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« on: June 09, 2005, 11:58:00 PM »
Parent ? Staff Relationships: Successful parents recognize that the relationship they establish with the treatment staff will ultimately affect the quality of relationship they have with their child. Form a strong, supportive bond at the beginning of treatment with your child?s professional care-giving team. The parent-staff relationship is especially vulnerable in the early phases of care when trust and confidence is just beginning to grow. This is because the child will attempt to sabotage and undermine their parent?s trust in the staff so that they can manipulate their way out of responsibility and growth. If a child can create distrust in the minds of parents for treatment staff, they can successfully jam the treatment process and escape accountability. Teen ? Staff Relationship: The rapport that develops between your child and staff is critical to growth. If a relationship of trust and mutual respect does not form, it is highly unlikely that positive growth will occur. For this reason, successful parents do not resent positive relationships that form between their child and staff, and they do everything possible to promote and encourage this relationship. Parents that rescue their children by interfering with this relationship diminish the potential for their child?s true growth. Wise parents do not necessarily buy into their teen?s complaints, but encourage them to work it out with their team staff. Develop from the beginning a trusting relationship with your staff. Make the staff earn your trust, but also listen to them and help them when at all possible.

Stay the Course
Positive growth is a process, not an event. Successful parents realize this and stay the course until sufficient growth has been realized. Resistive teens typically go through a limit-testing stage and a manipulation stage before they get serious about working their program. The testing stage is frequently characterized with angry outbursts, holding their love and future relationships with their parents hostage if they are not released. The manipulation stage includes heart-wrenching pleading, plea-bargaining, making promises that often they cannot or intend to keep, and trying to frighten parents with fantastic accusations of staff brutality, abuse, and neglect. They know their parent?s buttons and will readily push them if they feel it will be to their advantage. They do this because they do not want to be held accountable or face their issues. Successful parents do not pull their child out of treatment too early or at the first sign of progress. They realize that outer behavior is the beginning of change, not the end. They allow the changes to be internalized through sustained practice. They wait to see that their teen can sustain self-management of problems before they agree to end treatment.

Empower True Change
True change comes not by force or coercion, but by your teen acquiring and applying five important powers in their life. These powers are briefly explained below.
Empower Responsibility: One of the first signs parents should look for in their child?s growth is an awareness and honest admission of responsibility. You should promote openness and trust in your child so that they can feel empowered to take responsibility for their program. Remember that blaming, fault-finding, and rescuing diminish your child?s ability to be honest and take responsibility for accepting help from others. You can empower your child by modeling honesty and kindness and understanding.
Empower Resolution: Successful parents empower courage to make commitments and resolutions. Most children fail to make resolutions because they lack hope, vision, and trust in themselves and others. Successful parents model their willingness to recognize and admit their own weaknesses and mistakes, and they expect their child to do the same. Express love and hope and confidence in your child during treatment.
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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2005, 12:00:00 AM »
Here's the website - it is quite manipulative and I'm sure it is there to difuse the many reports of abuse and neglect.

http://www.provocanyon.com/news.html

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« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2005, 12:58:00 PM »
"The parent-staff relationship is especially vulnerable in the early phases of care when trust and confidence is just beginning to grow. This is because the child will attempt to sabotage and undermine their parent?s trust in the staff so that they can manipulate their way out of responsibility and growth. If a child can create distrust in the minds of parents for treatment staff, they can successfully jam the treatment process and escape accountability"

Notice how they warn parents that the child will attempt to sabatoage and undermine - that they will manipulate.  This is what parents are fed when they choose such a program for their child.
Notice all of the negative remarks made about the child on this Provo Canyon School website. Unfortunately too many parents buy into this and don't believe their children when they report abusive conditions.  

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« Reply #3 on: June 10, 2005, 07:03:00 PM »
PC has a professional staff now? When did they start that?

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« Reply #4 on: June 10, 2005, 08:46:00 PM »
They do have a professional staff - and most go home after 5 pm.  Each child is assigned a therapist - and each has a case load. I don't know how many therpists are there - about 5 - and then there's Dr. Crist - who has been there for over 20 years.
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« Reply #5 on: June 11, 2005, 02:03:00 AM »
http://www.provocanyon.com/fascinating_students.html

It looks like slave labor is a privlage at Provo Canyon School. Only 70 of the over 100 girls were ALLOWED to pick apples for 2 hours. That means that 30 or more girls were not allowed outside.  There have been so many reports of students being cooped up for months at a time - not being allowed outside to breath fresh air.

Then they gave the apples to the people who live near the school - Those people live in the nicest homes in Orem. In my area those homes would cost about 2 million dollars.

Hardly the impoverished.  

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« Reply #6 on: June 13, 2005, 03:03:00 PM »
Provo Canyon has way too many ghosts in their closet for me. You can find plenty of info on them at isaccorp.org, caica.org, and right here on fornits.com.
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« Reply #7 on: June 14, 2005, 01:01:00 AM »
Once you got to the upper level, we were actually forced to pick apples...only then the apples were being sold to profit lord-knows-who.  We were never told.  We began to complain about it, hinting at Fair Labor Practices and things like that, and I remember they got kinda worried...maybe we started to get paid for our time, after that, but I can't remember.
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« Reply #8 on: June 14, 2005, 01:13:00 AM »
The "professional" staff includes school teachers, who were really quite excellent (better than any teachers I had in public school at home).  They did what they could, considering we didn't have access to things like science labs, and considering their classes often had kids of mixed aptitudes-  I remember in one higher-level science class ("anatomy and physiology"), and an upper-level history class (upper level meaning 11th or 12th grade or AP), we had an assignment due every week, which involved coloring a picture (of an American Indian, or a cell or organ, whatever).  We actually got graded on this.  

Other progessionals may include the therapists, who (I am assuming) must all be certified.  

But what PCS fails to disclose is that the people who most directly work with the kids, and implement the program, as well as evaluate their performance; those who have the most dealing with the kid are NOT progessionals-  they lack college education, ect...and all the other things I have written previously about these people.  

Parents, if you are reading this, and considering sending your child to PCS, ask them lots of questions...ask tough questions (ex:  level of education of program staff), and do not back down if you receive an evasive answer!  Let them know you will not be manipulated (because everyone knows that once your kid is there, anything the kid says that is not praising the program, they will tell you that your kid is "manipulating" you).  Inquire about how much time the children spend outdoors ON ALL LEVELS OF THE PROGRAM.  Listen carefully and do not settle for half-ass answers.
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« Reply #10 on: June 14, 2005, 05:23:00 PM »
Hopefully no parent who researches Provo Canyon School will be foolish enough to pay upwards of $12,000 per month for torture therapy. I was there and toured the facilty with my daughter.  We asked tough questions and got answers. We were told the all of the children get to go outside at least every 72 hours "weather permitting."  This is a loophole that allows them to keep them in constantly if the weather is too hot, too cold, too much rain, too much snow, too windy - whatever.  They also showed us the observation room - concrete walls, concrete floor, thin pad.  When asked how long children are kept there the answer was "Oh about 15 minutes or until they cool down."  Until they cool down was the loophole - this could be all day - three weeks - whatever.  Questions are answered and loopholes are always given.

In Utah there are loopholes in the laws that are supposedly in place to protect the mentally ill. Every law has a loop hole that allows staff to abuse and torture the mentally ill.  
This is why NO ONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND SHOULD SEND THEIR CHILD TO A residential facility in the STATE OF UTAH.  
My advise - try something less drastic and if that fails keep your child close to home so you can visit daily. If a facility does not allow daily visitation and phone calls then it's suspect. They should also provide family counseling at least weekly.  

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