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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2009, 02:49:49 PM »
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"Well then you make your motivations very clear. You're pro program and are trying to convince people to stop posting here.  "

You continue to make assumptions, this time about my motivations, and somehow you managed to get it wrong. Read what I wrote again and you might realize how ridiculous your accusation of me 'trying to convince people to stop posting here' really is.

Why else would you be telling us that posting here is futile and self destructive?  So we'll continue doing it? (something you claim to desire)

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"Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake." - Napoleon Bonaparte

Now you get it!

But you don't.  If you truly feel this site harms your enemy, why try to convince us of that?  If people stop posting here as a result of your works we cease to hurt ourselves by your logic.  That's not something you claim to want.  Interrupting is precisely what you are doing right now.

It seems to me that this site is somehow a genuine thorn in your side and you are trying to tell us that we're being self destructive in order to get us to stop using a strategy that is working.  It's like saying "that doesn't hurt" (when it really does) if you know a person is trying to hurt you and you want them to stop.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #16 on: September 05, 2009, 03:05:59 PM »
Why else would you be telling us that posting here is futile and self destructive?

Because that's how I see it. Obviously, you see it another way. Do you think my thoughts are somehow translated into other people's brains and takes hold of their opinions? I'm sorry to break it to you but I'm not that powerful.

"But you don't.  If you truly feel this site harms your enemy, why try to convince us of that?  If people stop posting here as a result of your works we cease to hurt ourselves by your logic.  That's not something you claim to want."


Why would me asking questions keep people from posting here? Questions generate answers, one of which was yours. I encouraged you to post. Had I not posted, you would of not posted. You see? I created your post by asking a question. If my intention was to keep people from posting here, as if that were even possible, why would I ask questions or post at all? If my intent was to disrupt discussion, why not just post a bunch of garbage over and over instead of thought provoking ideas?

The question asked in this thread has an obvious answer. The answer that 99% of those reading it will conclude within microseconds. The reason why the anti program has not achieved anything because it is invalid. The entire anti program 'movement', and  believe me that term is being extremely generous, is based on faulty ideology. You are an small minority, yes a vocal minority, but still a minority. To every one of you claiming abuse is twenty ready to stand up and declare themselves saved. I think you know this on some level, so I present you with questions to which your answer will be nonsensical. The logical, and instinctual answer to the original question is programs work. That is why it is this type of question that generates such quick, thorough, intricate, intense response. Since the obvious answer is so, well, obvious. You must quickly and vigorously defend your ideology, not against me, or any program. You are fighting against common sense, and frankly, that sort of counter logic makes for an interesting read.
This is hardly the prevention of the discussion of ideas, it's actually the opposite.

"It seems to me that this site is somehow a genuine thorn in your side and you are trying to tell us that we're being self destructive in order to get us to stop using a strategy that is working. It's like sayign "that doesn't hurt" (when it really does) if you know a person is trying to hurt you and you want them to stop."

You know what is sad? That you think so little of yourself and those who post on your website. I know that my views will not change the views of any of those people who post on this forum. You seem to suggest that what I 'tell you' , will happen. I am not so arrogant to think this is true, and I have enough common sense to know it is definitely not true. Me posting here wil change nothing and nobody and things will continue on whether I had posted this idea or not. Keep doing what you're doing, psy.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #17 on: September 05, 2009, 03:08:06 PM »
Apparently Aspen's current troll went too insane so they had to send in a new one.

More counterexamples...

CEDU.
PFC.
PV.
WP/Che Gookin's mauling of CALO right here on this board. It's a milestone when program owners actually come crawling here and very literally beg us to stop (the answer, naturally, is no).

And the off-Fornits activity by regulars depleting potential enrollment.

When it comes to cults, "the economy" doesn't have a lot to do with it. People will fork over their last dimes to these places and take out second mortgages. They even have their own loan systems. Anyone can blame "the economy". It's a reed. The standard bust-and-boom cycle of general capitalism doesn't remotely explain what's happening.

The entire culture that allows programs to happen is slowly shriveling and drying up, while Fornits stands around with a heat lamp.

The trolling (compare: teabagger protests) is just gas escaping.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #18 on: September 05, 2009, 03:11:22 PM »
Wow. Four whole programs? Color me impressed. Woop, dee, doo.


