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« Reply #30 on: February 07, 2005, 06:55:00 PM »
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On 2005-02-07 14:27:00, LSwi wrote:

"honestly I wouldnt be surprised if the real story was that the girl offered these favors in exchange for a cigarette--- we do have to remember that there are some smuts in the program."


I'm guessing you're a pretty young kid. I didn't understand the concept of adult vs. child relationships and the imbalance of power till I was a little older. From a teenaged girl's pov, it's a pure power trip to be able to push some grown man's buttons sexually. From an adult pov, it's disgusting to think about taking advantage of a young kid sexually.

How do you think the parents of any young girls sent to AIR in part because of inappropriate sexual behavior would feel about the alleged adults in charge taking advantage like that? It wouldn't matter if the teenaged girl were to spread eagle, buck naked in the man's bed and beg for it. It's still 1) wrong for an adult to have sex w/ a minor 2) a profound betrayal if the adult in charge is essentially her jailer and 3) even worse if the parent has entrusted the adult w/ the care of the child.

... and the group leader was a clown.
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« Reply #31 on: February 07, 2005, 07:13:00 PM »
I wasnt tryin to excuse anyone's behavior-let me make this clear I AGREE THAT IT IS DISGUSTING AND WRONG ON THE ADULTS PART.  I guess I didnt make myself very clear.
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« Reply #32 on: February 07, 2005, 07:39:00 PM »
Ok, then what was the point of suggesting that there are "smuts" in the program?

I'll concede a few things too, though. As w/ any other topic, you should believe nothing you hear and only about half what you see. People involved in this particular sort of issue might exagerate because they get into a war mentality; both sides. Some might have honest perceptions that are just warped a bit. Ask anyone trained in sex crimes investigation. One of the first things they learn is that, w/ rare exeption, the perp was not really 7 feet tall w/ huge hands and arms, but a normal looking guy. But nearly all traumatized rape victims honestly believe what they're telling you.

I had a traumatic experience within the last year. I remembered it having occured in a huge room. But, just a couple of months ago, I walked into the same room. I saw the same furniture and fixtures and such. But, much to my surprise, the room was not 1/4 the size I remember.

To get at the truth here, you really have to take in a whole lot of information from a lot of different sources and use the process of elimination.

It takes a thousand voices to tell just one story.

 

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« Reply #33 on: February 07, 2005, 08:08:00 PM »
All that I was trying to get at is that stories get switched around and sometimes in the program girls will make up stories to get a staff fired. Not saying thats what happened-just keep it in mind.
And just for the record let me give myself a little introduction.
Im 20 years old.  I graduated (april 2002) the program after  16 agonizing months.  I spent 12 months at SCL and 4 months at AIR, I was one of the first 5  jr staff sent to help get that program started. I wouldnt say I am pro-program or necessarily anti-program-just confused in the middle.  After 2+ years of wondering why I cant just forget about the program I started doing some of my own research and am disgusted with WWASP.   Since the program, I had a year of doing more drugs than I did before the program (dont do anything anymore) and I am finishing up my associates degree in paralegal studies- so thats me.
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« Reply #34 on: February 07, 2005, 09:19:00 PM »
You just keep on truckin, then! Whooo whoooo!!! Go Johnny go!!  :wstupid:

Seriously. It ain't easy, but it sounds to me asif you've got a pretty good handle on things. Just keep your eyes on the prize, whatever it is that you're after. I hope you're able to find some of what you're looking for around here. But I have a feeling you'll find it wherever it lies.

Yes, things do get switched around and distorted. I've heard a dozen or more times that Jason Finlinson is full of shit. But nobody's ever explained exactly what he got wrong or misrepresented. But it's ok. There are hundreds and hundreds of ppl talking. Taken one at a time, probably few or none of them are very credible. Taken altogether, well you begin to get a fairly good idea what's really going on here. Part of it is in the factual accounts that they tell us. Part of it is just evident in how ppl on all sides of the issue tend to behave.

