Author Topic: Information Please for my daughter ..I am trying to get her (Read 23616 times)

Antigen · « **Reply #45 on:** March 01, 2006, 02:18:00 PM »

Julie, I'd rather walk, thanks very much.

Niles, I've just been busy, that's all. Rebooted awhile back and never got around to running the chat clients. They're on now.

In any civilized society, it is every citizen's responsibility to obey just laws. But at the same time, it is every citizen's responsibility to disobey unjust laws.
--Martin Luther King

odie · « **Reply #46 on:** March 06, 2006, 03:48:00 PM »

I was asked my opinion on this situation so here goes. The crucial piece is the court order. It is not unusual to see a child in the system get committed to the Dept. of Juvenile Justice until age 19. It is however very unusual to see a court order state that a child is commited to a particular placement for that time. While a child is in the Juvenile Justice system, they, not the parents are the legal guardians regardless of which parent had custody once they have been committed to a facility. One thing I would try to get though is a copy of your daughter's master treatment plan and all of its updates. The program must justify keeping her there in writing and that is where you will get answers.

To err is human; to forgive is simply not our policy.

-- MIT Assasination Club slogan

floridatreasure · « **Reply #47 on:** March 07, 2006, 10:46:00 AM »

She has completed her master treatment plan. I have not gotten all of her updates from them, but they have stated she has finished her MTP.Is this important to the judge and djj?

Anonymous · « **Reply #48 on:** March 07, 2006, 03:18:00 PM »

If she has completed her Master Treatment Plan they must provide an updated revision otherwise there is no reason for her to still be there. I'd check with them once more and if you don't get a copy of the revision I want you to go back to the judge and let him know.

odie · « **Reply #49 on:** March 07, 2006, 03:19:00 PM »

Last post is mine. Don't understand how I get logged out when I move from forun to forum.

When we talk to god, it's prayer. When god talks to us, it's schizophrenia.
--Lily Tomlin, American actress

floridatreasure · « **Reply #50 on:** March 07, 2006, 05:57:00 PM »

I don't want to upset them, I am trying to keep the peace...Should I just call them and ask them for a update on her MTP? How do I get back in front of the judge? This is been one of my Big problems.

odie · « **Reply #51 on:** March 08, 2006, 11:15:00 AM »

I guess setting up an appointment with her caseworker at the program may be the easiest way to get answers. Then they can tell you why your daughter is still there and what she is required to do in order to complete the program.

The fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one.
--George Bernard Shaw, Irish-born English playwright

floridatreasure · « **Reply #52 on:** March 19, 2006, 10:08:00 AM »

Hello Three Springs,
I am sorry I am just getting back to you, and Thank you for your concern. I had gotten pretty sick and down over all of this with my daughter. Also she is on her weekend homesday visit now, I have to take her back Monday. She just breaks down and cries so much, she said to me "Mom I just don't think I can hold on much longer, I feel like I am loosing my mind because of the mind games they are playing" My Daughter was a happy-go-lucky type of daughter, she had a smile that would light up a room when she walked into one, and now I see such sadness in her eyes, and she is so nervous.
As for your questions
Yes she was ordered by the court,
and no I haven't been back in front of the judge ....that has been what I have been trying to find out how to do..
If you can give me Any help in How can I see the judge Please let me know.

Anonymous · « **Reply #53 on:** March 19, 2006, 11:27:00 AM »

Send her to a friend and claim she ran away.

Anonymous · « **Reply #54 on:** March 19, 2006, 11:34:00 AM »

Run like fuck. Just take her and GO to someone you trust, preferably in another state. Worry about legalities later. The odds of the authorities catching up with you are slim to none (they have bigger things to worry about).

DON'T SIT HERE READING THIS! GO!!

Anonymous · « **Reply #55 on:** March 19, 2006, 12:15:00 PM »

(By the way, I'm a fictional character, and I'm responsible for the last two posts. Whether or not you choose to take my advice is up to you, as I don't really exist. Doesn't stop me from kicking programmie ass, though.)

Antigen · « **Reply #56 on:** March 19, 2006, 02:50:00 PM »

Take her to a personal injury atty who works with a good psyche/medical team in another state to document the effects of the abuse. Stay there, don't come anywhere near Florida till it's time to testify against these lunatics. Even then, I'd keep your daughter out of their reach till at least her 18th birthday!

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.
-- Robert Heinlein

Anonymous · « **Reply #57 on:** March 20, 2006, 01:27:00 AM »

If you have not taken her back I am with the others - don't. Have you read about what happened to Martin Lee Anderson recently? And others like him? I know you are probably scared and intimidated by them. They are scary and intimidating people. But if you have any way to get out of the state with your daughter then why not do it, get to a lawyer and explain the situation, and go from there. How old is she? How long until she's 18? The damage they are doing to her could be irreversible if you continue to send her back. She will evenually blame you for taking her back there rather than do anything you could to protect her. At least that's how I would feel if I had told my mom that someone was abusing me and she kept taking me back. I don't care if they are the state, you are her mother, and it is your first responsibility to protect her - no one else is doing it, obviously. Just my opinion, for what it's worth.

floridatreasure · « **Reply #58 on:** March 21, 2006, 09:52:00 PM »

WOW...I am Shaking, My heart is pounding.....and I am in tears right now.....after reading these post. I had to take her back...PLEASE understand I love her with all of my heart & I Want her Home with me SO Bad It rips my heart out to take her back......
Three Springs, Endora Please email me at floridatreasure@earthlink.net as soon as you can.
Three Springs I have a lot of questions to ask you!!
I hope everyone else understands why I am asking TS & E to email me privately.....I AM SCARED to Death right now....BUT I want to Thank each and everyone of you for your support ...advice...and concern...

floridatreasure · « **Reply #59 on:** March 21, 2006, 10:36:00 PM »

To Everyone....My Daughter read all of the post while she was home and it really touched her how many people cared enough to write a post. She read them over and over, it really made her feel good that everyone is concerened and she wanted me to Thank everyone of you. She was going to post, but we had to go to her doctor and a bunch of other places, our time just ran out.
So I am Thanking you all from Both of us
PLEASE keep her in your prayers that things goes good and she is home REAL soon

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