Paul I think, that said you came with the sense that you were the "new sheriff in town" and he was dead on!  You were gonna clean up nasty ole Fornits....for it's own good and against it's will.  
        No Anne I have made no point of talking about any of my Elan experiences. Very little have I talked all because of you and folks like you. Anne nobody opens up here.

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        Inculcate starts it right off, starts asking me questions about Daytop that I take personal (since I had never been here) so I get defensive

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        Why on earth would you get defensive about being asked about a place you never attended?
        Dip shit I was there in 1973 read, you keep proving what Whooter has always said about you.

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        (instead of pm'ing me to explain the ropes here, no she cuts me like a piece of meat right out in the open), Felice is asking me to suck Marty dick, that was my third day I think.

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        Go fucking cry about it ya pussy!  THIS is where you need to understand how your presence here, with the "staff" personality you spew out all over anyone and everyone (except your butt buddy Whooter) brings out such anger......You - an Asst. Director of one of the most sadistic and abusive programs is crying about people being mean?  About how they're not being nice to you???  Put your big-boy pants on and man the fuck up you spineless piece of shit!  I'm sorry, but THAT is EXACTLY why so many people have such a problem with you. Did you ever read Rich's apology to the Straight people? He was also an "executive staff" but I tell ya...he presented himself 180 degrees from how you did and he's ended up well respected for it.
        Anne you really need to get this through your head once and for all time. I don't care what fornits, Elan posters here or you think of me or about me. I stopped caring long ago about the staff/director status (I carry this persona that I must be aware of so as not to hurt folks) "fuck-you", who said you, fornits, Felice. Who made up this rule that Danny Bennison because he was staff at 17yrs of age has to watch what he says and the way he acts towards other survivors. Who made this rule, I was 17 a bonafied Coordinator. No you folks needed a staff/Director on here never really had one before, so I was good enough. Well again it is over people take your animosity and shove it. I will act as I have always done since the third day being here. Thanks to Inculcate(kimmy) and Felice.  
        I thought you would use Rich as a example, stop not only is Rich a friend douche bag,I have much respect for him, I sit as a administrator with him elsewhere. Don't, I mean don't even compare yourself to him or quote any of his experiences. You could not even carry his jock to the gym for him.
        Nice speech....

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        So whatever Antigen on your and Annes little theory, (fornits) melts people down, example today Pile with poster "sad". Could you get any more brutal, sad part he is just play'in a part he invented some time ago. Dude doesn't act like that in real life.

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        And I highly doubt you do either.   You're too much of a crybaby to talk that shit to people face to face. Guaran-damn-teed!!
        I am in Florida right now just down the street from you. Know what I mean. Vacation in Tampa. Short hop, skip and jump from you. Name the place, love to talk with you and your daddy.
        All my shit is done face to face you fucking coward bet Matty is sucking on your tit right now.
        Please call 404-936-6141 be here till 6/21/10. Be looking fo ya.

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        Acts just like "Sean Hannity", it is a act, Sean is getting paid. Pile is getting paid, vengence (get back) attention and most of all validation.

         
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        What the fuck are you babbling about?
        Yo Daddy........

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        Your right if your thinking I'm no different, (I'm going to be worse) to open your eyes to the brutality that goes on here. Keep blaming it on me, most of you folks that have been here the longest Ursus, Anne, ect.....Bravo keep piling it on.


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        The hostility and brutality towards YOU is because of YOU.
        Anne wake up stop with your denial we went through this with the AA posts.

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        You only show posters how much intelligence you have,really.

         :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


         
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        Antigen you probably came here with your ideas, lonely and raging and this opened up to become a vent for you but that is your story.

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        Yeah.....and.....??
        Hey do you do this with your family also??????????


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        All the studies, analysis's, diagnosis, trials, conferences that you folks post they are the individual or (plural) opinions and stories (if such the case) not ours necessarily.


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        Not "ours"?  Who are you referring to?
        You do do this to your family, no wonder why your daughter has a problem with you. Control freak.