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« Reply #35 on: February 23, 2005, 06:05:00 PM »
hi i attened if anyone wants to know any information and some of the disgusting things that have happened there please email me. i want for the truth to come out
  jclfla17@hotmail.com
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« Reply #36 on: February 23, 2005, 06:25:00 PM »
jason is married into the licthfield clan via bob's sister.
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« Reply #37 on: February 24, 2005, 12:38:00 AM »
I would like to thank the employee of ivy ridge who posted. About the only intelligent post here. I especially like the part about give your kids up for adoption. How true. The mother of my kid stuck her in ivy ridge to get out of paying me childsupport. I'm pissed. I am 46yrs old. I was placed in a real boarding school when I was 6yrs. old Iwas there till I was 14 and told my mother to go to hell. I t took me 2 weeks and a threat to her mother to finally find out where she had put her. It took another 2weeks to get the tour of the place. I have filed for custody.Is there abuse going on a ivy ridge. I guarentee it. I could see it before I ever left my house for the 6hr ride to get there. I have the letters from my daughter telling me not to take her mother to court and try to get her out of the "school" This pissed me off. A real "school" would never have allowed her to know what I was doing. Ask any counselor in the world and they would tell you it was wrong. Excuse my french but read your fucking handbook that you were given on page 12 about manipulation. I was then allowed to go to the school for a tour. I have been a few places in my life. I was an over the road truckdriver. Odgensburg, NY . Been there before the middle of nowwhere. Real onehorse town. ivy ridge will put this town on the map.Probably one ofthe largest employers in the town I do the tour bullshit. I was walking down the hall and the kids would sneak glances at me. I asked about that. I was told until they get to a certain "level" you can't talk. Holly shit, you take a dog to obiedence school and at least he can bark. You know what, I don't have the time to tell you dumb ass parents about it .I have been in Jail (for childsupport) and boarding school for 9yrs and ivy ridge. That is also the degree of dificulty. Jail is a piece of cake . Boarding school sucked and ivy ridge is the bottom of the fucking barrell. If you are a parent reading this, use your fucking yuppy head. You tell your kids you don't want them to grow up and work in Micky D's, Who do you think is taking care of your kids. I went to a bar whileI was there and talked to some people.what a joke.Think of this, where you work, you have good and bad employees. Do you think this shit hole is any different. I went to a so called respectable boarding school. There was sexual abuse there and this was in the 60's. Get you head out of your ass. Can you really be this fucking stupid. You work at a job what happens when you have somebody with power. Your boss, or somebody elses boss. Do some of them abuse the power?? Do cops, judges,teachers and even the asshole security guard abuse there power. Put anybody incontrol of somebody and there is the potential for abuse. Now, take the mentality of some of the employees of ivy ridge. You dumb asses. Do you honestly think that one of these hillbillies wouldn't take a blowjob for a smoke. Hell,our one fucken president did it. Where was the secret service?? This place is supposed to be above that? I have been there done that. Do I still have the scares from when I was in a boarding school. Hell yes, 35 yrs later. You ass holed have more money than brains. Insted of the 2cars and the big house you should of spent somemoney on learning how to be a parent. You invented the word TIME OUT. Now you assholes invented the saying, My kid is out of control. Never heard that when I was growing up.Hey, put the kid on ridlin, he must have a problem. You are the fuckin problem. ivy ridge says the kids made poor choices. The kid had no choice to have a stupid parents. Sorry to go off but I hate yuppys and stupid people. They both blame others for there problems. I used to see the yuppies at my daughter's sports events, Usually standing there talking to another ashole about there job, there new house, cars,... Hey, asshole , your kid just scored a goal. They are the ones who say that they don't know what went wrong with so and so's kid . He came from a good family. Nice neighborhood and gave him or her everything. You know who you are. You sent your kid to a place, Not a school. They cheat to get your kid through school. Your kid is home schooled. If you are so fucking smart, have one of the parents stay home and teach the kid. Save the $ 40,000.00 plus cash. Remember this is equal to making$60,000.00. No don't, you were dumb enough to send your kid to ivy ridge your too stupid to educate them. Shit you too stupid to be a parent. Remember, you are the minority, there are a hell of alot more good parents than bad. Hey, the next time you go out to eat at Micky D's or the country club look at the person who waites on you and tell him that you have more money than him but, he will probably be a better parent. And, for the kids who got out of these places. When you turn 18 get a lawyer. Sue you parents, they fucked you. They put you on this earth and didn't do there job. They had choices. abortion, adoption. But they chose to fuck you up themselves. If your still in ivy ridge, I know you wont be reading this. Also, I would be glad to take a couple kids at my house. You give me custody will call the $40,000.00 childsupport and it will be tax free to me. I will teach you kid what he or she needs to know. EPa3437202@aol.com
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« Reply #38 on: February 24, 2005, 12:50:00 AM »
Do you have court order visitations? if is you should go make sure every visit is taken. If you get a entire weekend take her off campus and out of state even. WWASP will not put up with this and will kick her out. Also if you go this route make sure you have your divorce papers that spell out the visits and if they try to deny you a visit the police have to help enforce your visit.

Also if you have partial custidy you can pull her from Ivy Ridge yourself even, you dont need her monthers permission. Just be prepared for a court battle.

E-mail me at drgraves2@charter.net and i will try to help you.
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