Sure. I am in complete agreement with you. I'm not looking for a diagnosis for me. I've had pleanty of those over the years from doctors, psychologists, church do-gooders, Alanon - etc., you name it. My point was this: the whole psychiatric profession (and the insurance companies) now recognize most all of the problems that folks suffer as real, diagnoable and treatable issues. Therefore, it is entirely possible because the diagnostic and treatment criteria exist, it would be entirely possible to measure the occurrence of such problems in a given population.
What I'd like to review or participate in is an independent, controlled study that might be able to once and for all take people who went through that program, or other similar programs, and show - OR no show- some difinitve correlation between the experience and the long-term effect.
As it is now, if I say the expereince was bad for me, except in a few instances, I am met responses such as - you would have been that way anyway; you're in denial (of my addiction I guess); it was a great place and you're ungrateful for the gifts. I see it all the time.
Jupiter, I like your observations and I completely understand. It does take time to work it all through and accept the part I played in my own demise vis-a-vis the seed. Being put in the was not a voluntary thing for me, but taking on the training and accepting and embracing that I was a worthless, full of shit, lying human being, and professing the same, negating the existence of my sexual being and turing away from good people who never harmed me in order to just be able to go home, go to school, or get off the whole program - now that has taken it's toll on my soul for 'lo these many years.
And my parents, bless them, have watched me for years trying to come to some understanding - waiting patiently for me to see the creative, loving kid they knew long before they put me in the seed, who was buried under all that I heaped on myself.
Obviously the experience wasn't the same for every person who walked through the doors, voluntarily or not. So perhaps others really were worthless, full of shit, lying human beings as they profess. I hope not, but their perception of the experience does not invalidate mine any more than the other way around. But still, I seriously doubt any of them were all that bad. No matter how negative a picture they paint of themselves.