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« Reply #15 on: June 16, 2006, 07:10:00 PM »
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On 2006-06-16 15:22:00, Anonymous wrote:


"Thanks everyone. I have hired an INDEPENDENT Ed Con to review my options.I just hope he can help. I fel lost right now."




Good choice, way better than a dependent ed con.



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But not as good as an ed con who wear "depends" because they might just be old enough to remember when sending kids away wasn't an option for parents.  They had no choice but to stick adolescence out with their kids.


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« Reply #16 on: June 16, 2006, 07:12:00 PM »
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"Thanks everyone. I have hired an INDEPENDENT Ed Con to review my options.I just hope he can help. I fel lost right now."


Just know that Ed Cons make their living by referring parents to behavior mod facilities.  They're not going to give you any good info on community based programs or individual counseling.  Please, do NOT send this child away.  I promise you it will only make things worse.  You seem genuine in wanting to help her and I'm sure you're scared for her but sending her away to one of those places will surely make it worse.

Good luck.
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« Reply #17 on: June 16, 2006, 08:02:00 PM »
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On 2006-06-16 15:22:00, Anonymous wrote:


"Thanks everyone. I have hired an INDEPENDENT Ed Con to review my options.I just hope he can help. I fel lost right now."




Just know that Ed Cons make their living by referring parents to behavior mod facilities.  They're not going to give you any good info on community based programs or individual counseling.  Please, do NOT send this child away.  I promise you it will only make things worse.  You seem genuine in wanting to help her and I'm sure you're scared for her but sending her away to one of those places will surely make it worse.



Good luck."


This is absolutely FALSE.  Our Ed Con. recommended Buxton which is NOT a BM school.  I'll be around here for awhile clearing up some of this crazy, bs.
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« Reply #18 on: June 16, 2006, 08:06:00 PM »
Your ______ will be around here for a while...
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« Reply #19 on: June 16, 2006, 08:10:00 PM »
That is where you are wrong.  Parents do come here for advice and I'll monitor and weigh in when the bs gets too thick.  

Original Poster:  There are rotten ed cons and good ones-  be careful if he/she only comes up with one or two options that happen to be TBS.  There are other options out there if local options are not available.
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« Reply #20 on: June 16, 2006, 08:16:00 PM »
The point is that Ed Cons get paid by the facility they refer to.....EVEN IF THE PARENT ALSO PAYS A FEE.  These people make their living off of referring to facilities outside the home when in reality most kids, especially "troubled" ones (god I HATE that term and there are very few actual troubled teens, most are just kids scaring the shit out of their parents) need to be at home.

Buyer beware.


Oh, and btw.....

"I'll monitor and weigh in when the bs gets too thick.
 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:
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« Reply #21 on: June 16, 2006, 08:22:00 PM »
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"That is where you are wrong.  Parents do come here for advice and I'll monitor and weigh in when the bs gets too thick."


 ::bigsmilebounce::  :smile:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:
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« Reply #22 on: June 16, 2006, 09:24:00 PM »
parents are parents
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« Reply #23 on: June 16, 2006, 09:25:00 PM »
true story
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« Reply #24 on: June 16, 2006, 09:27:00 PM »
Shit, fuck.                  .
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« Reply #25 on: June 16, 2006, 09:28:00 PM »
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Shit, fuck.   .

Excellent point, Smithers!
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« Reply #26 on: June 16, 2006, 10:45:00 PM »
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On 2006-06-16 17:16:00, Anonymous wrote:

"The point is that Ed Cons get paid by the facility they refer to.....EVEN IF THE PARENT ALSO PAYS A FEE.  These people make their living off of referring to facilities outside the home when in reality most kids, especially "troubled" ones (god I HATE that term and there are very few actual troubled teens, most are just kids scaring the shit out of their parents) need to be at home.



Buyer beware.





Oh, and btw.....



"I'll monitor and weigh in when the bs gets too thick.

 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  



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BS...some schools, the better ones, don't need to give referral fees.
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« Reply #27 on: June 16, 2006, 10:47:00 PM »
Indded, sir.  :lol:
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« Reply #28 on: June 16, 2006, 10:55:00 PM »
The next person to mention the "better schools" without mentioning names will die of a brain embolism.
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« Reply #29 on: June 16, 2006, 10:56:00 PM »
read the thread's title...for one
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