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« Reply #180 on: October 30, 2006, 02:45:26 PM »
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That's fine too.  We've gotten to know a few of your neighbors quite well and they really don't like you.  We can work on expanding that and informing more of them of what a sadistic fuck they live next to. :wave:

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« Reply #181 on: October 30, 2006, 03:26:15 PM »
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I personally will leave immediately if press shows up though.


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« Reply #182 on: October 30, 2006, 04:05:14 PM »
Because for me this is a private thing.  I have no interest in participating in anything that could be construed as a protest or anything like it, for this at least.  This is a memorial and IMO press being there would cheapen the whole idea behind it.
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« Reply #183 on: October 30, 2006, 04:27:45 PM »
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Parameters and rules?  Where?  From what I can tell, it seems to be a pretty wide open venue for us to mourn or otherwise pay our respects, collectively and individually.  I don't see any parameters other than the place, date and time.  From what I understand, anyone who wishes to speak will be given an opportunity to do so.  I don't think there are any "rules or regulations" other than mutual respect and courtesy between attendees.

People wanting it held at the bldg. then others freaking out about that.  People inviting press, others freaking out about that.  People turning it into their personal 'gig', people freaking about that.  People wanting "firm RSVPs" because they don't want to be there alone.  Why not?  If the purpose is a memorial why does it matter who does or doesn't show?

It ain't that fucking complicated.  Pick a place......ANY place.  Show up.  Speak, don't speak.  I personally will leave immediately if press shows up though.


Aren't you tired of writing yet?????
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« Reply #184 on: October 30, 2006, 05:20:31 PM »
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« Reply #185 on: October 30, 2006, 05:20:48 PM »
Someone asked a question so I answered.  Aren't you tired of being an asshole yet?
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« Reply #186 on: October 30, 2006, 05:43:23 PM »
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Someone asked a question so I answered.  Aren't you tired of being an asshole yet?


Not that it is important in any way, shape, or form...but I wanted to clarify that I, the asshole opposed to composing a centralized list of the dead, is a different asshole than he/she discussing the currently stirring the pot.

I say this only to possibly make Valhalla and Starry smile after causing so much shit last week.

Peace.
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« Reply #187 on: October 30, 2006, 06:17:07 PM »
Actually, this is not a "newsworthy" event, so even if media types were invited,  they wouldn't show.
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« Reply #188 on: October 31, 2006, 08:31:34 AM »
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I personally will leave immediately if press shows up though.

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« Reply #189 on: October 31, 2006, 12:43:28 PM »
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« Reply #190 on: October 31, 2006, 03:19:11 PM »
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I say this only to possibly make Valhalla and Starry smile after causing so much shit last week.

Peace.
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I take it you've accepted my cease-fire agreement and we have possibly achieved an actual truce here?

Now for THAT, I would smile. :D
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« Reply #191 on: November 01, 2006, 08:39:30 AM »
HOW CAN THERE BE A CEASE FIRE FOR SOMETHING THAT WAS JUST PEOPLE TALKING ON THE INTERNET. IF PEOPLE CAN'T TAKE SOMEONE'S OPINION ON A THING, MAYBE THEY THEMSELVES SHOULD EXIT THE DISCUSSION INSTEAD OF ACTING LIKE SOMEONE WITH AN OPINION MUST BE TRYING TO DO SOMETHING BAD JUST BY SAYING IT. IF THAT PERSON ACTUALLY STARTED MAKING A LIST OF PEOPLE WHO DIED WHO HAD BEEN IN STRAIGHT, WHY IS IT SO BAD FOR THEM TO SAY THAT, IF THAT IS WHAT THEY DID AND THEN  BECAUSE OF THAT THEY REALIZED SOMETHING, WHY WAS IT EVER A PROBLEM FOR THEM TO COME HERE AND SAY IT?

WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS, DID ANYONE WITH ANY KIND OF LIST EVER CROSS CHECK IT WITH SOCIAL SECURITY DEATH RECORDS?

