Ok, first off Nobody is the adolescent moderator of this forum so I don't know which kid you think you're picking on. I'm the site admin and I'm probably older than you are.
But you're right about one thing; I do think the entire "troubled teen" industry is a sham. The entire industry rests and feeds on the faulty notion that any kid who isn't thrilled to death w/ everything must, therefore, be crazy.
It's an attractive deal for a certain kind of parents. It's like God in a bottle to you. It's just SO much easier to call the kid names like RAD and ODD than to consider that you have given them bad advice when you told them to respect all of their teachers and other authority figures.
Guess what? I know this may come as a total shock to you, but some people who are drawn to vocations that place them in authority over vulnerable others are drawn by a sadistic desire to control others. In other words, sometimes angry, rebellious, dissafected kids are right! Being kids, they don't always go about dealing with such problems in the most sensible, productive way. That's where you missed the boat, mom and dad. You were supposed to keep an eye on things, mediate and advocate FOR not AGAINST your kid when they came into conflict with others. It was never your job EVER to act as adjunct enforcer for the faceless social engineers behind the school system or the delusional Rambo area drug taskforce who see imaginary thugs and gangsters behind every bush.
It was your job to be ever and always on your kids' side, to provide safe harbour in a storm, unconditional love and acceptance. After they start growing up it's the KID's job to invent themselves as adults and to build their own lifestyle.
But when your kid decids that they most definitely do NOT aspire to be just like you (as I'm sure you did if you're really honest about it) it's just so much easier to call that a disorder than to consider that maybe you're not quite as cool as you thought you were.
[Religion is] the daughter of hope and fear, explaining to ignorance the nature of the unknowable.
--Ambrose Bierce