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        A lot of you folks post articles and studies by others and then talk about them like their your experiences (I understand identifying but in reality their not mine)

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        Ok...I don't think anyone was even remotely attempting to speak for you dear.  I don't think we'd know how.  :ftard:

        Would be nice if you read that again and answered it properly.
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        , hardly anyone speaks in the "I".
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        Because we've rehashed our own stories enough.
        No you haven't Anne, read your posts. Are you that blind or just hardheaded.
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        Frankly, I've done enough venting about my own personal pain.
        NOooooooooooooooooooooo you have not girl. WHOOooooooo the fuck are you kidding.
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        Hell, I've been here off and on for damn near 10 years trying to first, figure out my own shit
        And what is that supposed to mean, where did you get your help, how did you get your help. Anne I'm sorry to be the only one to say this but STFU. Nobody gets therapy here girl wtf is your problem. This is a one sided conversation where the therapist is yessing you to death. What have you figured out, "How to treat people like shit that don't agree with you", your arrogant sarcastic mouth doesn't help anyone but Sharon. Seriously Anne you push people away not attract. Oh I know, Danny you do it too. "YOUR RIGHT BUT I'M DOING IT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW YOU ASSHOLES WHAT YOU DO TO FOLKS THAT COME HERE TRYING TO FIND HELP. YOU STUBBORN FUCKERS ARE SO SET IN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESSES YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING ELSE".
         
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        and then later to warn parents and kids about what really happens in the shitpits and offer help, if I can
        .
        What "shitpits", where are they. Are they really there, do we really know that. Anne have you gone out and visited any of the shitpits or has anyone else here. Do we really know what were talking about. Is there a arm to fornits that investigates physically these shitpits. Poses as someone else, at least tries to verify the stories.
        That would be a BIG NO........WE SIT AND COPY AND POST WAITING FOR THE NEXT NEW COMER TO COME ALONG AND ENLIGHTEN US TO THE NEW MODALITY SO WE CAN PLUG IT IN TO OUR OLD MODALITY.
        Ya Annie girl you keep beat'in the shit out of the new comers especially the ones who say they had a good experience. That works......

        Danny
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        Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
        « Reply #49 on: June 03, 2010, 04:19:53 PM »
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         Just who are you, oh ex staff....asshole.

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        You made a point of talking A LOT about how you were Asst. Director.  That goes a bit beyond a teen counselor caught up in the hype, don't ya think?  And the entire attitude that you displayed...who was it, Paul I think, that said you came with the sense that you were the "new sheriff in town" and he was dead on!  You were gonna clean up nasty ole Fornits....for it's own good and against it's will.  
        No Anne I have made no point of talking about any of my Elan experiences. Very little have I talked all because of you and folks like you. Anne nobody opens up here.

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        Inculcate starts it right off, starts asking me questions about Daytop that I take personal (since I had never been here) so I get defensive

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        Why on earth would you get defensive about being asked about a place you never attended?
        Dip shit I was there in 1973 read, you keep proving what Whooter has always said about you.

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        (instead of pm'ing me to explain the ropes here, no she cuts me like a piece of meat right out in the open), Felice is asking me to suck Marty dick, that was my third day I think.

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        Go fucking cry about it ya pussy!  THIS is where you need to understand how your presence here, with the "staff" personality you spew out all over anyone and everyone (except your butt buddy Whooter) brings out such anger......You - an Asst. Director of one of the most sadistic and abusive programs is crying about people being mean?  About how they're not being nice to you???  Put your big-boy pants on and man the fuck up you spineless piece of shit!  I'm sorry, but THAT is EXACTLY why so many people have such a problem with you. Did you ever read Rich's apology to the Straight people? He was also an "executive staff" but I tell ya...he presented himself 180 degrees from how you did and he's ended up well respected for it.
        Anne you really need to get this through your head once and for all time. I don't care what fornits, Elan posters here or you think of me or about me. I stopped caring long ago about the staff/director status (I carry this persona that I must be aware of so as not to hurt folks) "fuck-you", who said you, fornits, Felice. Who made up this rule that Danny Bennison because he was staff at 17yrs of age has to watch what he says and the way he acts towards other survivors. Who made this rule, I was 17 a bonafied Coordinator. No you folks needed a staff/Director on here never really had one before, so I was good enough. Well again it is over people take your animosity and shove it. I will act as I have always done since the third day being here. Thanks to Inculcate(kimmy) and Felice.  
        I thought you would use Rich as a example, stop not only is Rich a friend douche bag,I have much respect for him, I sit as a administrator with him elsewhere. Don't, I mean don't even compare yourself to him or quote any of his experiences. You could not even carry his jock to the gym for him.
        Nice speech....