Wake up, there are hundreds of programs open right now. Better ones than the ones that close, that's why parents choose the better ones. The free market works. Yay!
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #19 on: September 05, 2009, 03:19:32 PM »
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why not just post a bunch of garbage over and over instead of thought provoking ideas?

But that's exactly what this is. Garbage. The entire concept of "saving" is complete nonsense, originating from a ridiculous book with unclear morals and a retarded ending. No kid can "be saved". Human psychology simply does not work that way. Having a psychological block forcing them to say they were saved, no matter what, is what actually happens.

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Me posting here wil change nothing and nobody and things will continue on whether I had posted this idea or not.

Then why are you wasting your time? Go back to ST and huddle helplessly, awaiting the end.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #20 on: September 05, 2009, 03:22:09 PM »
"No kid can "be saved". "

Incorrect.

"Then why are you wasting your time? Go back to ST and huddle helplessly, awaiting the end."

To give people like you something to do. I should charge a moral superiority surcharge, I'd make a killing.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #21 on: September 05, 2009, 03:23:14 PM »
`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
  Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:
All mimsy were the borogoves,
  And the mome raths outgrabe.


"Beware the Jabberwock, my son!
  The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!
Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun
  The frumious Bandersnatch!"

He took his vorpal sword in hand:
  Long time the manxome foe he sought --
So rested he by the Tumtum tree,
  And stood awhile in thought.

And, as in uffish thought he stood,
  The Jabberwock, with eyes of flame,
Came whiffling through the tulgey wood,
  And burbled as it came!

One, two! One, two! And through and through
  The vorpal blade went snicker-snack!
He left it dead, and with its head
  He went galumphing back.

"And, has thou slain the Jabberwock?
  Come to my arms, my beamish boy!
O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!'
  He chortled in his joy.


`Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
  Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
  And the mome raths outgrabe.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #22 on: September 05, 2009, 03:29:56 PM »
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Why would me asking questions keep people from posting here? Questions generate answers, one of which was yours.

Your questions were leading.  Example: "Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?" and "Do they realize their efforts are fruitless?" and "Why is it that every attempt to organize an anti-program movement, in any way, has resulted in complete and utter failure?".  They're more statements than questions.  They presuppose failure.  If "every anti-program project" had actually been a failure you might have a valid question there.  I'm not going to even bother quoting your original post.

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why not just post a bunch of garbage over and over instead of thought provoking ideas?

"thought provoking" is extremely relative, as is "garbage".  The reason this site is unmoderated is because a reader should be the one to decide that.

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The question asked in this thread has an obvious answer. The answer that 99% of those reading it will conclude within microseconds. The reason why the anti program has not achieved anything because it is invalid.

Again, you're claiming that nothing has been achieved, which is false.

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The entire anti program 'movement', and  believe me that term is being extremely generous, is based on faulty ideology. You are an small minority, yes a vocal minority, but still a minority. To every one of you claiming abuse is twenty ready to stand up and declare themselves saved.

Show me those 20 for every 1.  Statements written inside the program don't count.  Show me 20 people who have been out of a program discussed here for several years who still think it saved their lives (or every one who has been harmed).  There is nothing preventing those people from posting here.  The only reason why most of the stories on this site are negative in regards to a specific program is because most of the experiences were negative.  There is nobody moderating the dialogue here and preventing positive experiences from being talked about.  If over 95% of people had positive experiences in the programs discussed here as you claim, this site would be overflowing with praise.

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I think you know this on some level, so I present you with questions to which your answer will be nonsensical. The logical, and instinctual answer to the original question is programs work. That is why it is this type of question that generates such quick, thorough, intricate, intense response. Since the obvious answer is so, well, obvious. You must quickly and vigorously defend your ideology, not against me, or any program. You are fighting against common sense, and frankly, that sort of counter logic makes for an interesting read.
This is hardly the prevention of the discussion of ideas, it's actually the opposite.

If you say so.  Me? I think you're logic is based on so many false assumptions it's not even worth my time to point them all out.  I'll leave it up to the reader to decide.

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You know what is sad? That you think so little of yourself and those who post on your website. I know that my views will not change the views of any of those people who post on this forum.

