I never said she had no choice. She's obviously a nice person, and felt compelled to help this Patti person out, because from what I read she was sounding desperate. That in no way makes her a person running around referring people. No one ever said she was, she was contacted because she was listed as a friend on Isabelles myspace for the purpose of bringing down Isabelle. How fair is that?
If someone came to me and asked me for help, and I had my kid in a program, or knew someone who had, I would have referred them to that friend, or person, and hoped they could help, or sent them to someone else who could help. That's all Sandy did. And people are telling her she had no right. You have got to be kidding me. Now you guys have a right to dictate who tells who what?
I'm just glad I wasn't listed as one of Isabelle's friends because no doubt that I would also be drug through the mud and chastised for trying to help, as an ex parent of the program.