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        So whatever Antigen on your and Annes little theory, (fornits) melts people down, example today Pile with poster "sad". Could you get any more brutal, sad part he is just play'in a part he invented some time ago. Dude doesn't act like that in real life.

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        And I highly doubt you do either.   You're too much of a crybaby to talk that shit to people face to face. Guaran-damn-teed!!
        I am in Florida right now just down the street from you. Know what I mean. Vacation in Tampa. Short hop, skip and jump from you. Name the place, love to talk with you and your daddy.
        All my shit is done face to face you fucking coward bet Matty is sucking on your tit right now.
        Please call 404-936-6141 be here till 6/21/10. Be looking fo ya.

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        Acts just like "Sean Hannity", it is a act, Sean is getting paid. Pile is getting paid, vengence (get back) attention and most of all validation.

         
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        What the fuck are you babbling about?
        Yo Daddy........

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        Your right if your thinking I'm no different, (I'm going to be worse) to open your eyes to the brutality that goes on here. Keep blaming it on me, most of you folks that have been here the longest Ursus, Anne, ect.....Bravo keep piling it on.


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        The hostility and brutality towards YOU is because of YOU.
        Anne wake up stop with your denial we went through this with the AA posts.

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        You only show posters how much intelligence you have,really.

         :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


         
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        Antigen you probably came here with your ideas, lonely and raging and this opened up to become a vent for you but that is your story.

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        Yeah.....and.....??
        Hey do you do this with your family also??????????


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        All the studies, analysis's, diagnosis, trials, conferences that you folks post they are the individual or (plural) opinions and stories (if such the case) not ours necessarily.


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        Not "ours"?  Who are you referring to?
        You do do this to your family, no wonder why your daughter has a problem with you. Control freak.

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        A lot of you folks post articles and studies by others and then talk about them like their your experiences (I understand identifying but in reality their not mine)

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        Ok...I don't think anyone was even remotely attempting to speak for you dear.  I don't think we'd know how.  :ftard:

        Would be nice if you read that again and answered it properly.
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        , hardly anyone speaks in the "I".
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        Because we've rehashed our own stories enough.
        No you haven't Anne, read your posts. Are you that blind or just hardheaded.
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        Frankly, I've done enough venting about my own personal pain.
        NOooooooooooooooooooooo you have not girl. WHOOooooooo the fuck are you kidding.
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        Hell, I've been here off and on for damn near 10 years trying to first, figure out my own shit
        And what is that supposed to mean, where did you get your help, how did you get your help. Anne I'm sorry to be the only one to say this but STFU. Nobody gets therapy here girl wtf is your problem. This is a one sided conversation where the therapist is yessing you to death. What have you figured out, "How to treat people like shit that don't agree with you", your arrogant sarcastic mouth doesn't help anyone but Sharon. Seriously Anne you push people away not attract. Oh I know, Danny you do it too. "YOUR RIGHT BUT I'M DOING IT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW YOU ASSHOLES WHAT YOU DO TO FOLKS THAT COME HERE TRYING TO FIND HELP. YOU STUBBORN FUCKERS ARE SO SET IN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESSES YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING ELSE".
         
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        and then later to warn parents and kids about what really happens in the shitpits and offer help, if I can
        .
        What "shitpits", where are they. Are they really there, do we really know that. Anne have you gone out and visited any of the shitpits or has anyone else here. Do we really know what were talking about. Is there a arm to fornits that investigates physically these shitpits. Poses as someone else, at least tries to verify the stories.
        That would be a BIG NO........WE SIT AND COPY AND POST WAITING FOR THE NEXT NEW COMER TO COME ALONG AND ENLIGHTEN US TO THE NEW MODALITY SO WE CAN PLUG IT IN TO OUR OLD MODALITY.
        Ya Annie girl you keep beat'in the shit out of the new comers especially the ones who say they had a good experience. That works......

