Yeah...good move (Deborah I think) to break it off, the thread sort of got hijacked by DJ, didnt realize it went on for so many pages after that.
Well, not really. You actually made a very big statement of your own volition. then you got embarrassed because you were caight in another bad spot so you went about trolling the thread to avoid accounting for your statement.
This is a program tactic straight from the book: demand vehemently that everyone accept accountabiliity for what they do and say,
unless you're a staff member in which case you simply refuse to take responsibility for your actions and words and blame the child for the problem that ensues.
This is what you've done in this thread, Who. You stuck that foot in your mouth again and now you'll do and say
anything to avoid responsibility for it, just like the way you blamed your daughter for your family problems and abdicated responsibility for the situation and
sent her to be programmed into something you felt worthy of your love. You wanted a stepford child and you paid big bucks for it. Then it all blew up in your face when your daughter came home and cut you out of her life. And who could blame her?
You keep saying you "tried everything" at home, but just yesterday you admitted you never even went to family therapy, you sent your daughter to therapy, alone, because
she was the problem in your eyes, and when that, unsurprisingly, didn't "work," you sent her away, alone, to a program, for two years to be "fixed."
Your
whole life with your own child is composed of excuses, copouts and
conditional love. Naturally, she has rejected you, as she should reject anyone who behaves as you do. Good for her.
You are one very, very sad and very sick person, Who. If I were you I wouldn't want to talk about it either. :cry:

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