I am Barb Henschel and I urge any parent who has been through SAFE or currently expericing the effects to please post and you amy remain anonymous. Get your story help your kids to recover. Keeping quiet not sepaking about it never makes it go away. Jeff and I speak about it whenever he feels the need, I never coeirce him. To this day he will say something when a trigger comes up, that he didn't remember or was tyring desperatly to forget..
Your kids need your support and understanding. Listen to the survivors who have been out 20 plus years, some are still suffering.