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« Reply #135 on: October 10, 2007, 08:31:29 AM »
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    « Reply #136 on: October 10, 2007, 09:53:15 AM »
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    What do our children most want from us? As parents, we can misread this. Our children may be telling us to leave them alone, or they may want us to "trust" them more and back off. We tell our parents that their children want us to inspire them. They may not even know they want this from us. However, their desire to be inspired may well be the strongest yearning they have, the greatest hope they have. We will not inspire them with our achievements. It will be done through sharing our struggles, reaching for our best, and modeling daily character.

    Hyde neither inspires nor influences; it fosters psychological dependency. From the moment of its founding, Hyde has greatly exaggerated and inflated the evils of the American family, youth culture, and educational system into a vast and interrelated culture that alienates youth from any deep sense of purpose in life. The promulgation of this myth justifies and encourages the creation of an alternative education. Unfortunately, Hyde offers no real alternative. Hyde's educational program lacks intellectual sophistication and doctrinal coherence; it does not possess the weight and power, historical, intellectual or organizational, to replace the existing educational system. Courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern amount to no more than a few scattered, insubstantial, and even unrelated principles that owe most of their apparent coherence of teaching and organization to the preconceptions and writings of the Gaulds themselves.

    My main criticism of Hyde, however, is that it is a persecuting culture. The monolithic student, parent, and peer culture Hyde creates within its walls, in opposition to America's "dysfunctional" culture, stamps out diversity, heterogeneity, free speech, free thought, and indeed courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern.


      Nicely written.  It is good to see a Hyde Alum that has gone on to a good Achievement Culture Liberal Arts School and learned to mold coherent thoughts into well written prose.

     I think this deserves a response from the Hyde community.  Got anyone that can write nearly that well?
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    « Reply #137 on: October 10, 2007, 08:18:47 PM »
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    What do our children most want from us? As parents, we can misread this. Our children may be telling us to leave them alone, or they may want us to "trust" them more and back off. We tell our parents that their children want us to inspire them. They may not even know they want this from us. However, their desire to be inspired may well be the strongest yearning they have, the greatest hope they have. We will not inspire them with our achievements. It will be done through sharing our struggles, reaching for our best, and modeling daily character.

    Hyde neither inspires nor influences; it fosters psychological dependency. From the moment of its founding, Hyde has greatly exaggerated and inflated the evils of the American family, youth culture, and educational system into a vast and interrelated culture that alienates youth from any deep sense of purpose in life. The promulgation of this myth justifies and encourages the creation of an alternative education. Unfortunately, Hyde offers no real alternative. Hyde's educational program lacks intellectual sophistication and doctrinal coherence; it does not possess the weight and power, historical, intellectual or organizational, to replace the existing educational system. Courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern amount to no more than a few scattered, insubstantial, and even unrelated principles that owe most of their apparent coherence of teaching and organization to the preconceptions and writings of the Gaulds themselves.

    My main criticism of Hyde, however, is that it is a persecuting culture. The monolithic student, parent, and peer culture Hyde creates within its walls, in opposition to America's "dysfunctional" culture, stamps out diversity, heterogeneity, free speech, free thought, and indeed courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern.

      Nicely written.  It is good to see a Hyde Alum that has gone on to a good Achievement Culture Liberal Arts School and learned to mold coherent thoughts into well written prose.

     I think this deserves a response from the Hyde community.  Got anyone that can write nearly that well?


