Why not talk to your cousins parents yourself about what to watch out for? You know the typical bullshit - the seminars or "open meetings", the cutting off of contact with the outside world, stupid rules and levels, no privacy, saying your kid will lie to get out and telling ahead of time what they'll say to get out (which is just PREEMPTIVE COVERING OF YOUR ASS) especially...
Its going to take some Bravery on your part, but talking about the stuff to look at for that makes ANY program bad, is exactly what you should do.
If CARE is a good program, it has nothign to worry about, but if it does that shit, then yeah, its bad and should be looked out for, and in my personal opinion the whole program 'model' and paradigm is bullshit anyway.
Goodluck, MamaBird.
When Plunder becomes a way of life for a group of men living together in a society, they create for themselves in the course of time, a legal system that authorizes it and a moral code that glorifies it.
--Fredric Bastiat
