From my own personal experience of having been through Behavioral Modification Centers (Straight Inc.), been around the rooms (AA and NA), worked through the 12 steps with a sponsor, stayed clean for 4 years, and all this happy stepcraft bull crap. I can say this.
(1) Forced recovery never works
(2) The 12 steps are a tool to force change
(3) The rewards given, (priveledges, hugs etc) are manipulation tactics to do the work on the steps and deep seed the brainwashing.
(4) When a person wants to change something about their life, they will do so when they want to (not when someone else wants it)
(5) When they talk about "powerlessness", this is the beginning of the brainwash technique. Here is where a person believes themself to be broken and abnormal.
(6) Being forced by family into a "Behavorial Modification Center" caused feelings of distrust and abandonment. I still hold deep seeded resentments towards my family.
(7) Just because a person chooses to drink or whatever, it does not mean they are not a responsible or productive member of society.
Choose to live life to the fullest, you only get one shot at it. Don't allow stepcraft or using for that matter control your life. The situations in life do not make us who we are, we make our situations in life.