    I was using steroids. As a writing aid I sometimes copy out a passage, and emend it until my idea is expressed. It helps me to learn and develop new styles. Where authorship is an issue I am careful to emend until not a trace of the original remains. I would probably deserve a yellow flag for plagiarism for submitting the above post under my own name.
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    « Reply #138 on: October 10, 2007, 10:20:10 PM »
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    I was using steroids. As a writing aid I sometimes copy out a passage, and emend it until my idea is expressed. It helps me to learn and develop new styles. Where authorship is an issue I am careful to emend until not a trace of the original remains. I would probably deserve a yellow flag for plagiarism for submitting the above post under my own name.


    well well, thnx 4 making that clear then!   :rofl:
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    « Reply #139 on: October 10, 2007, 11:48:59 PM »
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    well well, thnx 4 making that clear then!   :rofl:


    Thank Hyde. They taught me integrity.
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    « Reply #140 on: October 11, 2007, 03:17:47 AM »
    The Biggest Job® We'll Ever Have
    by Laura and Malcolm Gauld (Scribner, 2002)

    Let's have a look at the reviews...

      "From my fifty years of studying leadership, one single factor stands out: character. It is only character that counts in leadership and maturity. The Hyde Schools know how it's learned and developed. The Gauld's book incarnates with eloquent and moving language how Hyde achieves its miracles."
        -
    Warren Bennis, Distinguished Professor of Business, USC, Author of Managing the Dream[/list]
    "This book is a treasure trove of wisdom and practical know-how for both parents and educators. This book comes from the heads, hearts, and guts of the people who have built one of America's great schools."
      -
    Kevin Ryan, Ph.D. Professor and Director Emeritus, The Center for the Advancement of Ethics and Character[/list]
    "The Gaulds have taken the Hyde School's program for character-based education and written an accessible manual. When parents work on their own character, children are inspired to follow. Any parent eager to tackle the "biggest job" should consider this book required reading."
      -
    Charlene C . Giannetti, coauthor of The Roller-Coaster Years, Parenting 911, and Cliques[/list][/list]

    Who are these people?  In reverse order:

    Charlene C . Giannetti - formerly an editor and journalist for at least two business publications; of late a prolific writer of parent self-help books, generally paperback, often with co-author Margaret Sagarese. Her books include:

    • How to Capitalize on the Video Revolution (publisher?, year?)
    • Adoption: Parenthood Without Pregnancy (publisher?, year?)
    • The Part-Time Solution: The New Strategy for Managing Your Career While Managing Motherhood (publisher?, year?)
    • The Roller-Coaster Years: Raising Your Child Through the Maddening Yet Magical Middle School Years (Bantam Dell, Broadway Books, 1997)
    • Parenting 911: How to Safeguard and Rescue Your 10 to 15-Year-Old From Substance Abuse, Sexual Encounters, Violence, Failure in School, Danger on the Internet, and Other Risky Situations (Broadway Books, 1999)
    • Who Am I?...And Other Questions of Adopted Kids (Putnam Group, Price Stern Sloan, 1999)
    • Cliques: 8 Steps to Help Your Child Survive the Social Jungle (Broadway Books, 2001)
    • The Patience of a Saint: How Faith Can Sustain You During the Tough Times in Parenting (Broadway Books, 2002)
    • What Are You Doing In There? Balancing Your Need to Know with Your Adolescent's Need to Grow (Broadway Books, 2003)
    • Good Parents, Tough Times: How Your Catholic Faith Provides Hope and Guidance in Times of Crisis (Loyola, 2005)
    • Boy Crazy! Keeping Your Daughter's Feet on the Ground When Her Head Is in the Clouds (Broadway Books, 2006)
    See also:  http://www.rollercoasteryears.com/bio.htm

    Kevin Ryan - Ph.D. Professor and Director Emeritus, The Center for the Advancement of Ethics and Character.
      CAEC, founded by Dr. Ryan, is housed by Boston University's School of Education. Gee, isn't that Joe Gauld's old stomping ground for his Master's?

    CAEC's home page boasts the following slogan: "More than a decade of helping teachers, administrators, and parents build good character in today's students and tomorrow's leaders." Somehow that sounds vaguely familiar.  

    For the most part, this Institute appears to be above board, albeit with a decidedly conservative tenor. There are a few of Thomas Lickona's books in the Parent's Reading List, as well as a link for The Center For The 4th And 5th R's in the 'About Character Education' section.  See HERE for previous discussion about Lickona et al in the Hyde threads.