That statement contradicts your previous one "The answer that 99% of those reading it will conclude within microseconds. The reason why the anti program has not achieved anything because it is invalid.".  Make up your mind.

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Me posting here wil change nothing and nobody and things will continue on whether I had posted this idea or not. Keep doing what you're doing, psy.

Will do.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #23 on: September 05, 2009, 03:46:07 PM »
"Your questions were leading.  Example: "Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?" and "Do they realize their efforts are fruitless?" and "Why is it that every attempt to organize an anti-program movement, in any way, has resulted in complete and utter failure?".  They're more statements than questions.  They presuppose failure.  If "every anti-program project" had actually been a failure.  You might have a valid question there.  I'm not going to even bother quoting your original post."

I read through the bottom forum on this website dedicated to projects and protests. Nothing came of any of those, my question is valid. I clicked on the websites in your signature, that forum looks empty to me. I heard you protested, yet your targeted programs stands. I want to know, from your perspective, why you think that is. If you can't answer these simple questions without feeling intimidated by them, then it proves how faulty your ideas really are.

"thought provoking" is extremely relative, as is "garbage".  The reason this site is unmoderated is because a reader should be the one to decide that."

You accused me of trying to keep people from posting. I'm asking you, if that were true why wouldn't I just hire someone to post spam all day long on your website? Instead I ask relevant, to the point questions and you somehow interpret it as a threat. Paranoid? Nervous your ideas don't hold water against a common sense question?

"Again, you're claiming that nothing has been achieved, which is false."

You haven't achieved anything. Parents can still choose to send their kids wherever they want. No regulation has been passed, which means, at best, you are asking parents to pwitty pwease don't send your kid to the mean progwam that hurt me. What has worked, is the free market. Parents don't pay money to have their kids treated badly, they want them to be helped, treated and saved. Better programs attract these parents, and older programs fall. You are attributing the natural evolution of the industry as your own personal achievement. I'm calling bullshit on that.

"Show me those 20 for every 1.  Statements written inside the program don't count.  Show me 20 people who have been out of a program discussed here for several years who still think it saved their lives. "

Show me 20 kids that say Benchmark abused them.

"There is nothing preventing those people from posting here. "

Yet there are only a small number of you claiming abuse. If the majority of the tens or hundreds of thousands of kids that have been in some sort of treatment were abused, I'm sure fornits would be a bit busier, don't you think?

"The only reason why most of the stories on this site are negative in regards to a specific program is because most of the experiences were negative. "

If you start an anti-whatever site the people who show up are all going to post stories to reinforce your belief. You claim this site is open to everyone, but you are hardly welcoming to those who feel programs had a positive impact on them. The silent majority disagrees with your incorrect assertion.

"There is nobody moderating the dialogue here and preventing positive experiences from being talked about.  If over 95% of people had positive experiences in the programs discussed here as you claim, this site would be overflowing with praise."

They don't spend their time, years after getting out of the program, talking to the damaged individuals who never quite moved on with their life. Do you spend your time googling, say, anti-automobile forums? Because people die in car accidents, so there's probably a small minority of people who want all cars banned to prevent the auto holocaust from continuing. When's the last time you googled that? You have to get some perspective. While this occupies your thoughts, it's just a memory to most people.


"If you say so.  Me? I think you're logic is based on so many false assumptions it's not even worth my time to point them all out.  I'll leave it up to the reader to decide."

How brave of you to leave it up to the reader. Are you sure you don't want to interpret our conversation for them, and tell them what to think? I'm sure that bright red name of yours carries some weight around here with enough suckers.
Think about what compelled you to post such a lengthy explanation to this thread. Common sense is dangerous to faulty ideas.
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Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
« Reply #24 on: September 05, 2009, 04:01:10 PM »
:roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  

OP has a very deep-seated need to argue these points!