I ALSO SAY, IF FAMILIES OF SUICIDES DO NOT WANT THEIR CHILD'S NAME PUT ON ANY LIST, THEY ARE STILL COMPLICIT IN THE CRIME THAT KILLED THEIR CHILD. FROM CONVERSATIONS WITH STRAIGHT SURVIVORS, STRAIGHT WAS A CONTINUATION OF THE CHILD ABUSE THEY WERE ALREADY GETTING AT HOME. EVEN THE SUBTLE CHILD ABUSE OF MAKING YOUR CHILD CRAZY BY NOT BELIEVING WHAT THEY SAY, OR FORCING YOUR CHILD INTO A TERRIBLE HORRIFYING ABUSIVE SITUATION IN WHICH CHILDREN ARE BEING TORTURED ON THE BARE FLOOR EVERY SINGLE DAY. I SAY, IT IS TIME FOR PARENTS OF CHILDREN WHO WERE IN STRAIGHT TO SPEAK OUT. THEY ABANDONED US IN STRAIGHT, NOT ONLY THAT, THEY GAVE STRAIGHT MONEY AND SUPPORTED IT'S CAUSE OF CHILD TORTURE. THEY ARE THEREFORE COMPLICIT IN THE CONTINUED LIFE OF STRAIGHT, THEY ARE GUILTY FOR THE CONTINUED CHILD TORTURE -- AND BY U.S. ARMY AS WELL AS UNITED NATIONS DEFINITIONS OF TORTURE, STRAIGHT IS WITHOUT QUESTION A TORTURE INSTITUTION.

TAKE OFF YOUR BLINDFOLDS, USA, BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT RECRIMINATION. I AM TALKING ABOUT REPENTANCE AND CLEAR VISION OF A NEW WAY BY FACING THE TRUTH OF HISTORY.
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« Reply #192 on: November 01, 2006, 09:44:32 AM »
Intense!
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« Reply #193 on: November 01, 2006, 02:23:41 PM »
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I ALSO SAY, IF FAMILIES OF SUICIDES DO NOT WANT THEIR CHILD'S NAME PUT ON ANY LIST, THEY ARE STILL COMPLICIT IN THE CRIME THAT KILLED THEIR CHILD.

So let me ask, are you saying that if I were deceased and you called my mother to ask her about my death and she told you to shit in your hat (which she would), she would be guilty of continuing to engage in child abuse by the denial of your request for information?

While I respect your opinion, I definitely feel differently.  Frankly, I think that the program had way too much information about my life in the first place and that if anyone from straight came nosing around in my family business at this point in my life, my family obligation (as loving and caring folks) would be to kindly shoot the person in the face.  ::unhappy::  ::smokingun::

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WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS, DID ANYONE WITH ANY KIND OF LIST EVER CROSS CHECK IT WITH SOCIAL SECURITY DEATH RECORDS?

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FROM CONVERSATIONS WITH STRAIGHT SURVIVORS, STRAIGHT WAS A CONTINUATION OF THE CHILD ABUSE THEY WERE ALREADY GETTING AT HOME


From conversations?  Were you not in straight yourself?  If not, things are a little more difficult for me to explain...

Again, while I read and respect your words, I beg to differ with your opinion.  I wasn't abused by my parents, I ABUSED my parents in the worst of ways.  Granted, some more intense counseling would have been nice before I was sent to the gulag, but they were desperate parents looking deperately for some sort of solution.  They were sucked in hook, line, and sinker just like tens of thousands of other parents.

Also, I think there is an important distinction to make (and I am simply making the distinction, I do not have the time or energy to defend my stance on the issue and run around in circles about why I believe it makes sense).  In many ways the program was indeed responsible for more deaths than we could ever really and accurately count no matter what research method is used.  BUT even if the program never existed, I think common logic dictates that there would still be a high number of suicides amongst the same group of folks.  I have had a couple of friends from the program suicide over things that had absolutely nothing to do with the program, not even in some sort of roundabout way.  For instance, a mother suicided over a recent untimely death of her only child.  In some way this mother thought that through her death she would once again be with the child she loved so dearly.  It has nothing at all to do with straight (and she wouldn't want to be on anyone's list either, but that is another arguement).
In brief, correlation does not always imply causation.

See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlatio ... al_fallacy) for additional details on this arguement of logic.

Too much thinking, I need a smoke. ::bandit::
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« Reply #194 on: November 01, 2006, 03:18:39 PM »
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In many ways the program was indeed responsible for more deaths than we could ever really and accurately count no matter what research method is used.  BUT even if the program never existed, I think common logic dictates that there would still be a high number of suicides amongst the same group of folks.  I have had a couple of friends from the program suicide over things that had absolutely nothing to do with the program, not even in some sort of roundabout way.  For instance, a mother suicided over a recent untimely death of her only child.  In some way this mother thought that through her death she would once again be with the child she loved so dearly.  It has nothing at all to do with straight (and she wouldn't want to be on anyone's list either, but that is another arguement).
In brief, correlation does not always imply causation.


Very good point.  There is no way to truly deduce what the cause was, but perhaps those that did choose suicide, for whatever reason, were somehow, impaired (by whatever reason...be that their incarceration in Straight or other problems they endured in life) to be able to look beyond their overwhelming circumstances.

I have to say that your friend who killed herself, because of her child's death, was heartbreaking to me, also as a mother.
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