    Certainly there appear to be some standards applied to the scholarly pursuit. The Biggest Job did not make it to the CAEC Character Ed Reading List, but Joe's Character First, amazingly enough, did. I also recognize at least one, possibly two, books published by their faculty (found in the Publications List) who have quoted Joe in their work some years ago.[/list]
    So there are some historical connections between Hyde School/the Gauld family and BU's Center for the Advancement of Ethics and Character and/or Kevin Ryan. This wasn't exactly a review out of the blue.

    Warren Bennis - Distinguished Professor of Business, USC, Author of Managing the Dream. A self-made man, my favorite, gotta love him. Warren Bennis actually warrants his own Wikipedia page.

      I have to wonder about the Joe Gauld connection in this one as well, as apparently Bennis was kicking around MIT to BU to Harvard and back to MIT in the 50s and 60s. I am assuming that Bennis is two years older than Joe, and that they would have been pursuing their respective graduate studies around the same time. I am sure that Joe is quite familiar with Bennis; whether or not he knows him personally is the only question.

      Moreover, in "the mid-1950s,
    [Bennis] had been the most visible part of the most controversial movement ever to hit the typically staid world of business organizations: so-called human relations, invented by Kurt Lewin, and notably (or notoriously) put into practice as "T-Groups" at the National Training Laboratories in Bethel, Maine. T-groups took many forms, but the basic idea was to bring managers together in small groups to resolve the conflicts and role strains that undercut effective working relationships. Originally developed to deal with racial tension in the workplace by surfacing the sources of conflict, T-groups, in their later manifestations at Esalen and elsewhere, led to frequent parodying of the process."**  Any guess as to what these "T-groups" entailed?

    Bennis, incidentally, is also a consultant for Werner Erhard and Associates, having taken the est Training sometime in the 70s.  For those not familiar with that organization, see HERE for a short informative clip, spliced from the recent Robyn Symon documentary Transformation: The Life and Legacy of Werner Erhard (2006). Apparently Warren Bennis also appears in this film.[/list]

    So...The reviewers can be summarized as follows: a business guru with a predilection for est, who may or may not be a personal friend of Joe Gauld; a "character education" visionary, who already contributes to the spreading of Joe's word; and a prolific producer of pulp self-help titles with a decidedly Catholic bent, aimed at despairing and desperate parents.

    Does the sheen on this racket get any greasier??!!

    ** See HERE for more information on Warren Bennis, as well as the source for the above-noted quote.
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    « Reply #141 on: October 11, 2007, 10:00:11 AM »
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    Priority #10


    What do our children most want from us? As parents, we can misread this. Our children may be telling us to leave them alone, or they may want us to "trust" them more and back off. We tell our parents that their children want us to inspire them. They may not even know they want this from us. However, their desire to be inspired may well be the strongest yearning they have, the greatest hope they have. We will not inspire them with our achievements. It will be done through sharing our struggles, reaching for our best, and modeling daily character.

    Hyde neither inspires nor influences; it fosters psychological dependency. From the moment of its founding, Hyde has greatly exaggerated and inflated the evils of the American family, youth culture, and educational system into a vast and interrelated culture that alienates youth from any deep sense of purpose in life. The promulgation of this myth justifies and encourages the creation of an alternative education. Unfortunately, Hyde offers no real alternative. Hyde's educational program lacks intellectual sophistication and doctrinal coherence; it does not possess the weight and power, historical, intellectual or organizational, to replace the existing educational system. Courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern amount to no more than a few scattered, insubstantial, and even unrelated principles that owe most of their apparent coherence of teaching and organization to the preconceptions and writings of the Gaulds themselves.

    My main criticism of Hyde, however, is that it is a persecuting culture. The monolithic student, parent, and peer culture Hyde creates within its walls, in opposition to America's "dysfunctional" culture, stamps out diversity, heterogeneity, free speech, free thought, and indeed courage, integrity, leadership, curiosity, and concern.

