And for those of you who want to bash me, hey I know who I am, what I do, and why I do it, I can lay my head on my pillow at night knowing I am doing the right thing. I have learned over time, those who throw these slingshots are more in a position to have to look in the mirror and reevaluate themselves.
Have a great day!
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Ok, why do you keep making that same statement when...
1. abuse accusations are unaddressed
2. the isolation abuse and the fact that it allows other abuse to occur is just the big pink elephant in the room, even still?
3. "Intervention" used to "Wear them down until they cant hide whats really going on anymore" is talked about in much the same way anyone would talk about cutting their toenails, and yet its not such a mundane thing, when "wearing someone down" is called TORTURE by any other means
4. THERE IS STILL NO PROOF ANY OF IT WORKS, AT ALL!Something we've been saying for years is all of this nonsense is just for the parents, so they feel better, and feel like theyre 'doing the right thing'. Period. Its not all about you, sometimes you have to deal with the fact that that other human being has needs and wants himself or herself, and your own emotional needs have to be put on hold for their own sake.
That said, the utter lack of a real education, the lack of communication, condoning abusive practices (such as that isolation) and psychological torture so they go through a regression and disclose all their personal shit to someone with zero consent and no escape, and the lack of evidence it works, cant be ignored. That, combined with all the struggling turkeys going on about "I want my old kid back" and crying about it really leads me to wonder who this is all for and WHAT is all for.
Children grow up and their adult selves are no more like their childhood selves than you are like your childhood self. You have to make them able to be independant, not dependant on a program and/or yourself, if you want them to be adults. Training obedience and disclosure are two of the worst thinks you could ever drill into an adults head, unless you plan on living in a fascist/communist state in the future.
And yeah, guess what? Criticism is essential, and its not 'bashing'! Programs and ST are very critical of us and of children but never of themselves. What goes around comes around, at least where nobodys censored, like here. Maybe you should take a look into that mirror you hold at arms length, facing everyone else, sometime, anon.