First off, thank you for your response. It's already comforting to realize that the emotions you felt are right in line with my own. One of the things that is hardest for me every day is thinking that I'm the only person on the planet that thinks the way I do. I look at everyone I encounter on a daily basis, which is quite a few because I'm still in college, and just view them with this overwhelming jealousy because they can live what I see as a "normal" life, while I'm trapped in my mind berating myself and trying to achieve for myself what they have, whatever that may be.
Sometimes I think that all the BS that CEDU confronted me with, the "bubble", the false sense of comfort/pain in raps, the scrutiny of things that are perfectly normal in the outside world, set me up expecting a reality that simply didn't exist. I was at Boulder Creek for the long haul...I did not stay for my Summit, but was pulled only one week shy of it. When I left, I had such clear cut expectations of the happiness the outside world would bring to me. I was expecting some euphoric existence, and it did not take me long to realize that that's not what I was in for.
I do realize that I'm lucky enough to have some sort of perspective on who I am as a result of CEDU, but the confusion is still too much for me to handle. A rollercoaster is the perfect way to look at it; some days I wake up, get in the car, and drive to campus feeling like I own the world. I am so happy to be alive, I love every aspect of my life, and I just feel in control. But then, in the blink of an eye, it all shifts to the other end of the spectrum. I feel I'm missing out on everything, life just seems overwhelming and utterly painful, and I just don't even want to be alive. I never felt like that before I was sent to CEDU, and I can never tell if it was simply because I was only 14 back then and had no grip on reality, or if it is because of the false reality CEDU set me up for.
It's not that I'm not trying hard in life; I work so hard every day with nothing but the blind faith that some day it will all be ok. It's just hard to put it into words. I feel as if at some point during those 2 and 1/2 years that I was de-railed from the normal flow of life and haven't been able to find my way back since. I question and scrutinize every friendship I have, it's become a task just to forgive people for the smallest things...I just constantly feel like I'm going it alone. So is it just me? Or does this ring true for any of you that have had the patience to read this far...