      Nicely written.  It is good to see a Hyde Alum that has gone on to a good Achievement Culture Liberal Arts School and learned to mold coherent thoughts into well written prose.

     I think this deserves a response from the Hyde community.  Got anyone that can write nearly that well?

    I was using steroids. As a writing aid I sometimes copy out a passage, and emend it until my idea is expressed. It helps me to learn and develop new styles. Where authorship is an issue I am careful to emend until not a trace of the original remains. I would probably deserve a yellow flag for plagiarism for submitting the above post under my own name.


      Hey a Hard rains is gonna Fall,

    Robert Burns
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    « Reply #142 on: October 11, 2007, 10:15:19 AM »
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    Hey a Hard rains is gonna Fall,

    Robert Burns


    Wow, Dylan cribbed his name even. He's in good company: Ezra Pound and T. S. Eliot. Virgil and Dante. Matthew, Luke, and John. Malcolm Gauld.
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    « Reply #143 on: October 11, 2007, 10:29:29 AM »
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    Hey a Hard rains is gonna Fall,

    Robert Burns

    Wow, Dylan cribbed his name even. He's in good company: Ezra Pound and T. S. Eliot. Virgil and Dante. Matthew, Luke, and John. Malcolm Gauld.


    Well, at least he didn't call himself "Guest".
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    « Reply #144 on: October 11, 2007, 10:45:13 AM »
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    Hey a Hard rains is gonna Fall,

    Robert Burns

    Wow, Dylan cribbed his name even. He's in good company: Ezra Pound and T. S. Eliot. Virgil and Dante. Matthew, Luke, and John. Malcolm Gauld.

    Well, at least he didn't call himself "Guest".


    Whoops! Paul, not Malcolm.

    LINK
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    « Reply #145 on: October 11, 2007, 11:26:22 AM »
    Hey, I'm quoting the link.  Very interesting.
    Quote from: ""on Mon Nov 21, 2005 8:31 am, Guest""
    I don't think Paul did anything wrong...
    Malcolm Gauld gave him a bunch of his old speeches and said..here, these are yours, do what you want with them...so Paul used a portion of one of Malcolm's speeches in a graduation speech and didn't credit him...

    Pretty dumb huh?

    Sounds kinda like some one is being pretty free and easy with the "intellectual property" issues.  Kinda just like what Paul got in trouble for during his short time as a student back in 1966-67.  See HERE for the words directly from the pen of his savior, mentor, and father-in-law regarding that incident.
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    « Reply #146 on: October 11, 2007, 02:42:44 PM »
    Quote
    ...in the mid-1950s, [Bennis] had been the most visible part of the most controversial movement ever to hit the typically staid world of business organizations: so-called human relations, invented by Kurt Lewin, and notably (or notoriously) put into practice as "T-Groups" at the National Training Laboratories in Bethel, Maine. T-groups took many forms, but the basic idea was to bring managers together in small groups to resolve the conflicts and role strains that undercut effective working relationships. Originally developed to deal with racial tension in the workplace by surfacing the sources of conflict, T-groups, in their later manifestations at Esalen and elsewhere, led to frequent parodying of the process.

    From Wikipedia:
    T-groups

    In 1947, the Office of Naval Research and the National Education Association created the National Training Laboratories Institute in Bethel, Maine. It pioneered the use of T-groups (Sensitivity or Laboratory Training) in which the learners use feedback, problem solving, and role play to gain insights into themselves, others, and groups. The goal was to change the standards, attitudes and behavior of individuals.

    This type of training is controversial as the behaviors it encourages are often self-disclosure and openness, which many people believe an organization ultimately punishes. Also, a lot of the sensitivity training taking place uses excessive activities. The feedback used in this type of training can be highly personal, hence it must be given by highly trained observers (trainers).