        Danny
        <face palm>

        Danny, what do you really mean by the following, just wanna make sure I understand this correctly... Are you saying that you had or have plans on "directing" efforts here on fornits?

          "...Anne you really need to get this through your head once and for all time. I don't care what fornits, Elan posters here or you think of me or about me. I stopped caring long ago about the staff/director status (I carry this persona that I must be aware of so as not to hurt folks) "fuck-you", who said you, fornits, Felice. Who made up this rule that Danny Bennison because he was staff at 17yrs of age has to watch what he says and the way he acts towards other survivors. Who made this rule, I was 17 a bonafied Coordinator. No you folks needed a staff/Director on here never really had one before, so I was good enough."[/list]

          And is this how the former Asst. Director teaches us how to have manners when we post?

            And what is that supposed to mean, where did you get your help, how did you get your help. Anne I'm sorry to be the only one to say this but STFU. Nobody gets therapy here girl wtf is your problem. This is a one sided conversation where the therapist is yessing you to death. What have you figured out, "How to treat people like shit that don't agree with you", your arrogant sarcastic mouth doesn't help anyone but Sharon. Seriously Anne you push people away not attract. Oh I know, Danny you do it too. "YOUR RIGHT BUT I'M DOING IT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW YOU ASSHOLES WHAT YOU DO TO FOLKS THAT COME HERE TRYING TO FIND HELP. YOU STUBBORN FUCKERS ARE SO SET IN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESSES YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING ELSE".[/list]

            And last but not least, is this yet another one of your thinly disguised threats?

              I am in Florida right now just down the street from you. Know what I mean. Vacation in Tampa. Short hop, skip and jump from you. Name the place, love to talk with you and your daddy.
              All my shit is done face to face you fucking coward bet Matty is sucking on your tit right now.
              Please call 404-936-6141 be here till 6/21/10. Be looking fo ya.
              [/list]
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #50 on: June 03, 2010, 04:26:53 PM »
              I don't think he can help it.  

              http://isnt.autistics.org/dsn-staff.html

              Criteria for Staff Personality Disorder
              Personality Disorders
              Staff Personality Disorder 601.83

              A pervasive pattern of condescension, degradation of others, and controlling behavior beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

                 1. Condescending or degrading use of body language, vocal inflection, and behavior.
                 2. Presentation of two or more markedly different personality styles based entirely on context.
                 3. Persistent protection of people in positions of power even if such people have done something unethical or illegal.
                 4. Employment in one of the "helping professions", or other situations in which a person has or can secure power over others.
                 5. Rigidity in application of rules and explanations to other people
                 6. Persistent or stereotyped use of euphemisms, jargon, deceptive language, and double standards in language
                 7. Persistent use of degradation, ridicule, and violence, either gratuitously or grossly out of proportion to the situation

