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maruska:
http://www.troubledteenblog.com/choosin ... your-teen/

So Cal aunt February 16, 2010 at 11:30 am
My husband and I took legal guardianship of my niece after her recovering addict father (my brother) died when she was 10, and her addict mother’s attempts to parent her after a 9 year absence failed. We had a 3 yr old plus a new pregnancy at the time, and taking on a troubled 12 year old was challenging. These past 3 years have been stressful but worth it as we’ve seen her grow and thrive in a healthy family environment. In the past year, she’s been seeing a therapist (solo sessions or with me), to help deal with behavior issues — lying, failing in school, cigarette smoking, dressing and acting trashy, impulsive behavior (stole a pack of cigarettes, snuck out of the house after midnight, stole a yearbook at school), etc. She says she wants to change but doesn’t know how. We suggested there may be “skeletons” in her psyche from her childhood that she’s locked away but they are sneaking up on her occasionally… and she agreed. We recently started to slowly and carefully bring to light some of the neglect and abuse from her early years, barely scratching the surface… and the behaviors got worse. After a year of researching schools, and several talks with an education consultant friend of the family, we decided the time was right and settled on what we feel will be a great school for her: Cedar Ridge Academy (www.cedaridge.net). The ed con said “when kids need re-parenting, that’s the place I recommend”. It’s a small (41 kids) therapeutic boarding school with a family feel where they focus on emotional growth, helping kids deal with traumatic childhood experiences, and academic achievement (finish high school, college prep). I took her there last Wednesday for what she thought was an interview, then told her she was enrolled and would be staying. She was horrified I lied to her, especially when her friends (many whom are struggling teens and 2 are former RTC grads) warned her it might be a drop-off vs. a visit, and she defended me saying “my aunt would never do that to me… I trust her, she never lies to me”. I felt horrible. But she admitted she would not have come if I’d told her the truth, even though she agrees it’s in her best interest to be there. Anyway, it’s been a tough few days for all of us, but I have faith that she will thrive there. I have to write my Impact Letter today and don’t know where to start. In the meantime, I am so grateful for the presence of this blog and for all of you wonderful commenters (parents and former students) who so freely share your experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Thank you very much! God bless all of us and our struggling teens.



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Whooter:
Maruska I wouldn't worry too much.  The child will be in good hands and will benefit greatly from her time spent there and give her the opportunity to work through some of the issues from her past without the distractions she might normally have at home.

Cedar Ridge has had a few problems in the past but they are very transparent, are sensitive to the childs and parents needs  and have addressed each issue that arises and implemented corrective action.  What I like about Cedar Ridge is if a problem occurs and the school cannot address it they seek outside help or bring it in.  They are extremely responsive.

This would be a great case to follow.  It will be interesting to see how she makes out.



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Ursus:
Took me a while to figure this one out, so I'll mention it in case anyone else is in my shoes... the OP is one of the replies to the blog entry link in question.


--- Quote from: "Whooter" ---What I like about Ridge Creek is if a problem occurs and the school cannot address it they seek outside help or bring it in. They are extremely responsive.
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And Whooter, the TBS in question is Cedar Ridge Academy, not Ridge Creek School. You're still trying to create a defense for Hidden Lake and all of its metamorphoses. Geeezzz...  :D

Joel:
Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010

Ursus:

--- Quote from: "Joel" ---
--- Quote from: "Ursus" ---Took me a while to figure this one out, so I'll mention it in case anyone else is in my shoes... the OP is one of the replies to the blog entry link in question.


--- Quote from: "Whooter" ---What I like about Ridge Creek is if a problem occurs and the school cannot address it they seek outside help or bring it in. They are extremely responsive.
--- End quote ---
And Whooter, the TBS in question is Cedar Ridge Academy, not Ridge Creek School. You're still trying to create a defense for Hidden Lake and all of its metamorphoses. Geeezzz...  :D
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http://www.heal-online.org/cedar120809.pdf > Cedar Ridge Academy ?
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Yep, that would be the one, in Roosevelt, Utah. There's even a thread on that case here:

Cedar Ridge Academy staff charged with sex abuse
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