    ===========================

    Does this sound a bit like Seminar or Discovery Group to anyone?
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    « Reply #147 on: October 11, 2007, 03:24:47 PM »
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    Hey a Hard rains is gonna Fall,

    Robert Burns

    Wow, Dylan cribbed his name even. He's in good company: Ezra Pound and T. S. Eliot. Virgil and Dante. Matthew, Luke, and John. Malcolm Gauld.


    Hot licks and rhetoric don't count much for nothin'
    Be glad if you can use what you borrow.


      I have had my stuff borrowed.  If I told you what it was you would not believe me.  Honestly I just glad people liked it.  I wrote it under the woodie guthrie copyright.
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    « Reply #148 on: October 11, 2007, 03:38:46 PM »
    " ...  anybody caught singin’ it without our permission, will be mighty good friends of ourn, cause we don’t give a dern. Publish it. Write it. Sing it. Swing to it. Yodel it. We wrote it, that’s all we wanted to do...."

    Woodie Guthrie.

      Dylan is one of the most prolific poplar and profitable plagiarists of our time.  He has lifted from the know and unknown.  It was a revelation when I started scratching down into Americana to find out how many songs he did not write that are copy written under his stage name.  He is still a genius.
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    « Reply #149 on: October 11, 2007, 03:42:46 PM »
    Some more on T-Groups.  This from a small business consulting firm in Seattle, Washington called "Organization Development Consulting & Training."  Interestingly enough, all three principles in this firm have spent considerable professional time in Maine.  There is a quote from Warren Bennis on one of the website pages discussing Organization Development.

    Here are links to two pages on their site.  If you are short on patience, skip to the bottom section:  "Possible Problems."

    ===============================

    HUMAN RELATIONS LAB (T-Groups)

    A excellent resource for learning about group process and each person's impact on the group. This event is a mix of Training Groups (T-Groups) and theory on group dynamics and interpersonal awareness. It is best conducted with "stranger groups" -- people who do not work closely with each other.

    A Training Group is an experiential learning lab, that focuses the attention of participants on the "here and now" behavior, feelings and thinking of group members. It is an unstructured, non-directive small group setting.  The T-Group is intended to provide you the opportunity to:

    • Increase your understanding of group development and dynamics.
    • Gaining a better understanding of the underlying social processes at work within a group (looking under the tip of the iceberg)
    • Increase your skill in facilitating group effectiveness.
    • Increase interpersonal skills
    • Experiment with changes in your behavior
    • Increase your awareness of your own feelings in the moment; and offer you the opportunity to accept responsibility for your feelings
    • Increase your understanding of the impact of your behavior on others.
    • Increase your sensitivity to others' feelings.
    • Increase your ability to give and receive feedback.
    • Increase your ability to learn from a group's experience.
    • Increase your ability to manage and utilize conflict.
    Success in these goals depends, to a large extent, on the implied contract that each participant is willing to disclose feelings that she or he may have, in the moment, about others in the group, and to solicit feedback from the others about herself or himself.

    Also, see More on T-Groups

    ===============================

    More on T-Groups

    History

    In 1947, the National Training Laboratories Institute began in Bethel, ME. They pioneered the use of T-groups  (Laboratory Training) in which the learners use here and now experience in the group, feedback among participants and theory on human behavior to explore group process and gain insights into themselves and others. The goal is to offer people options for their behavior in groups.  The T-group was a great training innovation which provided the base for what we now know about team building. This was a new method that would help leaders and managers create a more humanistic, people serving system and allow leaders and managers to see how their behavior actually affected others. There was a strong value of  concern for people and a desire to create systems that took people's needs and feelings seriously.