              Diagnostic Features

              The essential feature of Staff Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of condescension, degradation of others, and controlling behavior that begins by early adulthood and is present in a variety of contexts.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder display condescending or degrading body language, vocal inflection, and behavior (Criterion 1). They may use a patronizing "contaminated" smile, a sing-song voice, or the forms of language use described in Criterion 6. This behavior would be considered patronizing when directed at the average individual.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder present two or more markedly different personality styles based entirely on context (Criterion 2). For instance, while dealing with "clients", while alone, they may be vicious, punitive, and controlling. When dealing with the general public, they may adopt a saintlike persona. It is not at all uncommon for the antisocial behavior of people with Staff Personality Disorder to go unnoticed, even when that behavior extends to torture or murder.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder will persistently protect people in positions of power, even if those people have done something unethical or illegal (Criterion 3). This may consist of putting up a "united front" to clients or to the public. People with this disorder will hide or excuse antisocial behavior in others with the disorder. Hiding may take the form of altering logs and failing to report abuse. Excusing may involve character assassination directed toward victims of mistreatment or abuse, or diminishing their credibility in some other way, while making it seem as if the behavior is the only logical response to certain sorts of people. They will also use these techniques of hiding and making excuses, to justify and rationalize their own behavior.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder are often employed in one of the "helping professions", or other situations in which a person has or can secure power over others (Criterion 4). People with this disorder are disproportionately represented among psychiatric technicians, group home workers, home health care aides, social workers, special education teachers, counselors, nurses (especially psychiatric nurses), direct care staff, and institution staff. People with this disorder may also be grammar-school teachers, prison guards, and other professionals in positions of direct power over others. These positions may be either the cause or the result of the disorder.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder are rigid when applying rules and explanations to other people (Criterion 5). This, curiously but characteristically, may not extend to others with this disorder. Individuals with this disorder are likely to use a narrow set of rules to understand the behavior of others, particularly clients. They will see most ordinary behavior as manipulative, attention-seeking, or non-compliant. When confronted with something like violence on the part of clients, they will fail to differentiate between malice, self-defense, and frustration at being trapped. This may result in across-the-board application of punishments such as are described in Criterion 7.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder may display persistent or stereotyped use of euphemisms, jargon, deceptive language, and double standards in language (Criterion 6). They euphemistically refer to others as special needs, challenged, or consumers. They prefer jargon to ordinary language, and describe the behavior of others using clinical and psychiatric jargon, often loosely adding such jargon into everyday conversation, e.g. saying that someone they dislike has a Borderline Personality Disorder. They use deceptive language, for instance referring to prisons as hospitals and violence as treatment. They use double standards in language, e.g. referring to themselves as getting bored but to clients as going off task. They may apply certain words in a stereotyped fashion, repeating over and over that others are non-compliant, attention-seeking, manipulative, or playing games, without apparent regard to context or motivation.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder display persistent use of degradation, ridicule, and violence, either gratuitously or out of proportion to the situation (Criterion 7). Degradation may take the form of degrading language such as "retard" or "psycho", denial or pathologization of the existing identity or roles of others (for instance telling someone that thinking he is a writer is a delusion of grandeur), treating people like children, or assigning humiliating tasks. More advanced forms of degradation involve using elaborate methods to thoroughly confuse a person's sense of reality or self on all levels. Ridicule might include laughing at the aspirations or humiliation of clients, or laughingly dismissing their communication or behavior. Violence includes physical or sexual assault, mechanical restraints, chemical restraints, and solitary confinement. These things may be undertaken gratuitously, on a whim, as a result of boredom or frustration. They may be out of proportion to the situation, such as restraining someone for making eye contact with staff. These things are often justified using the means described in Criterion 3.


              More at the link above.
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              Re: Danny at Daytop
              « Reply #51 on: June 03, 2010, 04:54:57 PM »
              Quote from: "Eliscu2"
              Hi Danny Bennison,
              I was startled to see how many of these programs you were in. I’m happy you’ve found a happiness and stability away from your addiction (21 years-nice) and very sincerely sorry that you had to endure so much to get there.

              What are the reasons that you were in three of these very similar, but separate programs? In addtion to Elan, I am very curious to know what your recollections of Daytop and Marathon House were like. Which facilities were you in?
              :


              Wow!  That Inculcated is some PITBULL!

              I mean with all that question-asking!  Where do we draw the line?

              I mean, it is beyond obvious that what she is really saying here is " You are Ex-Staff?  Asshole!  You are not welcome here!"

              I ll yell ya!  Inculcated is damn lucky that Danny didn t tear her dishonest heart right out of her chest..

              ... and  deposit is with Ursus and the other organic matter to be wained away.

              Paul
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #52 on: June 03, 2010, 05:20:27 PM »
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              « Reply #53 on: June 03, 2010, 05:47:40 PM »
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              No Anne I have made no point of talking about any of my Elan experiences. Very little have I talked all because of you and folks like you. Anne nobody opens up here.

              So, let me get this straight.  You're now saying that you haven't been stating that you were an Asst. Dir. at Elan?  Have I got that right?

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              Dip shit I was there in 1973 read, you keep proving what Whooter has always said about you.

              No, Danny.  I just have the balls to admit when I'm wrong.  You have no balls.

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              Anne you really need to get this through your head once and for all time. I don't care what fornits, Elan posters here or you think of me or about me.

               :rofl:  :rofl:

              Oh yes you do!

