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Franklin Wofford McGill
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Franklin Wofford McGill
Dec. 6, 1988 - Feb. 15, 2009

Franklin Wofford McGill died on Sunday, February 15, 2009. Frank was a beloved son, brother and friend to many. He was born in Austin, Texas on December 6, 1988 to Charmaine Denius McGill and J. Gordon McGill. Survivors include: his parents, Charmaine Denius McGill and J. Gordon McGill of Austin; his brother, G. Parker McGill, of Dallas; his grandparents, Charmaine and Frank W. Denius of Austin, and Mrs. Ruth Gordon McGill of Bryan; his aunt Ruth G. McGill, M.D. of Bryan, his maternal aunt and uncle, Beth and F. Wofford Denius of Los Angeles, California; and his cousin, Reagan Denius of Los Angeles, California. He also leaves behind a multitude of beloved friends. Frank attended Saint Andrew's Episcopal School in Austin from first grade until he graduated from Middle School in 2003. He then went on to graduate high school from The Hyde School in Bath, Maine in 2007, where he was an avid sportsman, football, basketball, and lacrosse player. Frank loved being outdoors and in the wilderness. Frank's life would seem too short to many, but those who were touched by him understood that his life's experiences gave him a wisdom far beyond his years. Kind and thoughtful, Frank had a gift for knowing what people needed in troubled times and he willingly and gracefully shared his hard-earned wisdom in times of need. Frank will be missed every day by his family and friends and we say to Frankie, as one smart bear once said ... "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you." - Winnie the Pooh. A memorial service will be held for Frank at the Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd, 3201 Windsor Road, Austin, Texas, at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 21, 2009. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Saint Andrew's Episcopal School or to the Hyde School in Bath, Maine in Frank's memory. Obituary and guestbook online at wcfish.com.

Ursus:
Guestbook for
Franklin Wofford McGill
(#s 1-20, from Legacy/Statesman.com)

February 20, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. McGill and Parker...
I can't imagine what you're all going through right now. I only got to know Frank over the past year and my short time with him was always fun. Frank is one of the nicest, sweetest and most genuine people I've met. I will miss his friendly smile and welcoming hugs. He always made those around him feel so good. My heart is with all of you.
Cord Shiflet (Austin, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
To the Family,

May peace be with you all, as it is with Franklin. Blessings.
Lindy Segall (Hye, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dearest Gordon and Charmaine,

My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family, at this time. Frank was not only special, he was an extraordinary person. I am lucky to have known Frank for the time that I did, which was much too short. He will always have a special place in my heart, which he touched every time I saw him. I am glad that I saw him for a haircut only two weeks ago. I will cherish that memory. There was a connection between us that was unspoken for years, until one day as I was trimming up his hair, we agreed that we related to one another spiritually. It was a unique conversation between two people, he being much wiser than his years. Yesterday when I got the news, I could not control my tears, and know that I still don't quite know what "little Frank McGill" has in store for me and all those he touched in his lifetime.

A few times yesterday I kept asking God "Why?" , as I am sure you both have. I came to my own conclusion that he was meant to be an angel in Heaven, to look upon others and guide them, even though he sometimes had difficulty guiding himself. I beleive that he is at peace now, and that his mind is calm, without worry or pain.

I will always remember his robust laughter and his shining. smiling face. You are both blessed to have had the years that you did with Frank, and I thank you for sending him my way back when he was about 13 or 14 for that first haircut of many to follow. I will never forget him. Ever.

Much love to you both,

Diana Rutledge (Frank's hairstylist)
Diana Rutledge (Austin, TX)
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February 20, 2009
Gordon and Charmaine,

My heart goes out to you, and no words can express my sorrow. I know that he will be greatly missed.

Suzanne
Suzanne McIntosh (Austin, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Susan Ellis (Atlanta)[/list]
February 20, 2009
I know Frank was dearly loved and brought joy to many. I know he is in God's loving arms. May God grant peace to his dear family.
Laura Mendenhall
Laura Mendenhall (Atlanta, GA)
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February 20, 2009
Franklin, not a day will go by that I don't think of your wonderful smile and laugh. McGill family, my heart goes out to you in these hard times. Thank you for sharing such a special boy with me.
Gyllian Garvey (Austin, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dearest Gordon and Charmaine,
My heart truly hurts for both of you.
Frank was a very special person and his friendship was so important to William. I will forever miss Frank's wonderful smile and engaging personality. May God bless you both.
Mike Ezzell (San Antonio, TX)
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February 20, 2009
Our deepest sympathy.
Frank was a really good friend to our daughter Katy and he will be missed greatly.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Don and Charmaine Cook (Nashville, TN)[/list]
February 20, 2009
I was very saddened to hear this news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
MONA TAGUE (AUSTIN, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dear McGill family,
I want to offer my deepest condolences. During a time such as this, words are often insufficient and simply cannot be strung together in any form or fashion to convey the desired amount of empathy... Please know you are all in my thoughts.
Katie Duckworth (Greensboro, NC)
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February 20, 2009
Gordon and Charmaine:

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We were blessed in meeting you and Frank, and sharing our obstacles together at the Hyde School. May the spirit of God bring peace to your lives.
Mary Anne & Brett Hubbard (Cary, NC)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Your family is a great one that we Pearsons love a great deal, we are there with you during this very tough time

Sincerely,
Gary Pearson
Gary Pearson (Houston, TX)[/list]
February 20, 2009
It is with great sadness and Hyde heart that our condolences are sent. Deans first roomate and friend at Hyde was Frank, and it was then that their bond was created. Dean and I had the pleasant opportunity to share in a Hyde weekend with Frank as our student facilitator, it was then that I began to get to know Frank on a personal level and knew that the depth of his voice mirrored his observant wisdom. We can only imagine the pain and sorrow you are feeling...and know that its with lifes quiet moments and stored memories that you will feel peace. Our deepest sympathies to you during this difficult time.
Carolyn Clark and Dean Clark Hyde 07 (Glastonbury, CT)[/list]
February 20, 2009
My thoughts are with you. Frank was such a joy to coach. He gave of himself so completely on the playing field. I will fondly remember his spirit, drive and compassion.
Brian Mulligan (Bath, ME)[/list]
February 20, 2009
I am so sorry for your pain. Frank and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember all of you being a kind and loving family.
Debe Trachtenberg (Scituate, MA)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dear Frank,
Thank you for the time and memories we shared together. I will always remember you and how kindhearted you were. You were definitely a person who stands out in my time at Hyde. Thank you for being such a great friend. You and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I love you.

Katy Cook
Katy Cook (Nashville, TN)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dear Gordon, Charmaine, Parker and family,
I'm very sorry to hear of your sad news. My heart aches and I pray that you feel the comfort of our Lord surrounding you every moment. It was an honor for me to be inspired by Frank in the short amount of time given me to know him. I live in gratitude for his life.
Karen Muennink (Dallas)[/list]
February 20, 2009
Dear Mr. & Mrs. McGill,
I was so upset to hear the news about Frank. I first met him several years ago at Hyde when he was a student intern at an FLC I had with my son Brendan, Colin's younger brother. I had heard Colin speak about him before that, often in context with his friend Will Thomas. I will always remember his beautiful smile, easy laugh, and DEEP voice! My heart aches for what you and your family are feeling right now. I am praying for all of you. May the Lord bring you comfort and peace as only He can. Frank will live on in the hearts and memories of his friends at Hyde forever.
Patty Vize (Pleasant Prairie, WI)
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February 20, 2009
Frank was such a joy to be around and brought love and light with him wherever he went. We really appreciated out time with him at Hyde. Most who met Frank, instantly found they had a deep affection for him. He was an such a neat kid. We will miss him dearly. Our thoughts are with your family as you navigate through this time.

With Peace,

Aaron and Lindsay Hinton (Hyde Facility '04-'07)
Aaron and Lindsay Hinton (Salt Lake City, UT)
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Ursus:
Guestbook for
Franklin Wofford McGill, continued...
(#s 21-30, from Legacy/Statesman.com)

February 21, 2009
I'm sorry I could not make it to say good bye one last time Frankie. I love you and will miss you. You are a great and dear friend.
Sarah Coyne-Wilson (Sahaurita, AZ)
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February 21, 2009
Dear Charmaine and Gordon,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Christ holds you in his arms during this difficult time. He never leaves us. I know that you will forever miss your precious Frank. I will never forget his wonderful smile and beautiful voice. Thank you for allowing me to meet him.
Pam Machemehl Helmly (Austin, TX)[/list]
February 21, 2009
Dear Charmaine and Gordon,

Sharon's call telling me of Frank's death was a shock and deeply saddening. My condolences go to you at this difficult time. I regret that I was not able to attend his services.