    Objectives of T-Group Learning

    The T-Group is intended to provide you the opportunity to:

    • Increase your understanding of group development and dynamics.
    • Gaining a better understanding of the underlying social processes at work within a group (looking under the tip of the iceberg)
    • Increase your skill in facilitating group effectiveness.
    • Increase interpersonal skills
    • Experiment with changes in your behavior
    • Increase your awareness of your own feelings in the moment; and offer you the opportunity to accept responsibility for your feelings.
    • Increase your understanding of the impact of your behavior on others.
    • Increase your sensitivity to others' feelings.
    • Increase your ability to give and receive feedback.
    • Increase your ability to learn from your own and a group's experience.
    • Increase your ability to manage and utilize conflict.
    Success in these goals depends, to a large extent, on the implied contract that each participant is willing to disclose feelings that she or he may have, in the moment, about others in the group, and to solicit feedback from the others about herself or himself. The focus is upon individual learning; some participants may learn a great deal in most of the above areas, others learn relatively little.

    Method

    One way of describing what may happen for a participant is --

    • Unfreezing habitual responses to situations -- this is facilitated by the participant's own desire to explore new ways of behaving and the trainer staying non-directive, silent, and providing little structure or task agenda
    • Self generated and chosen change by the participant --   Experiment with new behaviors -- Practice description not evaluation of                                                                          
    • Reinforce new behavior by positive feedback, participants own assessment of whether what is happening is closer to what she/he intends, supportive environment, trust development
    Sources of Change in Groups

    • Self-observation - participants give more attention to their own intentions, feelings, etc.
    • Feedback - participants receive information on the impact they have on others
    • Insight - participants expand self-knowledge
    • Self-disclosure - participants exposes more of themselves to others
    • Universality - participants experience that others share their difficulties, concerns or hopes
    • Group Cohesion - participants experience trust, acceptance & understanding)
    • Hope - participant see others learn, achieve their goals, improve, and  cope more effectively
    • Vicarious Learning - participants pick up skills and attitudes from others
    • Catharsis - participants experience a sense of release or breakthrough
    A Description

    The T-group provides participants with an opportunity to learn about themselves, their impact on others and  how to function more effectively in group and interpersonal situations. It facilitates this learning by bringing together a small group of people for the express purpose of studying their own behavior when they interact within a small group.

    A T-Group is not a group discussion or a problem solving group.

    The group's work is primarily process rather than content oriented. The focus tends to be on the feelings and the communication of feelings, rather than on the communication of information, opinions, or concepts. This is accomplished by focusing on the 'here and now' behavior in the group. Attention is paid to particular behaviors of participants not on the "whole person", feedback is non-evaluative and reports on the impact of the behavior on others. The participant has the opportunity to become a more authentic self in relation to others through self disclosure and receiving feedback from others. The Johari Window is a model that looks at that process.    

    The training is not structured in the manner you might experience in an academic program or a meeting with an agenda or a team with a task to accomplish. The lack of structure and limited involvement of the trainers provides space for the participants to decide what they want to talk about. No one tells them what they ought to talk about. The lack of direction results in certain characteristic responses; participants are silent or aggressive or struggle to start discussions or attempt to structure the group.

    In the beginning of a T-Group participants are usually focused on what they experience as a need for structure, individual emotional safety, predictability, and something to do in common. These needs are what amount to the tip of the iceberg in most groups in their back home situation. By not filling the group's time with answers to these needs, the T-Group eventually begins to notice what is under the tip of the iceberg. It is what is always there in any group but often unseen and not responsibly engaged . So, participants experience anxiety about authority and power, being include and accepted in the group, and intimacy.

    Depending on forces, such as, the dynamics of the group, the past experience and competence of participants, and the skill of the trainers -- the group, to some extent, usually develops a sense of itself as a group, with feelings of group loyalty. This can cause groups to resist learning opportunities if they are seen as threatening to the group's self-image. It also provides some of the climate of trust, support and permission needed for individuals to try new behavior.