               :rofl:  :rofl:

               
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              Who made up this rule that Danny Bennison because he was staff at 17yrs of age has to watch what he says and the way he acts towards other survivors. Who made this rule,


              There is no rule you insipid little twit.  It was a suggestion because you were crying about how mean everyone was being to you.  *sniffle, sniffle* Awww...poor wittle baby.


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              I was 17 a bonafied Coordinator.


              So are you lying now or were you lying when you said you were Asst. Dir.?


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              No you folks needed a staff/Director on here never really had one before, so I was good enough.


              See!!!  I called it!  Staff Personality Disorder!!


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              Well again it is over people take your animosity and shove it. I will act as I have always done since the third day being here. Thanks to Inculcate(kimmy) and Felice.


              Ah yes, classic.  Blame your behavior on someone else.  Nice personal responsibility there bub!  What would your sponsor say?  :eek:


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              I thought you would use Rich as a example, stop not only is Rich a friend douche bag,I have much respect for him, I sit as a administrator with him elsewhere. Don't, I mean don't even compare yourself to him or quote any of his experiences. You could not even carry his jock to the gym for him.

              Oh just stop it you moronic waste of oxygen.  First, I didn't compare myself with Rich.  I compared and contrasted how Rich handles himself to how you do. Second, Rich is a dear friend of mine.

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              Nice speech....


              Thanks!  I thought so.
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              I am in Florida right now just down the street from you. Know what I mean. Vacation in Tampa. Short hop, skip and jump from you. Name the place, love to talk with you and your daddy.
              All my shit is done face to face you fucking coward bet Matty is sucking on your tit right now.
              Please call 404-936-6141 be here till 6/21/10. Be looking fo ya.


              Hmmmm, is that a veiled threat?  And who is Matty?


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              Hey do you do this with your family also??????????

              Do what?

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              You do do this to your family, no wonder why your daughter has a problem with you. Control freak.

              What the hell are you talking about?   Have you seriously had some kind of a breakdown or something?  Should we be worried about you?


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              No you haven't Anne, read your posts. Are you that blind or just hardheaded.

              Well, see Danny boy....Fornits has been up and running for a lot longer than you've been here.  I have rehashed my story over and over and over again.

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              And what is that supposed to mean, where did you get your help, how did you get your help.

              From various sources.  A decent therapist and really good friends and family mainly.

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              Anne I'm sorry to be the only one to say this but STFU. Nobody gets therapy here girl wtf is your problem.

              Where has anyone ever claimed that?  Have you seriously lost your mind?

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              Seriously Anne you push people away not attract.


              I don't give a shit.  I'm not here to "attract" anyone.

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              Oh I know, Danny you do it too. "YOUR RIGHT BUT I'M DOING IT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW YOU ASSHOLES WHAT YOU DO TO FOLKS THAT COME HERE TRYING TO FIND HELP. YOU STUBBORN FUCKERS ARE SO SET IN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESSES YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING ELSE".

              Staff personality disorder strikes again.  You just can't help yourself, can ya?
               
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              What "shitpits", where are they. Are they really there, do we really know that.





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              Anne have you gone out and visited any of the shitpits or has anyone else here. Do we really know what were talking about.

              Yes and yes.
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              Is there a arm to fornits that investigates physically these shitpits. Poses as someone else, at least tries to verify the stories.

              Well, Fornits doesn't do it, but some of us have individually.
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #54 on: June 03, 2010, 05:58:31 PM »
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              I don't think he can help it.  

              http://isnt.autistics.org/dsn-staff.html

              Criteria for Staff Personality Disorder
              Personality Disorders
              Staff Personality Disorder 601.83

              A pervasive pattern of condescension, degradation of others, and controlling behavior beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

                 1. Condescending or degrading use of body language, vocal inflection, and behavior.
                 2. Presentation of two or more markedly different personality styles based entirely on context.
                 3. Persistent protection of people in positions of power even if such people have done something unethical or illegal.
                 4. Employment in one of the "helping professions", or other situations in which a person has or can secure power over others.
                 5. Rigidity in application of rules and explanations to other people
                 6. Persistent or stereotyped use of euphemisms, jargon, deceptive language, and double standards in language
                 7. Persistent use of degradation, ridicule, and violence, either gratuitously or grossly out of proportion to the situation