Love, Grim
Grim Locke (Ruston, LA)[/list]
February 21, 2009
Mr. & Ms. McGill, Parker, and the Denius Family,

My thoughts and heart go out to your family now and forever. I will always remember Frank - the little boy who was so kind and generous to my family. With his smile, beautiful personality, and unconditional love; he captured a very special place in my moms(Nada) heart. Over the years, she has shared many great and happy stories of Frank, and those memories will always be treasured and close to our hearts.Thank you all for bringing him into our lives and allowing us the chance to know him.

Parker, a special prayer goes out to you as you too hold a special spot in our hearts.
Sandy Bombick (Indianapolis, IN)[/list]
February 21, 2009
Dear Charmaine and Gordon: Lanny and I were devastated and so saddened by the news of Frank's death. Just the other day Ally told me that she felt that Frank was her soulmate, and that he would always have a special place in her heart no matter where their lives led them. Frank had a special place in our hearts as well. I still remember meeting him for the first time with you at a San Francisco restaurant a few years ago. He seemed to glow from within, with that great grin and shining eyes. I don't know where comfort can come after such a tragic loss, but hope and pray that in time it will come to you. With love, friendship, and respect, Carolyn Bryant
Carolyn Bryant (Walnut Creek, CA)
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February 22, 2009
Dear Denius and McGill families:

Please accept my deepest sympathy for this horrible turn of events. I am so saddened by the loss of someone so precious. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Thomas Johnson, Jr. (Austin, TX)
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February 24, 2009
Our hearts are so heavy. Our love and thoughts are with you Charmaine and Gordon.
Tuck & Kelly Irwin (Portland, ME)[/list]
February 24, 2009
My heart is so heavy on hearing about the loss of young Frank. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God hold you in His hands and may you be supported by the love of your friends and family.
Lucy Frost (Austin, TX)
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February 25, 2009
Dearest Charmaine and Gordon: Mary Bell Holt told me of Frank's passing and I wanted to write and tell you that you and your family are in my heart and in my prayers. Charmaine, I haven't talked with you since college, but I have always had a fondness for our times together. I know that my words cannot comfort, but please know that you are not alone in your sorrow. When my sister died, Psalm 121 told me where to find the strength to go on and I share that with you now. May God hold all of you close and give you peace. All my love, Carol Williams Arnold
carol arnold (kerrville, TX)[/list]
February 25, 2009
Gordon and Charmaine,
We are stunned and grief-struck at Frank's passing. We celebrate him as much as we mourn him. Our hearts and concerns are with you.
Mark & Jane Skakel (Hyde Hapa)[/list]


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Anonymous:
wow. so young. how did he die?

Ursus:
Another Memorial page. Obituary here is basically the same, just formatted differently. And another set of Guestbook entries, some of these coming from Frank's days at Mount Bachelor Academy (currently run by Aspen Education Group, but program has substantial CEDU influence; see ALSO).

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Franklin Wofford McGill
(from Weed Corley Fish / Wilke Clay Fish)

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Franklin Wofford McGill
Born in Austin, Texas on Dec. 6, 1988
Departed on Feb. 15, 2009 and resided in Austin, TX.

Franklin Wofford McGill died on Sunday, February 15, 2009. Frank was a beloved son, brother and friend to many. He was born in Austin, Texas on December 6, 1988 to Charmaine Denius McGill and J. Gordon McGill.

Survivors include: his parents, Charmaine Denius McGill and J. Gordon McGill of Austin; his brother, G. Parker McGill, of Dallas; his grandparents, Charmaine and Frank W. Denius of Austin, and Mrs. Ruth Gordon McGill of Bryan; his aunt Ruth G. McGill, M.D. of Bryan, his maternal aunt and uncle, Beth and F. Wofford Denius of Los Angeles, California; and his cousin, Reagan Denius of Los Angeles, California. He also leaves behind a multitude of beloved friends.

Frank attended Saint Andrew's Episcopal School in Austin from first grade until he graduated from Middle School in 2003. He then went on to graduate high school from The Hyde School in Bath, Maine in 2007, where he was an avid sportsman, football, basketball, and lacrosse player. Frank loved being outdoors and in the wilderness. Frank's life would seem too short to many, but those who were touched by him understood that his life's experiences gave him a wisdom far beyond his years. Kind and thoughtful, Frank had a gift for knowing what people needed in troubled times and he willingly and gracefully shared his hard-earned wisdom in times of need.

Frank will be missed every day by his family and friends and we say to Frankie, as one smart bear once said … "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you." – Winnie the Pooh.

A memorial service will be held for Frank at the Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd, 3201 Windsor Road, Austin, Texas, at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 21, 2009. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Saint Andrew's Episcopal School or to the Hyde School in Bath, Maine in Frank's memory.

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