It escort therapy?

[Anonymous]

I another thread the question was asked whether the use of escort firms is a form of therapy.

My answer is yes!

A home with various disputes can solve their problems with the use of escort firms alone.

A child are by nature always testing the limits. If the child don't there should be reason for therapy because in some 18-20 years the child is expected to live on his or her own and make independent decisions.

So the parents put their fingers up and state "Else..."

But if the childs goes beyound "Else" what then?

In a normal society with good norms, it would be a problem. The child will try to live on the street and quickly find out that the comfort of the home has more good side than bad. This type of "wilderness therapy" I can read about in Danish newspapers every day. The police often waits up to 4 or 5 days before starting to look for a child if they decide that it is just a normal domestic dispute and when they locate the child, they don't even bring the child home if they decide that the hideout has nothing to do with drugs or adult relations. Then it is up to the parents and the social services to let the child return home.

But in some societies the authorities will go after the parents if they dont discipline their child. We can talk about fines or even time in jail. The parents are forced to an overreaction.

Then the question is: Can the use of a escort firm who picks the child up in the bed and play a little game with restraints etc. send the message to the child that it is time for a change? Will it send a message to the child about how far the parents are willing to go?

I havn't been picked up by an escort firm, so the question has to be asked to those who have been victim by such firms. When did you understand when your parents meant it serious? When they took you in your bed or when you arrived at the program?

[Anonymous]

I another thread the question was asked whether the use of escort firms is a form of therapy.

My answer is yes!

A home with various disputes can solve their problems with the use of escort firms alone.

A child are by nature always testing the limits. If the child don't there should be reason for therapy because in some 18-20 years the child is expected to live on his or her own and make independent decisions.

So the parents put their fingers up and state "Else..."

But if the childs goes beyound "Else" what then?

In a normal society with good norms, it would be a problem. The child will try to live on the street and quickly find out that the comfort of the home has more good side than bad. This type of "wilderness therapy" I can read about in Danish newspapers every day. The police often waits up to 4 or 5 days before starting to look for a child if they decide that it is just a normal domestic dispute and when they locate the child, they don't even bring the child home if they decide that the hideout has nothing to do with drugs or adult relations. Then it is up to the parents and the social services to let the child return home.

But in some societies the authorities will go after the parents if they dont discipline their child. We can talk about fines or even time in jail. The parents are forced to an overreaction.

Then the question is: Can the use of a escort firm who picks the child up in the bed and play a little game with restraints etc. send the message to the child that it is time for a change? Will it send a message to the child about how far the parents are willing to go?

I havn't been picked up by an escort firm, so the question has to be asked to those who have been victim by such firms. When did you understand when your parents meant it serious? When they took you in your bed or when you arrived at the program?

Rotsne, there's so much wrong with this I don't know where to begin, and I'm not just talking bout your syntax. Think what you wrote over and get back to me. Now, WHAT are you suggesting is theraputic? Abduction for no other reason than this is what a guardian wishes to transpire? Yeah. See if you can spot what's wrong in this picture.

anon

[Che Gookin]

I think he might be resorting to sarcasm here as well.

At first I thought he meant escort as calling a whore. Might be just the thing to calm old dad down before he pop's a gasket and calls the other sort of escort.

[AtomicAnt]

Sarcasm? Maybe? But the underlying point is to use scare tactics to keep a child in line. Some would think that fear is a legitimate motivator for behavior. Some would not. I believe the preferred method is develop the sense that one does the right thing because one believes in it, not because one is forced to. It's the more difficult way to teach/parent, but I believe it produces the best citizens.

Someone I know just told me that the private school his kids go to require the parents and students to do volunteer work. Anyone else see the problem in that sentence - in that concept?

[Anonymous]

I think it depends ant. If the volunteering involves an annual bake sale or chocolate drive then I don't see the issue. If it involves wierd seminars or in the case of a religious school "witnessing" to outsiders then run for the hills