Dude, shes just looking for justification for her actions and feelings, and fornits doesnt provide that. We call people on their bullshit. ST does not, they just justify and 'support' any action any parent feels like taking, period, and on top of that makes them feel like them (and all parents) are saints and all kids who arent perfect are bad, and the parents are the stoic victims blah blah blah.
No wonder they hated me, and no wonder they all took it personally if I brought up the fact that DUH, there are plenty of parents just ditching kids in programs, or who just want attention - be it "omg my kid is so bad I need help" or "omg my kid was so abused omg Im so sorry".
We're wasting our time! They dont want anything but continued whitewashing and sugarcoating, nevermind that in 30~ some odd years of this industry being in existance not one program has proven theyre effective at reducing recidivism, and not one person can justify the fact that their anachronistic and abusive practices that add up to little more than culty behavior modification (for a REALLY high profit) as a service for parents, whether they realize it or not.
Parents who want a better kid get what they want - parents who genuinely care and are twisted and manipulated into a panic over their kid find a solution to that imagined problem via the program, sorta like how the same priest who tries to scare you about hell offers you a way out.
Programs are just the opiate of parents who for some reason cant do the job themselves. Im still waiting for facts that show they work, not just emotionally charged appeals to give them more chances to prove that they work, even with the past 30 years of abuse and brainwashing fresh in everyones mind, and I seriously doubt Ill ever see it!