I´m german and mother. ... and my english is ... ;(
but .. my daughter upfilled all criteris for AEG-programs inclusiv drugs. We went through this time and believe me, it was not easy, I had no expierience, but I learned much.
Best of all I learned was, that we pamper our kids and when they try to go their own way ... mayby not so straight, because they must do their own expiriences, you have to take the roll of the coach. Listening, talking ... and never foget, that you have done the best you could. Trust in your education! Maybe, you cannot see your little child anymore, but this is normal! They must find the own way of life. Be the coach and don´t drop the communication.
My daughter and me, we had tough times. I think, that is what parents are for. Not only for the good times, when they are so cute.
Never ever I did really think about "outsourcing ".
Sad to read, that you think, that germans have another point of view because of history.
I affirm, that you´are wrong

If anyone want to say something about the TAB, I recommend
www.bke-elternberatung.de We try to care about our kids, without send away them.
Konstigt hur rest av världen se oss

Dansk kan jag inte, men svensk ... och covergarden ... sorry

jag läste Din tysk översättningen, ingen tysk kan förstâr det. Använde Du ett översättningsprogramm?
Vill gärna hjälpa till.
Last at least ... sorry for my horrible english