I was very up-front with my two oldest girls, they knew I was a recovering alcoholic and I related what happened to me in high school in terms of a warning along the lines that, "it runs in the family / its in the genes" as when I researched and found that there a number of alcoholics in my grandparents generation (mother's side)and the fact that three of their uncles were in AA as well. I told them that I had done just about every drug that was out there and got hooked on a couple, and I could advise them on this, friends, peer pressure, "boys", screwing up & doing good. It provoked more than a few conversations / discussions. But I had to realize (and come to accept) that they had to make their own mistakes & do their own "research" on the subject, hopefully they'll pull through, I pray, offer it up to my higher power, try to be there for them, but know my limitations. As to the "general public" ie friends, co-workers, etc.., I am selective about who & what I say & to what extent I relate my background. Alot of it depends on the person & their background. There are very few people in todays world that have not either done drugs, have family members, sons, daughters, sisters, brothers or know people in their lives that have not been touched by it. I cetainly don't hide it, I embrace it, after all it is a big part of who I am. You either learn from the past or you are destined to repeat it (as they say)I can attest to that personally.
Chris Lewis
Seed 74-75
AA - 91 -...