              Diagnostic Features

              The essential feature of Staff Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of condescension, degradation of others, and controlling behavior that begins by early adulthood and is present in a variety of contexts.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder display condescending or degrading body language, vocal inflection, and behavior (Criterion 1). They may use a patronizing "contaminated" smile, a sing-song voice, or the forms of language use described in Criterion 6. This behavior would be considered patronizing when directed at the average individual.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder present two or more markedly different personality styles based entirely on context (Criterion 2). For instance, while dealing with "clients", while alone, they may be vicious, punitive, and controlling. When dealing with the general public, they may adopt a saintlike persona. It is not at all uncommon for the antisocial behavior of people with Staff Personality Disorder to go unnoticed, even when that behavior extends to torture or murder.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder will persistently protect people in positions of power, even if those people have done something unethical or illegal (Criterion 3). This may consist of putting up a "united front" to clients or to the public. People with this disorder will hide or excuse antisocial behavior in others with the disorder. Hiding may take the form of altering logs and failing to report abuse. Excusing may involve character assassination directed toward victims of mistreatment or abuse, or diminishing their credibility in some other way, while making it seem as if the behavior is the only logical response to certain sorts of people. They will also use these techniques of hiding and making excuses, to justify and rationalize their own behavior.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder are often employed in one of the "helping professions", or other situations in which a person has or can secure power over others (Criterion 4). People with this disorder are disproportionately represented among psychiatric technicians, group home workers, home health care aides, social workers, special education teachers, counselors, nurses (especially psychiatric nurses), direct care staff, and institution staff. People with this disorder may also be grammar-school teachers, prison guards, and other professionals in positions of direct power over others. These positions may be either the cause or the result of the disorder.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder are rigid when applying rules and explanations to other people (Criterion 5). This, curiously but characteristically, may not extend to others with this disorder. Individuals with this disorder are likely to use a narrow set of rules to understand the behavior of others, particularly clients. They will see most ordinary behavior as manipulative, attention-seeking, or non-compliant. When confronted with something like violence on the part of clients, they will fail to differentiate between malice, self-defense, and frustration at being trapped. This may result in across-the-board application of punishments such as are described in Criterion 7.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder may display persistent or stereotyped use of euphemisms, jargon, deceptive language, and double standards in language (Criterion 6). They euphemistically refer to others as special needs, challenged, or consumers. They prefer jargon to ordinary language, and describe the behavior of others using clinical and psychiatric jargon, often loosely adding such jargon into everyday conversation, e.g. saying that someone they dislike has a Borderline Personality Disorder. They use deceptive language, for instance referring to prisons as hospitals and violence as treatment. They use double standards in language, e.g. referring to themselves as getting bored but to clients as going off task. They may apply certain words in a stereotyped fashion, repeating over and over that others are non-compliant, attention-seeking, manipulative, or playing games, without apparent regard to context or motivation.

              Individuals with Staff Personality Disorder display persistent use of degradation, ridicule, and violence, either gratuitously or out of proportion to the situation (Criterion 7). Degradation may take the form of degrading language such as "retard" or "psycho", denial or pathologization of the existing identity or roles of others (for instance telling someone that thinking he is a writer is a delusion of grandeur), treating people like children, or assigning humiliating tasks. More advanced forms of degradation involve using elaborate methods to thoroughly confuse a person's sense of reality or self on all levels. Ridicule might include laughing at the aspirations or humiliation of clients, or laughingly dismissing their communication or behavior. Violence includes physical or sexual assault, mechanical restraints, chemical restraints, and solitary confinement. These things may be undertaken gratuitously, on a whim, as a result of boredom or frustration. They may be out of proportion to the situation, such as restraining someone for making eye contact with staff. These things are often justified using the means described in Criterion 3.


              More at the link above.
              Maybe a complimentary trip to JRC would help.
              Camp Eugenics is full right now due to 5 truckloads of Mexicans sent as a prank from Sherriff Joe in AZ.
              I really recommend Electroshock Therapy too, although I have never tried it I have heard wonderfull success storys from the relatives of the people who were shocked. This must be proof that Danny has no insight into his own illness.
              He needs his loving Family to intervine in his Mental Health problems. ::evil::
              I think we should be kind to him while he GATHERS INFORMATION FOR THE BOOK HE IS WRITING AS A PAID ELAN TROLL.
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              « Reply #55 on: June 03, 2010, 06:12:35 PM »
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #56 on: June 03, 2010, 06:15:22 PM »
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              Once again wanted to clear away the rubble so we can clearly see what I am writing.


