Some people do get addicted to deadly substances. What do you say to a heroin addict who's only wish in life is to be able to stop using before they die from OD? Sorry buddy, but AA/NA isn't 100% perfect so we're going to have to let you die in the gutter, since that's your choice.
You make it sound like AA/NA is the only way to recovery. It's not. There are many other programs of recovery, most of them free. While it's my policy not to refer or endorse any treatment at all (not my business), you can find loads of alternatives on google. (just don't pick Narcanon, a Scientology front)
Nobody chooses to be a drug addict, and nobody is immune to it happening to them.
People do choose to take drugs which they know can cause physical dependency.
Alcohol, heroin, meth, cocaine, oxy, other prescription meds.. these drugs do some serious damage to people who use too much and too often. Those are the people AA/NA is trying to help. The people who have no where else to go. Not everybody has medical insurance that will pay for a 90 day rehab on the beach in Malibu.
..Where, chances are, they will get AA meetings. In Europe, however, AA is largely recognized as bunk, as is the disease model of addiciton. Addiction is a habit. Bad habits can be broken with determination and by recognizing patterns in behavior. A change in envirnment, for example has been shown to help vietnam vets to quit.(yeah, a geographical cure). Also, addiction is not a "progressive disease". Even with heroin. In countries with medical heroin (such as Switzerland), 50% of heroin "addicts" quit after 3 years either on their own or with therapy (not with AA which is abstinence only). Article on that here:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/11/2 ... 47023.htmlI'm not saying AA/NA is the greatest thing in the world. It is kind of cult-like in the rituals and tradition and all that. But they did that for a reason, similar to religion they outlined the general beliefs and traditions so the program can proliferate and expand without a centralized power.
Yes, I realize it spreads like a cancer. I realize this very well. When a cult leader dies (such as bill Wilson) and the followers don't realize it's a con, it's what you get. It would all be well and good if it actually worked and didn't do more harm than good. Yet, addicts/alcoholics are stastically more likely to quit if they choose no treatment over AA/NA.
It's the people involved in AA/NA that keep it going and donate money, so it must be important to them, or working for them in some way. Otherwise, the program would just fizzle out and disappear.
Unless it doesn't work, yet the followers are convinced it does, which is the case with AA, as is with most cults and cult-like groups. As is noted in the study in
this snippet: "Those who credited AA the most were rearrested the most." In other words, the more of a disaster these people are, the more they credit AA for saving their lives (when statistically, it's actually doing the opposite).
It's easy for us, people not addicted to deadly substances, to judge them and what they do. But they are adults and are free to make a choice as to what type of setting and social group helps them improve their life.
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By no means am I arguing that AA/NA shouldn't be free to exist and that people shouldn't be able to choose to go. What I am doing, however, is exercising my right to educate people about the dangers (yes, dangers) of AA 12 step treatment in general.
I know why people on fornits think it's a cult. Many here were submitted and even forced to attend bastardized program versions of AA. That's not AA, that is individual program's forming groups and using lgat confrontation, disguised as a recovery meeting. It's perfectly understandable, that a person subjected to this form of "AA meeting", especially those who didn't have a problem with drugs, would reject anything associated with the group in the future.
While you're right that many on fornits might have that knee-jerk reaction, it wouldn't be accurate to say that I have come to my conclusions for those reasons. I consider treatment (institutional) AA a front group of sorts for AA as a whole... forced conversions institutions for the main religion. Think of it this way: If parents are christians and their kids are gay, they can send the kids to a place like "love in action" to de-gay them and convert them to christianity. If parents are steppers and their kids are experimenting with alcohol, they can send their kids to a 12 step program to convert them to the 12 step religion (and courts have deemed AA a religion). What i'm saying is that while AA itself is not a cult (it may be cult like) the institutional variants of AA fulfill the missing pieces of the cult pie. When seen together as a whole, AA is a religion that has managed to lobby the state to get forced conversions. That is not something a religion does.
AA/NA is a selling point to many parents when searching for a program. It is the accepted method of "recovery" in popular culture, and so programs have adopted some the terminology and tradition to satisfy parents concerned with their kid's (perceived) drug use.
I could not agree more, but they also do use AA techinques. Maybe a little more extreme, a fundamentalist variant of AA, if you will, but it's AA nonetheless.
But you can't hold that against AA/NA. It's not a centralized group with a leader.
Only because the original charismatic leader is dead and the asshole in his infinite narcisissm saw fit to write in systemic redundancy so as to spawn a religion and make himself a messiah, even in death. The leader is the one thing AA misses currently, but how many other pieces of cult criteria does it fit? Just because a cult leader writes in redundancy to keep the system going after he's gone doesn't mean that an organization can't be a cult (or function as one for all intents and purposes). There is an exception to every rule.
Anyone can start their own meeting, and they are all different. If it didn't do something, if it didn't work, why has it grown to include recovery groups for all the different drugs, and all sorts of addictions.
Something doesn't have to work well to spread. Just ask Scientology. People
believing they are being cured combined with a built in system of witnessing (12th step) is enough.
People congregate to form recovery groups on their own, AA just gives them an outline on how to do it.
Addressing the subject of whether addiction is a choice or not. I do not believe it is all about choice. In the beginning it is a choice. Whether to use an addictive drug the first time is a choice. But after that, biology takes over. It doesn't matter if you are happy or sad, rich or poor, smart or dumb... getting high can feel absolutely wonderful, blissful. It's totally natural for people to want to repeat and find that feeling again, and again, and again. There have been studies done with monkeys, when given the choice between cocaine and food, they choose to get high.
And there have been studies done on humans (some of which are outlined on the previous page) to show that even serious "addicts" can control themselves and quit.