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« Reply #735 on: July 30, 2007, 01:19:04 AM »
One more thing Mokara or whoever the fuck you are.... Seems to me in MY OPINION... that you think all men are scum. Women are weak and vulnerable, we need to be protected. Well, only if that is the way a woman chooses to be, meaning viewed as weak, vulnerable, highly prone to being abused, and unable to defend themselves, that is not everyone. Myself for one, will never let a man, woman, whoever, take control of me. Id kill them first. Yes in PV i had no choice, but that was different. I am not one who is defenseless. Most people who know me, know not to fuck with me. Not saying im some hardcore bitch, matter of fact those who treat me with respect, I treat like gold to the best of my ability. THose Who FUCK with Me, like PV, and any other motherfucker, Im going to make them pay one way or the other.
We as women, need to stand up for ourselves and not sit and sulk with the fact that we were born female.
No matter what sex we are, we can either choose to allow ourselves to continue to be walked over and seen as weak, or we can stand up, tall and proud, with fists raised.

And once again, Leave TSW alone.

But think about what i just wrote. In all my power, I will never allow a motherfucker to walk over me like some doormat. Everyday is a good day to die, if ur fighting for whats right.
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« Reply #736 on: July 30, 2007, 01:21:05 AM »
Quote from: ""SettleForNothingLess""
One more thing Mokara or whoever the fuck you are.... Seems to me in MY OPINION... that you think all men are scum. Women are weak and vulnerable, we need to be protected. Well, only if that is the way a woman chooses to be, meaning viewed as weak, vulnerable, highly prone to being abused, and unable to defend themselves, that is not everyone. Myself for one, will never let a man, woman, whoever, take control of me. Id kill them first. Yes in PV i had no choice, but that was different. I am not one who is defenseless. Most people who know me, know not to fuck with me. Not saying im some hardcore bitch, matter of fact those who treat me with respect, I treat like gold to the best of my ability. THose Who FUCK with Me, like PV, and any other motherfucker, Im going to make them pay one way or the other.
We as women, need to stand up for ourselves and not sit and sulk with the fact that we were born female.
No matter what sex we are, we can either choose to allow ourselves to continue to be walked over and seen as weak, or we can stand up, tall and proud, with fists raised.


But think about what i just wrote. In all my power, I will never allow a motherfucker to walk over me like some doormat. Everyday is a good day to die, if ur fighting for whats right.


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« Reply #737 on: July 30, 2007, 01:26:44 AM »
how do you know him?  Doesn't he live in Korea, he used to be a counsilor
a lot of the people on this thread have been weird, no offense.
have you just talked to him through Fornits or on the phone
please explain
he told me to get laid, he's in everything and I don't know him?
he just sort off jumps in and comments on what I have to say
like I'm not looking for random comments by some guy who I don't know and who wasn't in PV and who tells me to get laid?
did you see the bear, it looked like PV staff running in to save the day?
PTS paranoid says what?
but he is bossy, who the hell is he anyway?
seriously have you talked to him on the phone and do you know him?
i've talked to him online now for a while and he's bossy
I kind of just expected to post here and have other people post their experiences.
instead i get comments and sexual stuff and hardly anyone else ever posts stuff about PV they just yell at me
and did you see the picture of the womens private part sewn shut?
it was horrible and there has been a bunch of really threatening stuff.
it's just confusing.
i've been ignoring it and just posting stuff
like how bad a lot of the medications they give out in PV are for you, and how common abuse of women is and how hard it is to get into colleges and so on
just stuff that I see that i think makes PV look as bad as they really are  

i don't spend a lot of time in chat rooms but when I do it always seems random and weird. with lots of sexual stuff and people are always so nasty really,  problems with anonimity I guess.
again though how do you know Waygookin?
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« Reply #738 on: July 30, 2007, 02:02:06 AM »
he is a good friend of mine.. i know him well... that is all i am going to say about it on here..
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« Reply #739 on: July 30, 2007, 02:12:20 AM »
if you can tell from my posts I'm not exactly a wimp
I'm not the one who perceives women as sex objects to be molested or sweet and nice and vulnerable delicate little flowers.
My boss see's women like that I think, and me, mainly because I get fired if I'm not polite and nice and places like PV make you feel so bad about sticking up for yourself you feel like your going to be restrained every time you do.
if I get fired i can't use the place I've worked for the last year as a reference, and I won't have any money,
without any money I am really vulnerable.
i told my boss i needed a raise and basically just put it politely on the line, it is my boss after all, and he threatened me with loosing my job for the next two weeks.  I work at a big bookstore too, it shouldn't be this bad.
I've had it with it and I'm going to start looking for a better paying job or at least one where I don't have to work such long hours for such little pay.
I sure can type fast.

I honestly feel sorry for the the guy that trys to do something to me at this point,
not only do i know all the legal ways to throw the book at the bastard and boy will I be sure too,
no chance of it going unreported put it that way,
 between the tazer, the dog, pepper spray and a couple pocket knives he's not going to be in good shape.
also I'll make sure he goes to jail and stays there.
of course if he has a gun I'm still in big trouble
and it happens, there are really crazy guys out there, not all guys,
but it happens.
i was flashed at the park on a wednesday afternoon and attacked by a neighbor both pretty badly in under a year.
that says most guys don't attack you but you meet a lot of people in a year
apparently about two a year will
I fought the one guy off and the other guy was bare ass naked and played with himself for a good fifteen minutes and I couldn't do anything because he was on the one path back to my car and there was water on one side and swap on the other.
I had the dog a knife and pepper spray but of course my cell phone was in my car.
It was a nice normal park too, I was studying for a test

If anything the advice i give on this site empowers women.
it tells clearly how society and sexist men treat women and what to do about it and how to keep yourself safe in relation to it.
otherwise women feel alone and don't report stuff or they get beaten down and shut up.  
you have to know how to handle the laws in relation to sexism and abuse and what to expect, then you can navigate your way through.
half the time people seem to think in a different reality then they live in.

as for being poor, i work my ass off, i get really good grades
and I tell people to fight this fucked up system every way they can without hurting themselves.

I spoke up about PV when no one else had
and I have been threatened and had pictures of womens body parts with the caption "if you did this perhaps they wouldn't try to rape you"
posted under it.
Are you saying for the millionth time that women who are abused are at fault?
like my friend with the boyfriend she pepper sprayed and she got arrested?
She's at fault?
how old are you? give me a break
If you don't make a lot of money it is hard for women to get away from abusive husbands or boyfriends.
they don't stick around because they want too.
the other option isn't moving into a nice apartment at the beach usually.
If you recognize that women are often abused by men in one form or another, which they are, I've had sociology classes on it, then you can do things to fix and help the causes of abuse.
look at history and society all over the world?
Did we miss foot binding?  do you think this was an option for those women
in the 19th century women couldn't inherit property, on marriage everything they owned became their husbands, adultery was illegal because it involved a mans property his wife, A husband was allowed to beat his wife within some reason, like he couldn't kill her. there was no birth control and women had eight kids.  This wasn’t the fun choice of the women, but it dictated most of their lives.
It’s like saying slaves were wimpy for not fighting back more, they were kept down by violence abuse and social structure.
The guy with the more modern gun wins?

if you act like the women is being week and that is why she is being abused then you are in fact blaming the victim and it doesn't do anything to help her get away from abuse.

You know if you hit someone, threaten someone, use violence of any form whatsoever really in our society, you can be arrested and sued.
guys fighting in a bar with other dumb guys get assault charges.
sure you can defend yourself against a guy that's attacking you but even then, look at my friend who was arrested for pepper spraying her ex who had a knife.
Again how do you know three springs and who are you exactly?
are you Jersey girl or not?
not that i'm looking I thought you were the same person but i don't know you have a different name.
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« Reply #740 on: July 30, 2007, 02:23:06 AM »
Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 10:12 pm    Post subject: some of my postings on the Cafety site  

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sounds like from McGregors philosophy,
PV staff would definetely fall under Theory X rather than Theory Y

Theory X
assumes that workers are basically lazy, error-prone, and extrinsically motivated by money
they need simple tasks, close monitering, and incentives to work harder

Theory Y
assumes that, given challenge and freedom, workers are intrisically motivated to achieve self esteem and to demonstrate their competence and creativity.


hmm just another random but important thought....

Jersey Gurl




Money making ignoramouses is what PV staff is. Obviously they are so oblivious and ignorant as to what professionalism is. They try to speak so highly of themselves, yet their actions are sabotaging them. I wish a psychiatric evaluation could be done on them. The facades they try to put up about being this big shot, immaculate treatment facility, is so obvious to those who can read between the lines, are completely false.
They are immature as well and in a way demented. I mean where do people get off snickering and cackling at those in need of real medical and therapeutic attention. Are their patients just their entertainment? how could any of the staff there "love their job"? unless of course they are sick in their own ways.
Maybe the snickering and crude remarks about their patients is really them transferring their own feelings onto innocent victims of their abuses.
The restraints are how they get out their anger. I mean come on, at the drop of a hat for no reason, boom... their goes a patient onto the floor. The pressure applied is very strong. Its almost as if they are trying to squeeze out their issues going on in their unstable and sick minds. Kind of transference again except on a physical level.
Like the opposite of self mutilation. self mutilation is a way of escaping from dealing with negative emotions. Staff on the other hand, basically in a way, each restraint is like another cut onto their arm.
I know for myself, if I worked one day at Peninsula, or any of these horrid RTCs, I wouldnt be able to live with myself. These people who are the staff there, claim to love their job. What person in their RIGHT mind would love the job they have? I dont know... something just doesnt seem right with that whole issue.
are their lives simply that pathetic? or is their a much deeper issue here?
Like i mentioned briefly before, what ever happened to Personell Psychology?
Personell Psychology for those that do not know, is:
a subfield of industrial organiztional psych. that focuses on employee recruitment, selection, placement, training, appraisal, and development.


sounds like this "psychiatric treatment facility" should work on their own "psychological issues, first starting in their "professinal work enviroment" and second maybe with themselves

just a thought.

I found it.. in the introduction handbook

" Many times parents feel angry, anxious, sad, and even guilty, not sure if they have made the right decision. be prepared that your adolescent is aware of these feelings and either consciously or unconsciously may attempt to arouse feelings of guilt and anxiety. there are some typical ways that adolescents attempt to do this.
The most obvious example of this attempt is the full frontal guilt attack. ""why did you put me here? you do not care about me. If you take me out of here I will do anything, I have realized I was wrong, please give me one more chance. Ill Kill myself if you dont take me out of here"" these attempts directly attack your feelings of guilt, uncertainty, and fear for your child.
The second attempt is more subtle and involves your adolescent misinforming, lying, or telling half truths to raise feelings of guilt and anxiety. Typical examples include: "" My therapist told me it was your fault I am here. The staff does not know what they are doing.""
The third example is an attempt to exploit normal parental concerns regarding an adolescents safety. Examples include;"" they are not feeding me. Staff makes fun of me. My peer is a violent psycho. Compared to other kids here my problems are not that serious""
Do not let these attempts to make you feel guilty work. As long as your child believes that he/she might escape responsibility he or she will not change. Often adolescents are actually terrified of change and their oppositional and defiant behavior is a way of avoiding dealing with the painful aspects of their lives. So of course they are going to continue to try to avoid responsibility and introspection. "

that came straight from the introduction to PV guide given to parents.
sounds to me like a desperate attempt to trun parents against their own children in order to rake in the money for them to wipe their sorry excuse for lifes asses.
Those are pretty powerful lines of manipulation dont you think? sounds like Peninsula themselves are trying to make their pathetic attempts to convince you work for THEIR advantage.
Sounds like uh..what they used to call "Splitting" telling you one thing and them the other.
Staff ridicules you constantly, yet they are telling parents right there in black and white that if their adolescent is telling them this, that it is just an " attempt to directly ATTACK the parents feelings of guilt, uncertainty, and fear for their child."
PV should have learned that they should get their story straight and quit the lies because lies always come back to bite you in the fuckin ass.



PV also states that they cannot admit anyone with an IQ below 85
Sorry but most staff dont seem to be much over that themselves.

They cannot admit anyone who is diagnosed with psychosis.
They are Psychotic for thinking they can get away with this shit

They seem to prey on the vulnerable teens who have issues such as:

---Depression or mood disorder

The approach on this issue seems to be HIGHLY increasing it, also gives staff a reason to laugh if you cry or try to talk about it

---Drug or alcohol abuse

Pudgeboy Pegler fiends these types of issues. I think he gets off on it. The pound by pound perv

---Oppositional beahvior or conduct problems

Defy their bullshit, theyll tie you to a bed

---Effects of traumatic experiences

Ah, this one, they do a great job of making your trauma disappear and bring on a new one. Trauma=PV

---Self endangering or self injurious behavior

They have a great rating of helping increase such behavior

---Out of control behavior and the ability to accept adult authority

Open your mouth, your done.




Yours Truly


Jersey Gurl



My admission day to the village, from the beginning i knew i was in for a wild ride. It started with being escorted to the Village. I arrived in Knoxville and had one of those bad gut instinction feelings. I knew before I walked in this was not going to be pleasant. I was taken to the nurses station where I met with a nurse and then was brought up to STU now known as GAAU ((girls admission and assessment unit)). the place in itself is depressing. You walk through the doorways of hell. I was shoved into a metal chair in front of the staffs desk. I signed my life away. when i went to ask a question, i was shut down. then they said that I needed to be strip searched. my immediate reaction was fuck you you pervs. They led me into the bathroom where I had to strip all of my clothing except my underwear. Then they told me to pull my underwear to the side, bend over and cough to see if i was hiding anything in a territory that was private. I was crying and was told to quit being dramatic. I sat my practically naked ass on the cold floor when they told me to stand up, strip completley and take a shower in which the shower stall had half of a shower curtain. they told me it was to moniter me. this shocked me. i had never had anyone monitor my shower time. so i told them to go fuck themselves. with that i guess it infuriated them and two of the staff grabbed me by the arms and led me straight into the time out room. the room was bare. i had seen this shit in the movies but never actually experienced one. little did i know that that would become very familiar. I was told to sit with my back against the wall and not to talk. i needed to think about my actions. i was panic sticken. my anxiety was going through the roof. I threw up all over the floor in there which i was later made to clean up. then they asked me awhile later if i was willing to cooperate. i shrugged my shoulders and they showed me to my cubicle aka my bed. I was told once again to sit up straight with my legs crossed and not to look at anyone. If i could not follow this i would be escorted back to time out.
Well I was exhausted, so i leaned over onto my elbow. Some fat chick who was a patient and apparently one of the "trusted" saw me do this. she asked for permission to confront the new girl for laying down. I was like uh so what?! she was granted permission and she called a group. everyone stood. i was shocked i didnt know these robot patients were able to move. everyone was like a zombie. I didnt stand, for lack of this phenomenon not being explained to me. i was barked at the stand whenever group is called.
she confronted me and said thats all. everyone sat back down simultaneously. Drones i tell you.
Later on, i didnt give a shit so i laid down. fuck that fat bitch.
Staff came over and grabbed me by the arms and escorted me to the time out cubicle this time instead of the room because apparently the room was occupied. I was told to sit there not move and not talk and to stare at the wall of the cubicle. Well after awhile of sitting there, they gave me my meal which i ate on the floor. when i finished eating i stood up to go back to my coffin of a bed. Next thing I knew, I was grabbed, kicked in the back of the knees and fell to the floor. an extremely loud, obnoxious alarm went off. I was panic sticken worse than ever. what the hell is happening??? down on the ground I lay, face down with people sitting on me holding me down. one or two holding my legs, one on each arm, one sitting on my lower back, and one holding my head down when i tried to lift it up to breathe. I thought i was going to die. Felt my lungs collapsing. Still in shock, I vommitted once again. my face shoved back into it. ugh. What seemed like forever, they then picked me up, about 10 people. they carried me like some animal back into the forbidden time out room. i was stripped of my clothes by the staff and then dressed into hospital gowns with old blood stains on them. this is all while still being held down. later on, i was released and sent back to my bed. then there was group. i had to introduce myself and tell why i was in gowns. i had no idea why i was so i made some shit up.
later on there were showers and then some other sort of groups. i was told to make my bed just like every one elses. i didnt know what the standards for intricate bed making were so i made it like i did at home. i was yelled and criticised for that by some 23 year old counselor. finally after other bullshit, we went to sleep. if only i had been aware that bed time was the only semi peaceful time i would experience for the next 6 months.
damn


what a day what a day

Jersey Gurl


Mind control.. its how these fuckers get away with what they do.. first, breaking the barrier of the parents who are worried sick about their troubled teen.. I dream about being able to do something like hacking in to find out when admit request information is made and then quickly send out a packet of info of my own thats not bullshit... Corruption is what is killing this world. Everything is so corrupt now a days... I live in Jersey, so you dont have to explain corruption to me. The whole state and its government here is totally corrupt. All of our tax dollars and homeland security money go to the mafia. The real Tony Sopranos.
Im getting off subject here dont get me started on corruption here either.
Saying right in the handbook sent to parents it says that dont fall into your childs manipulation trap. They are going to tell you how horrible it is here at the Village. They might tell you that other patients are much worse off then they are and that this place is terrible....HMM i find that interesting to put in the Welcome to PV Hell handbook. Take it and shove it farther than anything has ever gone.
People who dont believe in the corruption and manipulation in facilities like this and others, are blind to reality. Of course when they have you speak to former patients parents, they are only going to tell you great things about PV. How much it helped and how it completely turned their childs life around. Im sure those "actors" are paid off well by Covenant Health. All they see in potential victims...cough...i mean patients, are $$$$ dollar signs $$$$
lets see how long we can pull this off they are saying to themselves I am sure.
Like they truly give a shit about the kids there. THey could care less. Its just another 9-5 job. Like look at one counselor whos name I wont mention. She is a counselor at PV and had websites with highly disturbing images on them that she calls her art and expression with photography.
i dont know but if this is someones hobby who is one of the counselors supposed to be helping societys "troubled" youth, then my god.
real smart also to post it up on the internet... it was not hard to find at all.
im not saying that people cant have their own weird fantasies and shit, god knows i do in other ways, but for a PV counselor to post it on the internet is first of all stupid to do for her own sake, proves lack of maturity, shows how well PV looks into who they hire. what ever happened to personell psychology when considering someone for a position? how unprofessinal on their part and also its not like we are talking about hiring someone to work the day shift at a 7-11.
This is supposedly a highly accredited treatment center.
I mean when I was employed at a local medical center, the screening proccess was very specific and difficult to get in to be able to work there. I went through lots of interviews and background checks and personality tests, drug screenings, etc before I was hired. I was just a patient transporter. These people are the ones "caring for" your troubled teens.
Maybe Im old fashioned and believe in carefully screening an individual before hiring them.

Also no one ever seems to want to answer any questions that you may have. It was told to me when I was at PV that every time I was restrained or my medication changed, that my father would be informed about it. I asked him about that and he said they would call once in a blue moon to relay the message.
Like I said before I also requested to report a grievance that I had, which was about my bruises and physical pain. Some lady who I have no idea who she was came and met with me awhile later.
there is no such word in PVs vocabulary such as privacy. It is completely invaded and is taken away from you. For instance and I know this is a nasty subject but it seems important, when you had your period, and you used the bathroom, you had to wrap up your used feminine product and then show it out the stall door before you could flush your toilet. That is just fuckin wrong man.
Our bathroom times were on their terms to and timed. Before you went into the bathroom you had to hold up either one finger for urinating, two fingers for shitting, and some weird hand gesture if you needed to also change your feminie hygiene product. Jeez I dont know but being timed on your time to piss or whatever you needed to do, thats just flat out fucking ridiculous.
you had 1 minute to pee, 2 minutes for #2 and an extra 30 seconds if you needed to change.
god damn.
haha i dont know it just makes me laugh when i think about some of this bullshit because thats what it truly is. BULLSHIT

I think this is enough for the minute, I have to go to the bathroom and I now am so thankful to have the priveledge of not being timed. hahaha


sorry for the grossness but it is important

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« Reply #741 on: July 30, 2007, 02:40:27 AM »
Yes it is me.. and just me alone... I am not blaming the victim.. I have had alot of shit happen to me too. But most people on here besides the stupid trolls, are hear for just that reason. We have had bad experiences. I am not saying that it is the victims fault. But in my cases, I try not to see myself as a victim anymore. I look at myself as a survivor who is now more enabled to kick some ass. If I was to choose to sit here and sulk, which at times I would much rather do, I would get no where in my work. Sure I have issues. Truth is most people do. Its just what people decide to broadcast. If I chose to, I could go on for days about all of the awful things that have happened to me. But Im no one special here, Im just me. Instead of posting about my issues on here, I work on them in therapy and such. I deem it inappropriate on my part to post it all on here. I will however post stories that I feel might help fight this troubled teen bullshit. Not for my sake of getting it all out, but for the kids sakes who are in PV and other places right now. If you really do want to help with this, on this thread, stick to PV and Program related stuff.. The other issues, I think should go into a different thread. Because if there is a parent sitting on here reading the PV thread and sees all the random threads, they might lose interest in keeping on reading it. So I am not telling you not to post on here, but maybe start another thread for non strictly PV stuff. The whole point of this thread is supposed to be to help inform about Peninsula Village.
If you would like, I will start another thread, or you can do so, a thread for posting anything you feel needs to be posted, however is not PV related. If we all really want to make an effort here to make people aware of Peninsulas bullshit, we need to stick to the topic. THe random posts, not just yours, but the random posts, tend to draw attention away from the thread and not towards it.
Im sorry if I got bitter before, Im just very frustrated with all I just explained here. I dont want the thread here to become a lost case, its important to stick to the subject on this here.
If you want to make other posts, that is fine, please just open a new thread, and post all you want. But the stuff on here should remain PV related.
No?
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« Reply #742 on: July 30, 2007, 02:41:00 AM »
In the words of Jersey chick
Open your mouth, your done.[/quote]
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« Reply #743 on: July 30, 2007, 02:43:13 AM »
I am not going to allow you to get to me.. I tried being nice.. I am not going to fight... this is stupid.... Just consider my last post.

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« Reply #744 on: July 30, 2007, 02:45:48 AM »
it tells clearly how society and sexist men treat women and what to do about it and how to keep yourself safe in relation to it.
otherwise women feel alone and don't report stuff or they get beaten down and shut up.
 you sound like three springs
again the guy was a counselor, and he told me to get laid
not saying he's satan just an overbearing ass, who's probably sexually harassed a women, goes to a strip once in a while and feminism makes him a little uncomfortable
I'm glad you don't want to be an enabler Jersey Chick but unless you are planning to give me a lot of money kiss my poverty stricken overworked underpaid  stuck abused ass
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« Reply #745 on: July 30, 2007, 02:47:38 AM »
Quote from: ""mokara""
In the words of Jersey chick
Open your mouth, your done.
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and no, if you read the post above yours here, you will maybe grasp what I am trying to say.
THis is a PV thread to make PV known for what they do and how they really operate.. Posts should stay strictly related to PV information. I never said dont post anymore, I just suggested opening another thread for that.
Thats all I am going to say anymore on this issue...
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« Reply #746 on: July 30, 2007, 02:48:14 AM »
if you can tell from my posts I'm not exactly a wimp
I'm not the one who perceives women as sex objects to be molested or sweet and nice and vulnerable delicate little flowers.
My boss see's women like that I think, and me, mainly because I get fired if I'm not polite and nice and places like PV make you feel so bad about sticking up for yourself you feel like your going to be restrained every time you do.
if I get fired i can't use the place I've worked for the last year as a reference, and I won't have any money,
without any money I am really vulnerable.
i told my boss i needed a raise and basically just put it politely on the line, it is my boss after all, and he threatened me with loosing my job for the next two weeks. I work at a big bookstore too, it shouldn't be this bad.
I've had it with it and I'm going to start looking for a better paying job or at least one where I don't have to work such long hours for such little pay.
I sure can type fast.

I honestly feel sorry for the the guy that trys to do something to me at this point,
not only do i know all the legal ways to throw the book at the bastard and boy will I be sure too,
no chance of it going unreported put it that way,
between the tazer, the dog, pepper spray and a couple pocket knives he's not going to be in good shape.
also I'll make sure he goes to jail and stays there.
of course if he has a gun I'm still in big trouble
and it happens, there are really crazy guys out there, not all guys,
but it happens.
i was flashed at the park on a wednesday afternoon and attacked by a neighbor both pretty badly in under a year.
that says most guys don't attack you but you meet a lot of people in a year
apparently about two a year will
I fought the one guy off and the other guy was bare ass naked and played with himself for a good fifteen minutes and I couldn't do anything because he was on the one path back to my car and there was water on one side and swap on the other.
I had the dog a knife and pepper spray but of course my cell phone was in my car.
It was a nice normal park too, I was studying for a test

If anything the advice i give on this site empowers women.
it tells clearly how society and sexist men treat women and what to do about it and how to keep yourself safe in relation to it.
otherwise women feel alone and don't report stuff or they get beaten down and shut up.
you have to know how to handle the laws in relation to sexism and abuse and what to expect, then you can navigate your way through.
half the time people seem to think in a different reality then they live in.

as for being poor, i work my ass off, i get really good grades
and I tell people to fight this fucked up system every way they can without hurting themselves.

I spoke up about PV when no one else had
and I have been threatened and had pictures of womens body parts with the caption "if you did this perhaps they wouldn't try to rape you"
posted under it.
Are you saying for the millionth time that women who are abused are at fault?
like my friend with the boyfriend she pepper sprayed and she got arrested?
She's at fault?
how old are you? give me a break
If you don't make a lot of money it is hard for women to get away from abusive husbands or boyfriends.
they don't stick around because they want too.
the other option isn't moving into a nice apartment at the beach usually.
If you recognize that women are often abused by men in one form or another, which they are, I've had sociology classes on it, then you can do things to fix and help the causes of abuse.
look at history and society all over the world?
Did we miss foot binding? do you think this was an option for those women
in the 19th century women couldn't inherit property, on marriage everything they owned became their husbands, adultery was illegal because it involved a mans property his wife, A husband was allowed to beat his wife within some reason, like he couldn't kill her. there was no birth control and women had eight kids. This wasn’t the fun choice of the women, but it dictated most of their lives.
It’s like saying slaves were wimpy for not fighting back more, they were kept down by violence abuse and social structure.
The guy with the more modern gun wins?

if you act like the women is being weak and that is why she is being abused then you are in fact blaming the victim and it doesn't do anything to help her get away from abuse.

You know if you hit someone, threaten someone, use violence of any form whatsoever really in our society, you can be arrested and sued.
guys fighting in a bar with other dumb guys get assault charges.
sure you can defend yourself against a guy that's attacking you but even then, look at my friend who was arrested for pepper spraying her ex who had a knife.

I reposted your story because it seemed relevant
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« Reply #747 on: July 30, 2007, 02:52:49 AM »
what the hell does me giving you fuckin money have to do with this??? POST all NON PV INFO on a seperate thread on here... the posts that are non pv related, draw people away from the thread. if you really are so ademate about exposing PV and helping the kids out and the parents gather information then you would take what I suggested into consideration instead of blowing it off....
I am not trying to attack you, god damn, all I am trying to do is say that this thread should stick to PENINSULA VILLAGE INFO.
THe other stuff is important too, if that is what you feel strongly about, then by all means, post it, just not in this thread.
WHAT IS SO HARD TO GRASP ABOUT THAT?
Are you trying to draw away the peoples attention to PV? I would hope not... Think about it.
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« Reply #748 on: July 30, 2007, 03:04:33 AM »
a lot of thanks i get for starting this mess.
no one had posted anything before i did a year ago
Zen might not have  known what PV was like

I post about relevant stuff otherwise women feel alone and don't report stuff or they get beaten down and shut up.
my life sucks, I work hard and get paid nothing for it, my family is abusive and I can't afford to get away from them, even though i  work hard and I can't afford to move out because i have to finish college
I have a year left of college and I don't  to make enough money to move out.
I have no moral support and my life is pretty abusive, my mother's thoughts on why I was stalked and molested at fourteen are "I was like a cat in heat."
again I was stalked and molested.
all the stuff i post i have seen and I am still in shock from
the ADD medicine is an amphetamine?
they arrest women who are being abused by their boyfriends for pepper spraying them, and release them into the custody of the boyfriend so they can abuse them more?
They have prison camps in America for anorexics, foster kids and abuse victims.
there aren't any real labor laws in my state and they can ask me to work 9 days ++ in a row for eight dollars an hour?
I've dealt with everything at this point without anyone to talk to or understand.
I thought people who had also been in PV might
thanks a fucking lot.
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« Reply #749 on: July 30, 2007, 03:11:41 AM »
it all relates to PV too,
Are you saying for the millionth time that women who are abused are at fault?
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