Oh, Niles, just a wait a few years and women will swarm on you like bees to honey.
One of my best male friends, one of the nicest, smartest, and most talented men I ever met, who is also good looking, was too drama free for many young women to appreciate. So, he waited. Now he is 29, married to a hot, smart lawyer, who is fun, family oriented and smart. She is a woman who appreciates a good man (which shows self esteem) and she still gives him lap dances to show for it!
But, Niles, if you just want a good screw, then go to Single Club Med, get obliterated and have fun. There is also a website (I forget the name) that is good for meeting people for short term, alternative meet ups. You could even advertise yourself as a great guy who needs to screw.
Just don't be an ass. OK? No, no, no!
Also: consider this: maybe you are attracted to superficial bitches who are unavailable because they prefer schmucks. In that case, you might want to re-evaluate your tastes.