I think maybe some of the guys pretty immediate and extreme angry up in arms reactions to saying stuff about sexual harassment and women’s issues, might have to do with how the programs treat guys?
The programs love to use sexuality against vulnerable adolescents.
With the girls they make them feel like they deserved the abuse.
With the guys they probably cast them as abusers, some?
Makr them feel like they are sick and oversexed of something?
Telling you your a stalker because you called your girlfriend six times the week you broke up and yelled at her,
everyone has done that, myself included, and while you shouldn't probably, you are not a stalker.
Now if you call her six times a week for six months, she tells you repeatedly to go away and you threaten her, and the relationship was a month long one or she agreed to go out with you once maybe, yes your are probably a stalker.
The program made everyone feel like the guy jumping out naked from behind a tree, playing with himself. Sorry, even the girls
I can imagine that to the boys this would be a main theme program sexual abuse would take? Your normal sexuality is bad and deviant and a "sin" and such :roll:
I'm sorry I didn't think of this when I called you what the program probably told you you are, which you are certainly not, and if you are I'm sure the program abuse is didn't help.
The program takes normal adolescent sexuality male and female and makes it out to be perverted and horrible. I really think this is what is going on here.
I think you heard what I said out of context and took it personally.
I certainly do this?
Please understand I was not talking about you, and you are not whatever ugliness the program tries to infest your poor head with.
reactions are subconscious often I find.
I didn't know anyone pro program enough to be sadistic from the village?
Pro program kids usually just wanted family acceptance and had been taught to take all the blame and shame onto themselves. I don't think anyone I was in with was pro program really enough to be horrible. Again the girls I was in with were good people, oddly enough. really they were really good in relation to what PV tried to do to them, not an evil sadistic one in the bunch, believe or not. occasionally grouchy? Having the crap kicked out of you all the time whether you were all that pro program, good or not really doesn't help win support,
If PV could have suspended its sadism long enough to make sense it might have gotten more converts?
