Just read some more of your responses>
I am not an idiot, and yes, I will help my son pay for college, he is the one who wants to go to community college out of the state of Alaska. Why doesn't he want to be here, not because of me, sure maybe some, but I won't know until I see him in June, but because he owes people money from his past gambling issues, and he has told me so in a letter and on the phone.
Someone asked if Greg has expressed his feelings to his Dad about his Dad not going to his graduation. I don't know. I asked my son about this and he said it is ok. My Mom (85 years old) was going to go with me, but recently fell and fractured her left shoulder, and can't fly right now, and Greg understands that. My Mom and I are giving Greg a laptop and printer for his grad. present.
Good question, what is wrong with the Father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for asking!! Too long of a story to tell you, but in my marriage to him, he was the controller, now he is married to a Russian woman and they have two kids together, and Greg's Fathers wife controls everything, which is a horrible shame. Greg's Father is missing out on a lot with Greg.
You are right I am too emotionally involved, and my son turns 18 tomorrow, and I will step back and let him make his own decisions, good or bad. Have to see how it turns out.
He is nervous about being here for 4-5 days, I know it, as he has told me, and the car (a jeep) that his Dad is going to give to him, Greg wants to park it in my garage, and I asked why, and he told me he is afraid of who might realize that he is here.
Someone said, that I am too emotionally frial for the job as my son's parent, but I may be, but I am doing the best I can. He wrote me a letter after the first day of wilderness and also after 1 week of the Ranch, and he was not mad at me. Thanksgiving I was with him, and he was not mad at me, but said he would work hard on his grades and wants to do better in life, that hanging with his "so called friends as he put it", put himself in the hole and the deep end, and actually 2 so called friends ratted on Greg, and I told him about it, and he wasn't happy.
Someone said, "Let's get the bitch in a program", I resent that you said that, but say what you want to say, I did what I did, and that is that. None of you know about Tyler Ranch, so I guess this is the end for me, but if you don't mind, I will from time to time read some of your posts.
Thanks
Leslie
ps, I am not a bitch, I am not an idiot, and I do care and love my son and he knows it, in fact if you don't believe me, I'll let you call him when he is home.