Lester Roloffs Rebekah Home for Girls Survivors-Cult-mindcon

[Anonymous]

some rebekah survivors have gone on with their lives, and i am speaking for myself, have survived way worse than rebekah. i know having raised a teenager myself, that some parents really had no choice.for myself, i know i put my parents through alot, and at least i was safe from others and myself.how hard was it?  raising children and working full time is a whole hell of alot harder than my time spent at rebekah.i cannot for the life of me figure out why you old rebekah girls cannot simply go on with your lives.do some of you women not have mouthy rebelious teenagers? my mother did the best she could do with me.why dwell on the bad things that happened years ago? god does not want you to walk around with bitter,angry souls. why not instead of getting on here and venting ,go to the legislation and get things changed.it is not helping anyone to hear all of the bad memories.rolling around in the mud doesn't change things,and cannot be making it better.we all know how we were treated at rebekah. no secret to any of us. advice to you, pray to the god that roloff taught you about, forgive your parents, and love yourself enough to not carry around the baggage from years ago.

[Anonymous]

Both :roll:

[Anonymous]

Both :roll:

[Anonymous]

On 2005-10-30 19:23:00, The Liger wrote:

"What's worse:  Wasting time writing about the past online, or wasting time writing about how people are wasting time writing about the past online?



 :nworthy:

It was a hard decision But....I think it is the people talking about the people talking about their past.  



On 2005-10-27 16:57:00, Anonymous wrote:


"life goes on.i agree.it is crazy how some people worry about what happened years ago, they need to start worrying about today. so much time people are wasting about their pasts, get on with your futures.i agree with the bitterness statement.let go let god. spend time with your families instead of getting on here and griping and worrying about the camerons.hug your children, and quit your bitching. the term children was used also, i feel it is time for you angry bitter people to grow up and move on."

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[Anonymous]

I am one of those old Rebekah girls. And It was a walk in the park for me there compared to what some of the girls behind me. And I agree that it is not healthy to hold all that is side and carry it around. There comes a time in all of our life's that we must move on and let go of our pasts. But in order to get past it we must face it, take it by the horns and wrestle with it. Hearing others stories helps- for those who have for many years been felt very alone. There are still a lot of  girls out there....that continue to carry this around and have shut themselves down because of it. And need someone who has been there and can relate. It is to those people I owe my heart and loyalty. They shared their story's and friendship with me and as a result of that - It is now after all these years, I have begun to heal. I think it is wrong to make anyone feel guilty for telling their story. Especially those who are just now beginning to look for the first time for a place to come where others understand. It is a relief knowing there are others to share tears and a hug. You would be surprised how powerful and how far those two words  I UNDERSTAND can carry one. If you have moved on than why are you in here re-reading? If it means so much to you that others do that and you are now strong enough and your weights have been lifted, Then where is your support? What can we do to lighten their load? I say support them don't condemn them! Is it so far fetch to extend you hand and heart to them? If for nothing else to just listen? What good advise do you have that will help them other than GET OVER IT GROW UP! Those can be very hurtful words to one looking for a friend.
Why can't we help them when they come carrying baggage, to leave without it? I think the only thing at this point that we could do without in here is all the cat fights. The contempt that is held for one another instead of love. I think would be the best starting point is for everyone to stop being so angry at each other, Say I am sorry and hug, so when we do grab that monster by the horns, So we will have help, And in numbers- Then we can heal togather

[siamie]

how do we get past the misunderstandings?

a forest of douglas firs will withstand the storm, one will not.

there is strength in numbers

[The Liger]

On 2005-10-31 17:33:00, Anonymous wrote:

"it is not helping anyone to hear all of the bad memories."

It helps the rest of us to know that we are not alone.  It helps trigger our suppressed memories.  In the year or so that I have been coming on this and other websites, I have healed more than I did in the ten years prior to that when I kept everything to myself, thinking that no one else in the entire world understood the feelings that I have.  Hearing all the other stories has given me a sense of validation about those feelings and has shown me that I am not alone.

So why don't you get over yourself and stop assuming that you are the great authority on what helps people and what does not help people?  Since we are out of these facilities, and since we are adults, we are free to decide what is good for us.  We don't need someone else beating it into us that they know what is good for us.

[Anonymous]

CHEERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!LIGER well said. :nworthy:

[Anonymous]

hey liger no one here is tryin to be authoritarion about anything. we are adult women that need to quit  being self absorbed and feeling sorry for ourselves.life hands you lemons make lemonade.get over your self and all of the bad things that have happened to you, and quit being the victim.poor pitiful you, you had to SURVIVE roloff.god bless, life is not a rainbow for anyone.hell i had to SURVIVE walmart parking lot today.keep rollin in mud dear,  put on wonder woman costume and by god, save the fucking world.halaluehhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

i do not get on here and roll around in the roloff mud and bitch.i do not try and get on here and save the fucking world either. someone said to me get over it, and ya know ,i fuckin did. i am only tryin to pass on the great words of wisdom-GET OVER IT. i know that if those three words got me over all of my feel sorry for myself, oh i had it sooo bad bullshit...then maybe it will help someone else. i choose not to walk around ugly and bitter. i choose not to catfight with someone with no claws.behave yourself little girl,for that it what you are acting like. halloween was over yesterday.WONDER WOMAN NEEDS TO BE PUT IT UNTIL NEXT YEAR.

[Anonymous]

:tup: halaleulaaaaaaa!!!!is that how ya spelled it?

[Anonymous]

do not get on here and roll around in the roloff mud and bitch.i do not try and get on here and save the fucking world either. someone said to me get over it, and ya know ,i fuckin did. i am only tryin to pass on the great words of wisdom-GET OVER IT. i know that if those three words got me over all of my feel sorry for myself, oh i had it sooo bad bullshit...then maybe it will help someone else. i choose not to walk around ugly and bitter. i choose not to catfight with someone with no claws.behave yourself little girl,for that it what you are acting like. halloween was over yesterday.WONDER WOMAN NEEDS TO BE PUT IT UNTIL NEXT YEAR.

your words say differently because you jump on anyone who isn't over it and tear them apart. you are being ugly by yelling at us to get over it

[Anonymous]

i am so not jumpin on anyone.why don't you get out of your corner and quit being on the defense dear.

[Anonymous]

MINDCONTROL, you girls are so easy. so funny to me how I can get on here and absolutely make you GIRLS, respond. true women will not be controlled. please ladies do your husbands and children a favor AND GROW UP.ta ta for now,dinner time.hahahahahahahaha

[Anonymous]

by the way, cut copy and paste my foot in your ass. :lol: