Its a Mercedes S class 430
they bought it new
i was living with an abusive jerk, which they knew, and I was desperate to get away from, which I told them
and they were giving me no money
same as when they kicked me out at 18
and they are buying a brand new mercedes S class
it's so stupid, cars are a crappy investment
I can't figure out how much the stupid car would have cost new
the 2007 and 08 Mercedes S class are really really expensive
cars are a horrible investment aren't they?
as far as I can tell by looking
you pay a ridiculous amount of money for a status symbol
and it drops in value by 20,000.00 in four years!
that's horrible
if they had put a down payment on a good investment condo
it would have gone up by 20,000.00 in four years
even with the housing market the way it is in my area the condo's went up that much since 2002
There are these really nice two bedroom condo's right next to a greenway
safe and suburban and everything, near all the corporate parks for 87,000.
they just put in new apartments next to them that are going for 150,000 for a one bedroom.
they are a total steal, we could have sold the stupid thing a couple years later or rented it and made 35,000 dollars not lost it,
and I wouldn't have been abused some more, been attacked and terrified in the ghetto or driven all over creation trying to find some place to live safely. Instead my parents abuse me and then yell at me when the ghetto apartment wants to charge them a thousand dollars to break the lease because I don't want to live there after being mugged.
What the hell do they think happens to little girls living alone in bad neighborhoods.
They cause the damn problems with their violent irrational abusive behavior, it doesn't help with trying to find a good job either if i feel like I'm worthless and horrible, which they very much promote
or if everything here is at some horrible level of abusive crisis.
my father really bitches about every penny, the grocery bill at least twice a week as viciously as he can.
my father made me cut back on classes so I could work more, wouldn't listen to me when I said i make seven dollars an hour and then yells at me because school is taking longer then it should
he also abused me into transfering, which turned my academic hopes into a nice knarly mess
I'm living with them as cheaply as possible and he's yelling about the food I eat
He made life so horrible i had to cut back on classes and work thirty hours a week, he told me to join the army when I tried to talk to him about maybe trying to find a different job and has been really nasty about me trying to go to school full time so I can finish.
It seems like they are not trying to help me get anywhere like nice loving parents it just seems like they want to keep me crippled so they can abuse me more.
I got into one of the schools I applied to, the one in the city where I live hasn't gotten back to me yet again, but the one I got into is in state but a hour or two away.
My father had the nerve to say it was too far, that if I had any problems what would I do? what the hell.
Like New Mexico wasn't too far? He liked that idea because it cost him so little money, it doesn't cost much to put your pretty young daughter up in a clap board shack, no joke it was an actual ghetto house shack, across from the college a couple thousand miles away.
I think he was sending me off to die, it was really dangerous
or to be molested again as punishment.
these people are scary.
The only reason I wanted to go that far away is because I didn't have any where to live here in NC. My apartment was infested with my screaming ex boyfriend who's help I needed to pay my rent. I asked my father about helping me get an apartment here but guess what he bought a new S class mercedes and said no.
It was too expensive here, i had to live with abusive guy.
i haven't had a safe place to live in a really really long time
He keeps talking too about how I keep changing schools, like that's my fault.
He made me change out of the school I was just in because it was private tuition, I was doing well and happy, but one semester of private tuition and he's throwing an abusive fit. He told me twice last week that I should join the army. There's an idea, send her off to a muslim war zone, the ghetto was a better one. I didn't have anywhere to live at the weird little school that would except me half way accross country, but I got really good grades it, too.
The proper way to go about all this would have been,
rather then kick your 18 year old out to marry a 28 year old
after putting her in a prison camp for to years where she didn't do any homework,
is to make sure she has a place to live and isn't forced to live with some weird guy who wants to marry a vulnerable kid.
Again my mother was really pushing for that marriage
and my father would have liked it to, he never would have had to pay for me to live again, pawn her off on someone.
I didn't have any choice in that, my mother kicked me out and called the police and said my father pushed her and she didn't want me in her house, at 18.
I hadn't done anything, she was giving me the PV party line as I got ready to go to work and was making breakfast and i yelled at her and tried to tell her what PV was really like.
She literally pushed me out the door and started throwing stuff after, my father apparently pushed her out of the way to let me back in?
I don't know, all I knew is one second I was in my house getting ready to go to work, and they next psycho abusive mom is throwing a fit, the cops are interviewing my father the wife beater, and my father was driving me over to this guys house I had been out with a few times.
i didn't have a car so I lost my job and failed the class I was enrolled in at 18 to help me get re-acclimated with the whole school process after two years with no homework and PV abuse.
This was right out of the damn prison camp.
Is is so much to ask to make sure your very young badly traumatized daughter has a safe place to live.
and they have the nerve to say anything to me about being responsible, they are not responsible, they are abusive, hairbrained and nuts.
They spend at least 50,000.00 on a car and then scream about the grocery bill, how responsible is that.
i could have gone to the community college and transferred with some support, do you know how hard it is to study when you have to share a one bedroom apartment with an alcoholic.
it would be simply stupid, bad parenting and abusive if they didn't have any money
but they have enough money to buy a new mercedes and have a live in maid, we had the live in maid when I got out of PV, so they pay a thousand dollars a month ++ so my mom doesn't have to do anything but they can't help me with a place to live. I just want them to give me a small settlement, so I can get an apartment, work and finish school.
I can do it to of course. I'm not an 18 year old or even a 21 year old kid. I'm a very world wise adult woman who has been living between hell, disaster, abuse and crisis for a very long time.
For a while fallout from all of this really kicked my ass too, i felt pretty crushed under all the just abuse and horror I've seen.
It's hard for a young person to process well the level of hell and not just get to feeling crushed.
At 21 I was so shy I couldn't make eye contact with people or talk to them, i had no confidence, i had really bad just emotional wounds, forget scars.
Now after years of surviving this and getting good grades and even years of working crappy retail jobs, i feel ok. If i could get out of this house i would feel amazing.
i am an adult, i don't need my parents to guide and teach me any more
which is good because their guidance and teaching basically made my life absolute horror. Children and young adults need parents to tell them how to navigate life and to keep them safe. As an adult I know how it works, I might not have any money to make it work but at least I am not so crushed by it? Or at least I don't need them to be anything other then the abusive horrible people they are. Oh wait i need them to give me money so I do need them to not be abusive and to let me go, something abusive people never ever want to do. Damn I am still screwed.