    As an individual participant begins to experience some degree of trust (in themselves, the group and the trainers) several things become possible --

    • The participant may notice that his/her feelings and judgments about the behavior of others is not always shared by others. That what he/she found supportive or threatening was not experience in that way by others in the group. That how one responded to authority, acceptance and affection issues different from that of others (more related to ones family of origin than to what is happening in the group). Individual differences emerge in how experiences are understood.
    • The participant may begin to try on new behavior. For example, someone who has always felt a need to fill silence with noise and activity tries being quieter and still.
    • Participants begin to ask for feedback from the group about how their behavior is impacting others.
    • Participants may find that they are really rather independent and have a relatively low level of anxiety about what is happening in the group. They will exhibit a broader range of behavior and emotions during the life of the group. In fact their leadership is part of what helps the group develop.

    The role of the trainers

    • To help the group and individuals analyze and learn from what is happening in the group. The trainer may draw attention to events and behavior in the group and invite the group to look at its experience. At times the  trainer may offer tentative interpretations.
    • To offer theory, a model or research that seems related to what the group is looking at.
    • To encourage the group to follow norms that tend to serve the learning process, e.g., focusing on "here & now" rather than the "then & there".
    • To offer training and coaching in skills that tend to help the learning process, e.g., feedback skills, EIAG, etc.
    • To not offer structure or an agenda. To remain silent, allowing the group to experience its anxiety about acceptance, influence, etc.
    • To be willing to disclose oneself, to be open with the group. On occasion being willing to offer feedback and challenge a participant
    • To avoid becoming too directive, clinical, or personally involved.

    Possible Problems

    T-Group methods usually encourage self-disclosure and openness, which may be inappropriate or even punished in organizations. This was an early learning. When managers thought they could take the T-group method into the back home organization, they discovered that the methods and the assumptions of a T-group did not fit. T-groups consisted of participants who were strangers. They didn't have a history or a future together and could more easily  focus on here and now behavior. Another issue was that in the organization there were objectives, deadlines and schedules related to accomplishing the work of the company or group. Groups with a task to accomplish could not take the same time that would be used in a T-Group. These difficulties helped lead to the development of Organization Development and team building. What had been learned in T-Groups was combined with other knowledge and these new disciplines emerged as ways to address the values raised by the T-Group experience.

    The T-Group experience can open up a web of questioning in a participant. Ways of behaving that the person has used for many years may be called into question by others in the group and oneself. This has in some cases brought the participant to question relationships in the family or at work. While this can be a very constructive process that leads to the renewal of relationships, it has on occasion lead to the breakdown of a relationship. While such a breakdown may have, in time, come to the relationship without participation in a T-Group, it remains a painful and possibly damaging experience.

    • Participants being forced or pressured to attend, by an employer or other person with influence, are on the whole less likely to have a positive learning experience. Employers or others who want to require the participation of others may enhance the chance of having a productive outcome if -- they attend a lab themselves before sending others; they speak with the lab coordinator before the event to discuss what might realistically be expected and what the leader could do to assist in the learning process when the participant returns home.


    Very rarely there have been situations in which a participant has a psychiatric problem. One report said "The possibility of negative psychiatric effects of ST, and especially its role in inducing psychiatric symptoms, is yet to be clarified."  This reinforces the value of participation based on intrinsic motivation; a norm that discourages people in therapy from attending without the approval of their therapist; and trainers staying focused on the learning areas suited for T-Group experiences.

    Copyright Robert A. Gallagher  2001

    Agencies that offer T-Group training and other lab training experience:
    LTI - Leadership Training Institute
    NTL - National Training Laboratories Institute

    Additional background on T-Groups and related issues
    Kurt Lewin: groups, experiential learning and action research
    Working with T-Groups? - A section of "Working with Groups"
    What is Kolb's model of experiential education, and where does it come from? -  By Richard W. Shields, Dorothy Aaron, and Shannon Wall
    A Social History of the T-Group
    National Society for Experiential Education
    UA Experiential Learning Cycle model
    Touchy-Feely to Organization T-Group By Theme (humor)
     
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