Integrity and Elan

[Anonymous]

Hi,
As most of you know my name is Daniel L. Bennison, I live in Georgia.
This will be brief and to the point.
DOB   3/1/59
Resident Elan   6/75 - 1/77
Employee         1/77 - 11/78
Resigned          11/78

The reason I am disturbed about the pic, is b/cuz you are invasive. This facebook site is a personal site,
where my childrens, family and dear freinds pics and thoughts are. Now your going to say hey I went to
the Elan site, impossible all of you are not on there, it is invitation only, unless Tim got you the pic. You
also went into my computer and put 2 files. I know funny, for now.
This was done with a certain degree of malice I have not witnessed in a long time. Folks there is something
very seriously wrong here and I realized there is not anything I can do to help, so I am stepping aside.
 Why is it everytime you (this elan group) think you have found something on me, you feel I have to explain it.
 Why??? I am not indebted to you folks to explain anything. I did feel a sense of duty to help you folks or at least be
there, because I was staff. Well that feeling has left and been replaced with a desperation to flee from you. Some of you really do need help, I hope you get it. Not all Elan Survivers are like you folks and that doesn't mean we don't want
the same things we do. Were just not going to act out the same way. Actually I am beginning to believe you are a
waste of time to be involved with concerning Elan. Please go your way and do what you must, I will do mine, really.
I am a surviver to, I was sent there also. Do the math I was 17yrs. old as staff. I will not explain this anymore. To you folks (this group).
Last but not least you all know allready that pic (redhead) is not me. It is still not me. End of story.
6'1'ht / 230lbs / Br  hair/ Br eyes.........white guy.....he is extra white....lol
...........Thank You and Good Luck.............Danny.............

[Joel]

Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010

[Anonymous]

I hear you.
I have absolutely no evidence to prove who you are or or not.
I am willing to give you the benifit of the doubt.
That being said you have just as much right to freedom of speech around here as anybody I do or do not personally know.
We have all been very mean to each other.
This is not productive.
Lets just call this all a big "Learning Experience" and move on to common ground.

Felice I say this with a fondness only you know I have for you as a friend. This idea that I need to be
given the benefit of the doubt. Where is that coming from (me being staff or trust issues w/ you),
in either case I find it very unfair. In your thought I start already down 2 points, no I don't nor will
I live my life like that. My friends in and out of recovery and the surviver friends, we meet on
equal ground. We all come with are baggage and we get to keep it when we leave. lol Ya'know why
b/cuz if everybody threws theres onto the floor and we all got to see, most of us if not all would
pick our own back up.
You know one of the biggest reasons I'm here (on this site)is to survey whether it would be advantageous for us to think
about conducting a Conference for survivers, hopefully hosted by mutiple entities in this industry. The surviver
industry and all the componets that make it up. We see the industry for treatment, lets clarify this industry.
Marvelous way to help do that...............Love and Peace........Danny :shamrock:  :shamrock:  :shamrock:

[psy]

I hear you.
I have absolutely no evidence to prove who you are or or not.
I am willing to give you the benifit of the doubt.
That being said you have just as much right to freedom of speech around here as anybody I do or do not personally know.
We have all been very mean to each other.
This is not productive.
Lets just call this all a big "Learning Experience" and move on to common ground.

Well put.  I couldn't agree more.

[Anonymous]

Sharon you are not a child and nobody is hurting you, but if you need some refresher course on how to treat fellow Elan folks why don't you read your posts you wrote about Felice last week. Damn Sharon the problem w/ you is you have selective memory.
No you have managed in just the short time I've known you to hurt more people then I ever have. What is sad is you don't want to see this.
Oh I've heard they shut your site down again, gee go figure I said that would happen. Hey also read what you were saying about the admin here too. Now everything is nice, that is good really. Shit it better be you don't have a site. lol
Now all these Elan people your talking about, your right I don't give a rats ass about them.....read it again "I don't give a rats ass about you Sharon or any of your friends". There is that clear enough, so your right I don't care about your ideas of Elan or your ideas of helping survivers. OK. Your implementation is very select and untrustworthy.
What I do understand is what lies ahead.     :shamrock: Danny......
P.S. Just wanted to clarify this so no misunderstanding moving forward.