Btw, I found this Freudian slip to be quite telling (OP/Guest responding to Psy):

    "Why would me asking questions keep people from posting here? Questions generate answers, one of which was yours. I encouraged you to post. Had I not posted, you would of not posted. You see? I created your post by asking a question."[/list]
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    Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
    « Reply #25 on: September 05, 2009, 04:12:15 PM »
    Not a slip. I created your post too. If my original posts did not exist, you would have nothing to respond to. I created them. I created all the posts in response to my ideas and questions, psy's and yours not included.
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    Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
    « Reply #26 on: September 05, 2009, 04:12:49 PM »
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    I read through the bottom forum on this website dedicated to projects and protests. Nothing came of any of those, my question is valid. I clicked on the websites in your signature, that forum looks empty to me.

    So not all ideas turn out as fantastic as some others.  Trial and error is what it's all about.  In that specific case there just isn't much of a "market" for a moderated forum, apparantly, especially when there is already the facilities questions forum and the CAN forum on this site.

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    I heard you protested, yet your targeted programs stands. I want to know, from your perspective, why you think that is.

    I think at this point they're hanging on by a thread.  Their claims in court seemed to indicate that, unless they were playing possum.  What did the protest do?  It lead to what they perceived as compromising video tape which they sought to suppress through legal action which ended up being self destructive for them.

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    If you can't answer these simple questions without feeling intimidated by them, then it proves how faulty your ideas really are.

    But as I pointed out, youre questions were leading and more false statements than anything else.

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    No regulation has been passed, which means, at best, you are asking parents to pwitty pwease don't send your kid to the mean progwam that hurt me.

    Regulation isn't the solution. I'll agree with you there.  Unless your going to give kids above 13 or so the right to refuse medical treatment (granting rights of self ownership and self determination they should have), anything else is going to be ineffective.

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    What has worked, is the free market. Parents don't pay money to have their kids treated badly, they want them to be helped, treated and saved.

    And those parents wouldn't know what programs were the worst if it wasn't for sites like this and ISAC.  In order for the free market to work there has to also be a free marketplace of ideas (here)

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    If you start an anti-whatever site the people who show up are all going to post stories to reinforce your belief

    But this site isn't an anti or pro anything site.  It's an open unmoderated discussion forum.  You seem to be forgetting that.

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    Show me 20 kids that say Benchmark abused them.

    Check out the Benchmark Surviors group on Facebook.

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    Because people die in car accidents, so there's probably a small minority of people who want all cars banned to prevent the auto holocaust from continuing.

    That's a consensual activity (driving a car).  I have no problem with just about anything from prostitution to drugs to assisted suicide as long as there's consent there.  Kids are sent to programs and changed permanently (often for the worse) without their consent.  That, not to mention the abuse, is what I have a problem with.

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    How brave of you to leave it up to the reader. Are you sure you don't want to interpret our conversation for them, and tell them what to think? ... Think about what compelled you to post such a lengthy explanation to this thread.

    Good point.  Based on how weak your arguments were the explanation was unnecessary.  I have no desire to go round and round with you. Let's agree to disagree and let the reader decide.  As far as I'm concerned I'm basically done here.  Those who have been around here for a while know for a fact that speaking out about their experiences in program *does* work.
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    Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
    « Reply #27 on: September 05, 2009, 04:14:12 PM »
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    Not a slip. I created your post too. If my original posts did not exist, you would have nothing to respond to. I created them. I created all the posts in response to my ideas and questions, psy's and yours not included.
    Ok mister master of the universe.  Try and create another one.... cause i'm done on this thread.
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    Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
    « Reply #28 on: September 05, 2009, 04:24:20 PM »
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    You haven't achieved anything. Parents can still choose to send their kids wherever they want. No regulation has been passed, which means, at best, you are asking parents to pwitty pwease don't send your kid to the mean progwam that hurt me. What has worked, is the free market. Parents don't pay money to have their kids treated badly, they want them to be helped, treated and saved. Better programs attract these parents, and older programs fall. You are attributing the natural evolution of the industry as your own personal achievement. I'm calling bullshit on that.

    Why is it you personally think those other programs failed?
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    Re: Every anti-program project, protest or idea has failed. Why?
    « Reply #29 on: September 05, 2009, 04:26:36 PM »
    Thanks psy. It's not so much what you have to say, since that is fairly predictable. What's  more interesting is the speed and length to which people will go to defend against a common sense question. You seem to acknowledge the reality that programs will continue to exist, so what exactly is your goal say in taking the time to refute my ideas, or even long term.
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