              You failed.  Miserably!
               :roflmao:
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #57 on: June 03, 2010, 06:20:32 PM »
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              Anne still waiting to here when you,daddy and I are going to meet face to face. I promise I will not be crying.
               
              Danny


              Please expound on this.   You make sick, sexual comments towards me....tell me that you're, what was it  "a hop, skip and a jump" away from me and have been verbally abusive to me.   Are you threatening me?  Just trying to clarify the situation. Should I be scared?
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              Re: Simply put please don't contact me again for the last ti
              « Reply #58 on: June 03, 2010, 06:32:12 PM »
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              Quote from: "DannyB II"
              No Anne I have made no point of talking about any of my Elan experiences. Very little have I talked all because of you and folks like you. Anne nobody opens up here.

              So, let me get this straight.  You're now saying that you haven't been stating that you were an Asst. Dir. at Elan?  Have I got that right?

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              Dip shit I was there in 1973 read, you keep proving what Whooter has always said about you.

              No, Danny.  I just have the balls to admit when I'm wrong.  You have no balls.

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              Anne you really need to get this through your head once and for all time. I don't care what fornits, Elan posters here or you think of me or about me.

               :rofl:  :rofl:

              Oh yes you do!

               :rofl:  :rofl:

               
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              Who made up this rule that Danny Bennison because he was staff at 17yrs of age has to watch what he says and the way he acts towards other survivors. Who made this rule,


              There is no rule you insipid little twit.  It was a suggestion because you were crying about how mean everyone was being to you.  *sniffle, sniffle* Awww...poor wittle baby.


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              I was 17 a bonafied Coordinator.


              So are you lying now or were you lying when you said you were Asst. Dir.?


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              No you folks needed a staff/Director on here never really had one before, so I was good enough.


              See!!!  I called it!  Staff Personality Disorder!!


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              Well again it is over people take your animosity and shove it. I will act as I have always done since the third day being here. Thanks to Inculcate(kimmy) and Felice.


              Ah yes, classic.  Blame your behavior on someone else.  Nice personal responsibility there bub!  What would your sponsor say?  :eek:


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              I thought you would use Rich as a example, stop not only is Rich a friend douche bag,I have much respect for him, I sit as a administrator with him elsewhere. Don't, I mean don't even compare yourself to him or quote any of his experiences. You could not even carry his jock to the gym for him.

              Oh just stop it you moronic waste of oxygen.  First, I didn't compare myself with Rich.  I compared and contrasted how Rich handles himself to how you do. Second, Rich is a dear friend of mine.

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              Nice speech....


              Thanks!  I thought so.
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              I am in Florida right now just down the street from you. Know what I mean. Vacation in Tampa. Short hop, skip and jump from you. Name the place, love to talk with you and your daddy.
              All my shit is done face to face you fucking coward bet Matty is sucking on your tit right now.
              Please call 404-936-6141 be here till 6/21/10. Be looking fo ya.


              Hmmmm, is that a veiled threat?  And who is Matty?


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              Hey do you do this with your family also??????????

              Do what?

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              You do do this to your family, no wonder why your daughter has a problem with you. Control freak.

              What the hell are you talking about?   Have you seriously had some kind of a breakdown or something?  Should we be worried about you?


              LOL!  Anne, you did not know that Danny has hidden cameras in everybody's household?


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              DannyB II wrote:
              I'm creeping you out....lol. You spread your legs in the open and you have the mouth to go with it.


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              What the hell are you talking about? I get the potty mouth reference, but wtf is the spreading the legs deal? This is why people are seriously starting to wonder about your sanity.


              LMAO!  Danny is one of the craziest MFers I have ever come across...
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              « Reply #59 on: June 03, 2010, 06:35:32 PM »
              Danny, you sick old bastard.. Would you just get your mind out of the gutter?

              Anne has not spread her legs in this forum, and I am not wearing a vagina suit.  You sure have a one track mind.


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